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SUSleonhart88
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 Apr 6 2014, 05:59 PM
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QUOTE(Celestia @ Jan 6 2014, 05:30 PM) A+B+C is like bare minimum must have I think Tea ceremony is giving tea to elders and relatives, traditional families want that B probably can skip C - my cousin did that, only families and relatives about 6 tables like that H - comes in a size and packages, pick moderate one. so what they give 1000 photos? by half day you wont be smiling anymore personally, I think best is ROM then do a small dinner© then go honeymoon, photos compiles from your honeymoon trip who photo you when honeymoon? honeymoon is private and just 2 people lei.. |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 6 2014, 06:01 PM
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ROM is the most expensive, need at least 50k, beware
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 7 2014, 09:46 AM
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QUOTE(angelgemini @ Apr 6 2014, 11:21 PM) after H? how come ROM first then H? |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 7 2014, 10:13 AM
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QUOTE(elimi8z @ Apr 6 2014, 06:18 PM) Bodoh tu simpan sikit,lain hari boleh pakai lagi I means ROM party liao including the dinner liao.. I dun know why women here not include the wedding dinner, I think that's compulsory!!! |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 7 2014, 02:26 PM
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QUOTE(elimi8z @ Apr 7 2014, 11:26 AM) Wedding dinner was never compulsory Good,work within budget ba You definitely got a winner there  Walau in societies around me, all my friends did the wedding dinner liao and the guests are more than 500 persons.. I am also sick my gf wants to follow her friends to have wedding dinner especially her parents want to show off..if no wedding dinner is shameful..means poorfag.. I also want to have wife like u with no wedding dinner, I myself prefer have good honeymoon than wedding dinner just waste money. |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 7 2014, 08:58 PM
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Apr 7 2014, 02:48 PM) Congrats!! High society la you. 500+ people.  Some of the pretty well-to-do couples I know, just have a small 5-6 tables dinner at some posh Chinese restaurant for immediately family members only. If I ever get married, that'll do too. How to layan 500+ ppl in one night la. Friends can celebrate on other nights. no la, not high society, just average joe.. generally, they also invite the parents' relative and friends too.. my gf's mother have 11 siblings liao and not include the children etc already 11*2*2= 44. This does not include her parents; friends that she told me around 200. And how about father side? and my father got 9 siblings liao.. at least for relatives are already consist of 200 people. Not include our friends. she said this will be once in our lifetime so this is a must to have.   And the reality, I need to bear the costs 100%, sian..poor and pity me? If cannot do this, have house and car, she will not marry me coz her parents told her these are the requirements to marry her.. This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 7 2014, 09:02 PM |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 7 2014, 09:01 PM
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QUOTE(elimi8z @ Apr 7 2014, 04:23 PM) dgaf about ppl's opinion la,janji you and your wife happy,sudah In our society have many people tell bad things..my gf and I don't care about people opinion but her parents care so much liao..how? |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 7 2014, 09:04 PM
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QUOTE(angelgemini @ Apr 7 2014, 04:08 PM) i do not want other people look down on us, so i planned a 26 days NZ honeymoon trip with Pre-wedding photo at there. Which it can cover all the mouth of the relative that say us poor-fag or cheapskate. Which consider Travel marriage. I also have planned to have honeymoon travel 21 days to Japan,Korea, and China  But she told me her mother and her sister also wants to join walau can I decline her mother to join? This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 7 2014, 09:04 PM |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 8 2014, 04:41 AM
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QUOTE(elimi8z @ Apr 7 2014, 10:16 PM) Your society so keng meh? Masuk tabloid ka? Masuk TV ka? If you're rich and don't mind paying for all then by all means go ahead,if not then tell them to pay for their own side or max you sponsor their 1st 10 tables Grow a pair off balls la,tell both her mom AND sis should bugger off Really,draw a f*ckin line for godsakes I am not rich yet. If I tell max I sponsor them 1st 10 tables sure got rejected.. Yup, but how to decline? she has scary mother liao. too rigid and very strict.. I even often kena scold by her mother. coz of that I seldom go to her house. |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 8 2014, 04:41 AM
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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Apr 7 2014, 10:36 PM) Lol if you're bringing your in laws to your honeymoon, I have bad news for you. what is the bad news? |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 8 2014, 12:37 PM
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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Apr 8 2014, 08:06 AM) Depends on why the in laws is going to your honeymoon. -if it's her suggestion, then you have to consider why she is uncomfortable being alone in other places with you. It could be a sign that she's insecure with you, or she's very dependent on her parents. -if it's your in laws suggestion, it shows that your in laws doesn't respect your boundaries. Expect your marriage to be full of surprises where your in laws keep interfering with everything both of you do. Of course her mother bro, my gf often went with me alone to other cities and countries.. According to my gf, her mother also wants to join if I go fancy restaurant with my gf but I just ignore it..I don't know her mother also like wearing her sisters' clothes too although the clothes were given by her sisters' bf.. yes, suffer now..she also asked my gf to pay back the costs of raising her liao. And We will move another city to avoid her mother. |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 8 2014, 01:57 PM
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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Apr 8 2014, 01:18 PM) Just tell her you will bring her family to other trips instead of your honeymoon, and she will have to cough out part of the cost. Honeymoon should be for both of you only. Just curious, seeing that you mentioned her sister bf also faced with the same treatment, your gf and her sister were raised by her mother alone? nope..got father but her father is totally 180 degree with her mother. This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 8 2014, 02:00 PM |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 8 2014, 02:05 PM
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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Apr 8 2014, 01:58 PM) A very domineering mother? You not sked your gf turn out that way in the future a?  100% dominant liao, my gf said her mother always complain to her father everyday about financial thingy and always said past things how regret not marry rich guy and coz of that she advises my gf to marry capable man coz don't want her daughter will be suffered like her.. I don't think they are poor, my gf is a doctor sian.. Moreover,Her sister's bf even give monthly allowance to his gf 20% of his salary(for shopping).. I always become a victim be compared by her mother most of time how her sister's bf can give anything and very capable than me.. Do you know how sick if you are always be compared with someone else? I believe my gf is more like her father than her mother liao..I even often scold my gf and she seldom complain  This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 8 2014, 02:07 PM |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 8 2014, 03:31 PM
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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Apr 8 2014, 02:12 PM) Not all DR are created equal bro. If just open a small clinic with partnership averagely can get 5k to 10k after profit sharing. Only top of the line surgeon can earn a freaking lot. Sounds like you found a gem. If she's not too demanding ok like her mother and can be reasonable you're doing good.  What a gem? don't think so, she needs to pay back money to her mother.. Moreover, I do not want to subsidise her to do specialist, she needs to pay herself la.. I can say her monthly salary is below average, she works at small private hospital. A fresh grad doctor doesn't have higher starting salary than an auditor, do you know? |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 8 2014, 03:42 PM
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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Apr 8 2014, 03:39 PM) Didn't ask you to pay for her also. Just saying if she doesn't ask you to pay, nor does she's demanding on you, ok liao. Fresh grad pay lower than an established auditor, kind of make sense anyway. fresh grad auditor in big 4. don't assume all doctors are rich. This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 8 2014, 03:43 PM |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 8 2014, 08:34 PM
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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Apr 8 2014, 08:22 PM) Is this the same gf? How come like 2 different people wan... walau, what part different? |
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SUSleonhart88
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Apr 10 2014, 10:41 PM
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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Apr 8 2014, 08:22 PM) Is this the same gf? How come like 2 different people wan... my simple dream wedding This post has been edited by leonhart88: Apr 10 2014, 10:43 PM Attached thumbnail(s)
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