um i don't really like asking for help
but i'm kinda running out of idea. just how do you get girls to reply or add you

won't a simple " hi wanna chat" or hi! would do?

Put up ur own picture.
If u not very handsome then don't aim high

Of course it won't do.
Girls want to feel important.
Write something longer or quirky or funny or if you cant do funny, try sounding a lil more sincere.

'I know that you might just dismiss my request but please give me a chance and you won't regret it for sure.'

'give me 5 mins.' then you go on introducing urself using the most interesting approach.

yeah i've done that.



umm there are limit of letters you can put in the greeting
there was once i plan to wrote " hi are you free to tal.....can even put the " K " in
so how am i gonna write this

thanks alot i really appreciate it

hey um using the option " people nearby " can already rite if i wanna find a friend?

hmm...wasn't aware of that o.o
i guess u can use other ways of saying hi then?
if there is a limit in characters for the greeting,
then the best bet will be to put an awesome pic of urself
if u hav an awesome pic,it's hard to go wrong in getting attention hahaah

or maybe you should search for a date elsewhere...love classifieds or sth?

cannot just write" hi, can i add u as friend?"

This post has been edited by LeonOni: Dec 28 2013, 05:57 PM

block terus
i kena many time
usually i will stalk their profile then talk about her interest, she will reply me

1. Put your most handsome photo
2. Say Hi or anything. If the girl accept or reply back then just chat normally
3. Chat more and get to know each other more alot and longer only ask her out

I don't like if someone just add me then suddenly ask me out immediately. I'm not the type that will meet people I don't know well

This post has been edited by Strawberry<3: Dec 28 2013, 08:31 PM

I second that. Put the best pic of yourself. Be honest to yourself, If you know you are below average, then please please don't put a selfie of yourself naked or half naked or i don't know, trying to act cool or yada yada (list goes on).
Put a pic of yourself with a bunch of friends or a pic taken by other in a suit or something fancy. girls like fancy stuff

don't write something very cheesy like hey beautiful or hey sunshine, stuff like that.. just hey (insert her nickname), do you want to chat? (send them in one line.. try not to send 2 messages at once).
but it varies from person to person.
If she didn't reply, try others then, don't keep on sending her the same messages.. it can get very irritating..

This post has been edited by sochaikeong: Dec 28 2013, 10:13 PM

STH?

i don't have an awesome pic. never like taking photo! T.T


yeah....and how's that working so far?

looky here a stalker........cool! all we need now is a perv to make this thread all so colourful

1. i'm not really a good looking guy. that's why i'm here
2. i'll think about that if she do reply !
3. yeah lets work on that getting a reply first shall we.

ok
go ahead sat hi can ichat with you?
go ahead

go ahead sat??? what?

you know dating use to be simple....back in icq and mirc era
i meet a few good looking girls back then.......regret that i don't have the balls to talk to them face to face, online not problem!
then came friendster......welll still workable.....but ever since facebook pop up and perv roam the cyber world like their own backyard
i've been getting bubkes

so what this?

um i don't really like asking for help
but i'm kinda running out of idea. just how do you get girls to reply or add you

won't a simple " hi wanna chat" or hi! would do?

i still don't get what are you trying to say.....

ok
forget it
you dunno what you are doing that all.

what he trying to say is if a simple hi and the girl not reply mean she is not interested lo

bite ME!

oooo that's not much of a help izzit....

Funny... but it work somehow.... but u got more experience.. can tell more? On how to make a move sifu

that is really not so much of help but i tend to agree with him
if the girl not interested with you then move on. girls are same with men
most of them go for look first

do you want to meet this kind of girl or meet girl sincerely want to be fren

try sending request to 5 girl and get nothing!.....

This post has been edited by ninespiral: Dec 28 2013, 11:38 PM

Ain't it awesome being a girl? Guys are swarming over all sorts of medium to get a taste of that GFE.

a little something i post in my facebook account

out of ten girl I pm. 5 of them ignore me. the other 5 who reply 2 of them are sucker in English.......while the other 3 are working their ass to survive the next apocalypse! freaking awesome!

TO HELL WITH THE WORLD AND EVERYTHING IN IT!

i actually already left but this msg of yours bothers me.

well yeah certain time it is nice to be a girl.....you get boobies....you can kiss or experiment with another girl without feeling gross

a question though.....how's the monthly period and occasional menstrual cramp going for you girls? is it FUNNNE?

