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LoveMeNot
post Dec 30 2013, 10:35 AM

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lets see.

guys who wechat me,hmm..what attracted me to reply them

1. photo- not self camwhore pic pls. that doesn't work for guys. it's so sissified.
2. not the usual hi.most of the time they'll come up with soemthing like "hey, hows your day" or "hey, sucky weather out there isn't it"


so yeah, stand out from the rest. just like you going for a interview, why would the employer hire you rather than the others?

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post Dec 30 2013, 11:14 AM

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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 30 2013, 11:12 AM)
See the problem here is that employers put what are the required skill sets and qualifications the candidate should have.

In courtship, there's really not much to go on other than "rich, lengzai, caring, sensitive, loving, funny" etc etc. With the exception of lengzai, how is someone supposed to show the other qualifications with just 1 line and 1 pic?
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the keyword here is standout.

first impression lar.. if 20 people say hi to me, automatically i will narrow it down based on those few things. if i see unattractive photo displayed, or no photo displayed at all, why would I at the first place reply to it?
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post Dec 30 2013, 11:26 AM

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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Dec 30 2013, 11:16 AM)
OMG, those men must be so objectified!
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same goes with women. women pm guys, guys see ugly photo, say bye bye.

QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 30 2013, 11:21 AM)
See the thing is by responding like this, women make themselves very prone to being cheated. Put up a picture of me on a nice ride, or holding a wad of cash, or showing off some genting chips, etc. Look at the YouTube video where 4 guys used a borrowed Ferrari to pick up girls, those women can't help themselves.

The more important question is...

"Why are women on wechat in the first place?" laugh.gif
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that's not my pasal whether they are being cheated or what. Was just putting myself in that situation; how would I response.

ps: I don't chat in WeChat.

pss: isn't it wechat is something like the modern MIRC these days? only it's with pictures and extra details. Don't see any harm with it unless you go overboard or you have other motive.
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post Dec 30 2013, 11:35 AM

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QUOTE(Tyler__Durden @ Dec 30 2013, 11:29 AM)
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Give u credit when it's due, at least you're honest about it. Most women keep lying and looks not important while rejecting men left and right and tell them to be themselves.

Deswai TS, hit the gym, get ripped, put on some nice clothes, drive a nice car. Post all that on wechat, and you'll see better response from the girls.
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Im not speaking for other women. I'm speaking for myself. Yes looks does matter to a certain extent. You wouldn't want to date a bad looking woman; nor do I.

Maybe for other women they are ok with it? I mean, come on, if they are bad looking themselves, still want to demand? But then again, it's human nature can't blame.
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post Dec 31 2013, 11:56 AM

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so this is where you found me.. now I know...
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post Dec 31 2013, 11:59 AM

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QUOTE(PhilHellmuth @ Dec 31 2013, 11:58 AM)
i found you too, but u let me go  sad.gif
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wah wah wah look at this buaya..semue pun lu mau sapu ka? go kacau siowgirl
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post Dec 31 2013, 12:04 PM

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QUOTE(PhilHellmuth @ Dec 31 2013, 12:02 PM)
but but but ......... i maybe kacau-ing siowgirl
but towards you, im initiating a sincere friendship conversation  wub.gif
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ye la tu..so sincere indeed tongue.gif tongue.gif
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post Dec 31 2013, 12:34 PM

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QUOTE(PhilHellmuth @ Dec 31 2013, 12:05 PM)
yes I'm very sincere
in fact I've allocated my time tonight just to get to know you better
would you be available as well ?  wub.gif  /hopeful eyes/
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oh really? impress me then with the little time I give to you whistling.gif

QUOTE(ninespiral @ Dec 31 2013, 12:19 PM)
you r the one who post in my thread sweetie
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I posted to comment. Not to seek for any potential candidate
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post Dec 31 2013, 02:16 PM

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QUOTE(aidono @ Dec 31 2013, 01:15 PM)
Come on, he's sincere. Give him a chance to spark you out.  icon_idea.gif
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biggrin.gif biggrin.gif I'm taken! icon_idea.gif

