Serious Simple Wedding, Let Discuss
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 Jan 10 2014, 04:25 PM
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Jan 10 2014, 04:22 PM) Depends on your future gf ma Fingers cross and hope I find that type of girl  Maybe she want to just sign paper and leave for honeymoon.    |
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Jan 10 2014, 04:29 PM
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220 posts Joined: Jul 2007
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Done all except G.
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Jan 10 2014, 05:29 PM
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2,796 posts Joined: Nov 2007 From: On the beach 
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QUOTE(funnybone @ Jan 10 2014, 04:25 PM) Fingers cross and hope I find that type of girl Advertise that you're single more. I'm sure you'll find her someday.  |
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Jan 11 2014, 07:10 PM
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2,058 posts Joined: Mar 2011 From: Today: 9:03 AM 
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Private wedding liao. Only invite closest people, totaling at most 20 pax. Then live happily ever after.
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Jan 12 2014, 06:43 PM
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234 posts Joined: Jan 2005
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We did
C + lunch after ROM in nice restaurant + dinner with close friends in nice restaurant |
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Jan 12 2014, 07:02 PM
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0 posts Joined: Jan 2014
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simple wedding for me
- normal chinese jip san leong day - buffet style dinner - wedding photography |
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Jan 12 2014, 11:51 PM
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2,796 posts Joined: Nov 2007 From: On the beach
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QUOTE(charmaineyinying @ Jan 12 2014, 07:02 PM) simple wedding for me That seems like any other traditional chinese wedding dinner. Doesn't seem simple to me.- normal chinese jip san leong day - buffet style dinner - wedding photography |
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Jan 13 2014, 12:02 AM
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451 posts Joined: Aug 2009
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guys, since we all on wedding topic, just wanna ask opinion,
1. how much will it take to have a garden wedding? (ala Twilight style..) 2. is it even possible to have this wedding at Kedah area?? 3. who can i contact to discuss on this wedding more? thanks in advance. |
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Jan 13 2014, 08:52 AM
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QUOTE(munkeyflo @ Jan 12 2014, 11:51 PM) That seems like any other traditional chinese wedding dinner. Doesn't seem simple to me. But buffet cost lower a lots than dinner at restaurant |
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Jan 13 2014, 01:07 PM
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4,481 posts Joined: Jul 2005
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say only la make it simple.. when your parents.. ah ma.. ah ku.. ah sam... and your bride's idea add up.. it would not be simple anymore..
A - Tea Ceremony B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride) D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends) E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail) G - Honeymoon Mine.. initially was only planning to have a honeymoon saja after rom... now it turned out differently. |
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Jan 13 2014, 01:07 PM
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QUOTE(charmaineyinying @ Jan 13 2014, 08:52 AM) But buffet cost lower a lots than dinner at restaurant Which place you checked? Most which I've gone to them they charge approx rm88 per head count. which isn't cheap at all to be honest. |
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Jan 13 2014, 01:17 PM
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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Jan 10 2014, 04:17 PM) Don't worry about the Budget. When u get married, just invite k/tards and we will give you a generous amg pow to celebrate the end of your single-hood and the beginning of your Life Sentence cilakak later if they troll like in kopitiam ang pow rm2 how? |
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Jan 13 2014, 02:23 PM
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22 posts Joined: May 2012
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For me I really truly want it to be simple.. I hate crowds, I hate eating with beautiful clothes on, I hate the hot weather (it is alwayss sunny whenever I attend a wedding), I hate a wedding dress that doesn't absorb sweat, and the labuci and lace and whatnot, it is itchyyyyy.... I hate the shoes too coz my feet is wide, it is dang painful man... why wedding ceremony needs to be so troublesome, sigh...
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Jan 15 2014, 01:10 PM
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231 posts Joined: Oct 2005
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i did a b d e h
not too bad, had to do it cause im my dad's only son if no will end up with a b only haha i think what they mean by simple wedding is $$ my wife did a good job saving lots just make an excel file out of your savings vs spending for marry vs other important things you should get for your future(house downpayment) then u can understand |
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Jan 15 2014, 03:11 PM
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169 posts Joined: Jul 2007 From: KL
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QUOTE(angelgemini @ Jan 6 2014, 03:00 PM) Lately, many people say to keep a simple wedding. to me, simple wedding only include tea ceremony, wedding reception with close relatives and friends (15 tables or less), pre-wed photos and honeymoon. How simple is simple wedding? As i'm chinese, let make a example of chinese Wedding (sorry, not familiar with malay and indian wedding) A - Tea Ceremony B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride) C - Wedding dinner (Close relative - max to father/mother bro and sis only) D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends) E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail) F - Buffet G - Honeymoon H - Pre-Wedding Photo Case 1 A + C = A + B + C = A+ B + D = A + E + F = E + F Which 1 would you all plan to have? hate those silly jip san leong games.  |
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Jan 29 2014, 02:17 PM
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1,215 posts Joined: Jul 2009 From: Penang Island
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QUOTE(angelgemini @ Jan 6 2014, 03:00 PM) Lately, many people say to keep a simple wedding. all in 1 time sure very heavy,How simple is simple wedding? As i'm chinese, let make a example of chinese Wedding (sorry, not familiar with malay and indian wedding) A - Tea Ceremony B - “jip san leong” (pick the bride) C - Wedding dinner (Close relative - max to father/mother bro and sis only) D - Wedding dinner (relative + Friends) E - ROM Party (Garden Buffet or reception with light food or cocktail) F - Buffet G - Honeymoon H - Pre-Wedding Photo Case 1 A + C = A + B + C = A+ B + D = A + E + F = E + F Which 1 would you all plan to have? i did almost ( going to la for ABCDG) everything in the list EFH is done 3 year ago.. the balance ABCD going to do this year and G ahahah depend on budget liau.. probably next year simple wedding is simple banquet la and pre photoshoot ( that one always cost alot) |
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Jan 29 2014, 04:04 PM
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67 posts Joined: Nov 2004
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If you want the simplest and most effective wedding,
Just do ROM (Registration of Marriage) is enough. That's the only legality that tie both of you as husband and wife. Others are for show only and need money, you can skip. This post has been edited by wilstroth: Jan 29 2014, 04:04 PM |
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Jan 30 2014, 02:34 PM
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208 posts Joined: May 2005
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do you think can get RM50-RM70 / person for buffet dinner wedding in a hotel?
i cant do in a restaurant because some my friends are muslim. |
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Feb 24 2014, 05:08 PM
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1,751 posts Joined: Jun 2005 From: Malaysia
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After discussion between both side.
Finalize to only have A + C + G + H + ROM only. Honeymoon with backpacking, was it to over? backpacking 25 days in NZ. |
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 Mar 11 2014, 01:42 PM
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1,751 posts Joined: Jun 2005 From: Malaysia
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ROM this coming 22 Mar 14.
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