Please no Passion Road.

Why?

Food tak best.

i do not want other people look down on us, so i planned a 26 days NZ honeymoon trip with Pre-wedding photo at there.

Which it can cover all the mouth of the relative that say us poor-fag or cheapskate.

Which consider Travel marriage.

dgaf about ppl's opinion la,janji you and your wife happy,sudah

no la, not high society, just average joe.. generally, they also invite the parents' relative and friends too.. my gf's mother have 11 siblings liao and not include the children etc already 11*2*2= 44. This does not include her parents; friends that she told me around 200. And how about father side? and my father got 9 siblings liao.. at least for relatives are already consist of 200 people. Not include our friends. she said this will be once in our lifetime so this is a must to have.
And the reality, I need to bear the costs 100%, sian..poor and pity me? If cannot do this, have house and car, she will not marry me coz her parents told her these are the requirements to marry her..

This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 7 2014, 09:02 PM

In our society have many people tell bad things..my gf and I don't care about people opinion but her parents care so much liao..how?

I also have planned to have honeymoon travel 21 days to Japan,Korea, and China But she told me her mother and her sister also wants to join walau
can I decline her mother to join?

This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 7 2014, 09:04 PM

Your society so keng meh? Masuk tabloid ka? Masuk TV ka?
If you're rich and don't mind paying for all then by all means go ahead,if not then tell them to pay for their own side or max you sponsor their 1st 10 tables

Grow a pair off balls la,tell both her mom AND sis should bugger off
Really,draw a f*ckin line for godsakes

This post has been edited by elimi8z: Apr 8 2014, 12:33 AM

Lol if you're bringing your in laws to your honeymoon, I have bad news for you.

I wouldn't mind bringing her sis if she was hot though

Lol. Kesian you. No komen. Hopefully your relationship will turn out well la.

I am not rich yet. If I tell max I sponsor them 1st 10 tables sure got rejected.. Yup, but how to decline? she has scary mother liao. too rigid and very strict.. I even often kena scold by her mother. coz of that I seldom go to her house.

what is the bad news?

Dude,just grow a pair la,don't tell me you like to suffer meh? Discuss with your gf 1st,if she also can't understand and be supportive of you,you may wanna think again if you're with the right person

Depends on why the in laws is going to your honeymoon.
-if it's her suggestion, then you have to consider why she is uncomfortable being alone in other places with you. It could be a sign that she's insecure with you, or she's very dependent on her parents.
-if it's your in laws suggestion, it shows that your in laws doesn't respect your boundaries. Expect your marriage to be full of surprises where your in laws keep interfering with everything both of you do.

Of course her mother bro, my gf often went with me alone to other cities and countries.. According to my gf, her mother also wants to join if I go fancy restaurant with my gf but I just ignore it..I don't know her mother also like wearing her sisters' clothes too although the clothes were given by her sisters' bf.. yes, suffer now..she also asked my gf to pay back the costs of raising her liao. And We will move another city to avoid her mother.

Just tell her you will bring her family to other trips instead of your honeymoon, and she will have to cough out part of the cost.

Honeymoon should be for both of you only.

Just curious, seeing that you mentioned her sister bf also faced with the same treatment, your gf and her sister were raised by her mother alone?

nope..got father but her father is totally 180 degree with her mother.

This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 8 2014, 02:00 PM

A very domineering mother?

You not sked your gf turn out that way in the future a?