QUOTE(PhilHellmuth @ Dec 31 2013, 01:34 PM)
Using little time to impress a girl like with your divine qualities will be a total insult to thou.
Thee deserves a lengthy, ample of time to be pampered. To be indulged and with attention, comfort, kindness.
A girl like you deserved to be spoiled and loved. And that's why a little time would be insufficient.
What I need is more time, more time and endless time to fulfill what I've mentioned above. Yet more time is never enough.
wub.gif  wub.gif  wub.gif
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on 2nd thought, you called me ugly. so yeah, i changed my mind. go find someone else to mindf*ck with.
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post Dec 31 2013, 02:50 PM

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QUOTE(aidono @ Dec 31 2013, 02:24 PM)
ninespiral, you really got no luck. Go explore the outside world instead of WECHAT.
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his octopus pet got better luck than him tongue.gif

QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 31 2013, 02:41 PM)
I predict you'll be single again some time in 2014. (based on your track record lol)
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weh why so bad cry.gif cry.gif am I that terrible? cry.gif

QUOTE(PhilHellmuth @ Dec 31 2013, 02:44 PM)
oh no oh no, that's not what i'm doing
did you say you're taken? oh no . please tell me it's not true  cry.gif

plus, observe how I camp myself complete with a tent and a flask in /k purely awaiting your reply shows how much I values them  wub.gif  wub.gif
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don't be such a drama king! lets not hijack spiral's thread. you go camp elsewhere go.

and yes I am taken. My signature is obvious enough isn't it.

This post has been edited by LoveMeNot: Dec 31 2013, 02:57 PM
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post Dec 31 2013, 05:47 PM

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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Dec 31 2013, 02:58 PM)
I wouldn't say you're "terrible" lah, but you do tend to get bored and increase your expectations.
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hmm.gif you talked as if you know me in real life. And no, my relationship did not worked out because along the way I just know, these are not the guys I would wanna spend my life with. Same goes to them when they walked out of my life.
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post Dec 31 2013, 05:55 PM

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QUOTE(elimi8z @ Dec 31 2013, 05:54 PM)
Maybe he's one of those you have dated before but didn't knew he's a forummer,hahaha
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Could be. I've yet to know his identity hmm.gif
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post Jan 1 2014, 02:44 PM

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QUOTE(outsider @ Dec 31 2013, 11:34 PM)
i wish to have your wechat  wub.gif
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But i no wechat blush.gif
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post Jan 1 2014, 05:58 PM

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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Jan 1 2014, 03:28 PM)
I memang know you what, since you had your Indian bf I already know you liao laugh.gif
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U know me in cyberworld only what not in real life lor..btw that was like ages ago back in 2006 i think rclxub.gif

QUOTE(elimi8z @ Jan 1 2014, 05:40 PM)
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Really small world eh!?
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I dunno his identity
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post Jan 1 2014, 06:26 PM

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QUOTE(outsider @ Jan 1 2014, 06:24 PM)
Facebook leh? wub.gif
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Also no have. Not into socializing kinda thing unsure.gif
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post Jan 1 2014, 11:23 PM

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QUOTE(ninespiral @ Jan 1 2014, 10:56 PM)
yeah she' doesn't like socializing. but she love getting on other people nerves!
sure.....
but you r gonna have to find her first mon ami
no kidding!
eww....who's that? nah not this one
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what oh?when I get on your nerve oh? unsure.gif unsure.gif I;'m innocent..just like ur sotong
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post Jan 1 2014, 11:44 PM

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QUOTE(ninespiral @ Jan 1 2014, 11:42 PM)
who was it that wrote this msg?
"  I am there to offer advice, and sometimes just to disturb and bug people. " huh?

you said it your self that you like to disturb and bug people. well in my term that close to getting on other people nerves
not her, genius? nobody is getting on anyone nerve i'm just saying.........duh.....for god sake pls read properly first!
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okok.. dunwanna disturb, bug, or say anything anymore cry.gif

i rest my case

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