This post has been edited by ninespiral: Dec 29 2013, 12:07 AM

Different women have different level of menstrual cramps, and now they have meds to reduce the cramps. They don't all get grouchy, and even when they do, men are so quick to console them with attention and ice cream. Everything is easier for girls

the girl that i met few days back on wechat... we are gonna countdown together on tuesday

BITE ME!

TS how old are you?

Just asking

mids 20 why?

Nothing. Just asking. Wanna c I can play wechat or not

ngam!!!

i also noob
my skill stalk see their interest 1st then act.
must have oral skill

Why wechat?
Real life fren should recommend u more girls

if forcing won't help, how about you accepting the fact that their are simply not interested in you?
or you can hit the streets and flirt with any girls you see..

you are a girl?

Im a guy.. lolx

But i cofident that ur stalk lv100 already...sure know many lenglui friends jor lo...? [U]

Everyday also got tons of people say "Hi, can we chat?" to them. Your msg is just one of the many that they receive.

So you might want to start with something that will make you stand out. Find a common interest. Then again, she may just take one look at your photo and decide not to reply you. Maybe you should give up wechat and try looking elsewhere for girls.

Try this.

eh,I got a few dates with cute girls just by a "hi there" starter before

Bcoz u look cute?

no lah. biasa biasa only

Suddenly so humble
Girls don't usually layan guys with faceproblem esp on wechat u know. Same goes vice versa. Should be grateful u got a reply.

I dont know la because people say I look very nerdy.

Oh. Like Harry potter.

wow
let see first you tell me to come out with an idea that stands out. then you said she might take one look at me photo and not gonna reply my msg.
good for you for coming up with an idea that are hilariously useless!

My suggestions:-
1.Put profile pic of you in a high profile ride
2.Put some pics on the timeline,the must-haves are;
2a.One pic taken wearing a Ray Ban Aviator
2b.One pic of you with a nice watch ala Leonardo Di Caprio for Tag
2c.One pic of you with your mates at a happening bar
3.A sepia tone pic of your wallet,car keys,handphone,liquor and a cigar on a table
4.Pic of your main course at a high class restaurant

Now,for opening,just send "Yo! "

I've paid a price to get those tips,be thankful,TS.

There's nothing guaranteed. So the earlier you accept that the easier you'll get a girl.

You forgot the pic of you riding a dress in white armour riding a white horse bro.

lets see.

guys who wechat me,hmm..what attracted me to reply them

1. photo- not self camwhore pic pls. that doesn't work for guys. it's so sissified.
2. not the usual hi.most of the time they'll come up with soemthing like "hey, hows your day" or "hey, sucky weather out there isn't it"


so yeah, stand out from the rest. just like you going for a interview, why would the employer hire you rather than the others?

See the problem here is that employers put what are the required skill sets and qualifications the candidate should have.

In courtship, there's really not much to go on other than "rich, lengzai, caring, sensitive, loving, funny" etc etc. With the exception of lengzai, how is someone supposed to show the other qualifications with just 1 line and 1 pic?

the keyword here is standout.

first impression lar.. if 20 people say hi to me, automatically i will narrow it down based on those few things. if i see unattractive photo displayed, or no photo displayed at all, why would I at the first place reply to it?

refer to below.

if u are handsome, refer back to 1st quote.

trust me, it works

OMG, those men must be so objectified!

See the thing is by responding like this, women make themselves very prone to being cheated. Put up a picture of me on a nice ride, or holding a wad of cash, or showing off some genting chips, etc. Look at the YouTube video where 4 guys used a borrowed Ferrari to pick up girls, those women can't help themselves.

The more important question is...

"Why are women on wechat in the first place?"

same goes with women. women pm guys, guys see ugly photo, say bye bye.

that's not my pasal whether they are being cheated or what. Was just putting myself in that situation; how would I response.

ps: I don't chat in WeChat.

pss: isn't it wechat is something like the modern MIRC these days? only it's with pictures and extra details. Don't see any harm with it unless you go overboard or you have other motive.

Give u credit when it's due, at least you're honest about it. Most women keep lying and looks not important while rejecting men left and right and tell them to be themselves.

Deswai TS, hit the gym, get ripped, put on some nice clothes, drive a nice car. Post all that on wechat, and you'll see better response from the girls.

Im not speaking for other women. I'm speaking for myself. Yes looks does matter to a certain extent. You wouldn't want to date a bad looking woman; nor do I.

Maybe for other women they are ok with it? I mean, come on, if they are bad looking themselves, still want to demand? But then again, it's human nature can't blame.

Yalor, you should tell those bad looking ones to hit the gym too.

wechat banyak gay mengorat aku.

uninstall..

cant agree more

but still using for some other reason

Kalau bukan gay, maknyah.

Only a few tulens there in the sea of maknyah.

i saw you in comic fiesta, and i think i know why

Explain.

That's generally how most women respond because there's just too many men seeking women via social media these days, and women know that, so they use social media as a tool of getting attention without real life complications.

i guess you are gay magnet

Not a good enough explanation lol

im not trying to explain, im just telling the answer

in other words, i tot you are gay as well from your outlook

And may I ask why you thought that?

Most likely because of cosplay.

A lot of married guys also cosplay.Nothing to do with gay lol.

In fact most male cosplayers are straight guys sebab senang nak mengorat awek cosplay.

im gonna say is perception, i do believe most of the people will think man who often show their masculine body picture online are higher chances to be gay. as for what i saw in real life, i think maybe you face are attractive to gay people cause 1 of my gay friend say you very leng chai

then ask yourself, why u get hit by gays on wechat so often ?

the impression la.

Kalao nak ngorat pun, jadi photographer lagi senang.

Ah, I thought you mean aku jalan macam bapuk ka, sura macam pondan ka, etc. Deswai I ask lol

Trudat.

Aku awek cosplay x banyak sangat yang mengorat. Yang banyak mengorat yang common folks datang bergambar. lol

And usually aku nampak a bit too late sebab semua masuk FB message belah Others.

well luckily not much maknyah try on me...

kalau tak nak mereka mengorak tukar je gambar tu

How you know I got that pic...

huh! its like asking a donkey a for direction!!

screw you and this whole wechat crap!

from here on out i'm gonna do it my way!

Why do I see more guys than girls in wechat?

I had play wechat mostly 1 year + and I think I add a lot of girls mostly lot of them don't accept , but when they accept u can just talk to them . If their respond not good just move to another one . Date them out its easy, depends they interested to you or not .

I have use this Apps so far I date 30+ girls out , I never count as well , I get some to sex as well.

so your idea is that i keep digging until i find gold pieces?
you idea sucks

my idea better......find a way to initiate a conversation. find a way to make her speak to you......without you needed to say anything what so ever!

i've made a girl whom i knew which has never spoken to me, speak to me before. and i'm gonna do it again. why? coz my despair are some how an amusement to god

If you're that good, u never post this status out I think ,

So if u already have the skills by yourself which u mean is good enough , then why you're posting this ?

No wonder no ones talk to you, because you are waiting a miracle to happen" which is a girl starts the conversation "

Get to know a girl is like a human trying to approach a cat.

Some cats run away when you say,"meow".
Some cats immediately purr and walk towards you.
Some cats might just ignore you.

Get the metaphor?

oh no. not miracles......just another fishing trip!
miracles is when human stop taking things that doesn't belong to them! but we all that'll never happen! its like wishing for the apocalypse!

and beside this thread is call " searching for a date on wechat "? learn to READ!
that plan of mine doesnt work in wechat!
it'll only work in outdoor.....

what do you think about my explaination so far DWEEB!

This post has been edited by ninespiral: Dec 31 2013, 10:55 AM

hmm i gonna get me some fish.....cats like fish
let see it run away this time!
get the metaphor!

so this is where you found me.. now I know...

i found you too, but u let me go

wah wah wah look at this buaya..semue pun lu mau sapu ka? go kacau siowgirl

It is one boring app because most of the girl go for prince charming. Sighs!

but but but ......... i maybe kacau-ing siowgirl
but towards you, im initiating a sincere friendship conversation

ye la tu..so sincere indeed

yes I'm very sincere
in fact I've allocated my time tonight just to get to know you better
would you be available as well ? /hopeful eyes/

you r the one who post in my thread sweetie

oh really? impress me then with the little time I give to you

I posted to comment. Not to seek for any potential candidate