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TSmagnusEd001
post Sep 13 2013, 06:26 PM

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QUOTE(klein @ Sep 12 2013, 11:25 PM)
Tell us why are you thinking that you are actually falling for her..

How about "maybe its not feelings like what you think.. its just that u can't get over the thought that she is a bigger player."
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cos i started to really care about her, spilled out that i'm happy when i see her, told her she's the best and all but she didn't say anything back. just no comment. and i kept thinking about her, which is not usual for me.

QUOTE(mIssfROGY @ Sep 13 2013, 12:55 PM)
the whole rship LOL!
its funny how certain things turn up...wish u best!
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LOL sounds like some typical chinese / taiwanese drama huh

QUOTE(Mr_47 @ Sep 13 2013, 05:24 PM)
you gotta find a greater fubu to ditch the current fubu.

usually mens with lots of fubus always win vs love to fubu.

need to be stone cold sex oriented only multiple fubus.

no love.
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man... ure da man! r u talking based on ur own experiences? but i don't do so many fubu at the same time, one gal at a time and usually will be once/ twice then no more contact. but this girl.. i don't know what to say, she's just special. nvr had enough of her
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post Sep 13 2013, 06:28 PM

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QUOTE(ck_boon @ Sep 12 2013, 11:20 AM)
do u wear "safety equipment"? if both parties consider just sex and leave then should be no much troublem bah
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a pro player always wears a helmet brows.gif

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post Sep 14 2013, 07:51 AM

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QUOTE(GGSC27 @ Sep 12 2013, 12:21 PM)
traditionally is love then sex

but end of the day sex will turn to love anyway

so to those gal who think guys only want sex is a big wrong!!
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QUOTE(s2peMocls @ Sep 12 2013, 04:53 PM)
Actually, this is true of most guys. Very few men can have sex without feeling the desire to be attached to that woman. Women, on the other hand, is very good at separating sex from love. It's probably a biological thing.
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haha..ts since u re at the edge now, turn it into real relationship or leave her, ure already getting urself burned.
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post Sep 14 2013, 09:06 AM

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TS got a big tool? i'm wondering..
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post Sep 14 2013, 11:44 AM

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never attach with ur fubu
serious...
u will be in deep shi!t in long run
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post Sep 14 2013, 03:35 PM

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Personal fable might tell us no real feelings will be involved and it will all be ok. However, when there is so much intimacy, love is seeded and will bloom. stop it when u start to doubt your ability to control
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post Sep 14 2013, 03:37 PM

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repeated

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post Sep 15 2013, 01:40 AM

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Though of all, I think TS is quite a good guy. He just dont really f*** around without fall to the girl....

Let the girl has all her fun first, one day she gonna settle down too....
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post Sep 17 2013, 01:42 PM

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so TS ... r u saying ur perfectly cool with such a girl becoming ur steady gf / future fiancee / future wife / mother to ur kids?

do u know her history how long she has been FU-BU-ing around like this and how many guys she FU-BU-ed already?

Knowing all that are you still ok to be committed in her?
Not knowing all that, are you ok to just let the past slip pass and lead a ever happy relationship with this girl?
If you are not ok in NOT knowing and assuming you ask her, and if the answers she provide to u is a relatively small number, will u choose to believe her or will u have doubt in her answer? will u let this doubts shatter ur trust u have on this girl and further damage the relationship?

Can you look into her eyes 5 yrs from now and pretend ntg of that ever happen?


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post Sep 17 2013, 02:21 PM

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TS,

How's things going after you told her you really care for her?

I think if everything happens for some reason, she said she liked you last time, and you turned her down, yet you 2 still FUBU, now your turn to fall for her. Perhaps you should tell her also how you are feeling just like how she did so.

If something meant to happen between you two, it will happen. You just do your part.

After all, you make regrets, it's better sorry than regret.
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post Sep 17 2013, 02:30 PM

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Fubu relationships should start and end in bedrooms, if both of you still mingle around outside of it, you're only asking for further trouble.

Deswai you don't date your fubu, and don't invest in their lifes. You don't need to work on what's she's doing with her life. You just don't care.

Whenever you need to have your nuts drained, just text her a time and place for sex, have sex, and get out. Do not attempt to establish any contacts further than that because it's unnecessary.
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post Sep 17 2013, 05:51 PM

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hmmm i tot feelings cant be controlled?
Dont think we can control who we end up loving rite?

Hmm.....so gals who FUBU should end up with no one but guys who FUBU should only marry someone who is considered "clean"?

LOL!! for all u know....those who thought that they had the best gal in the world is letting u wear the green cap :/
Guys are not really as sensitive as gals in these kind of things....gals r really good in going behind your backs if they want to ok!


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post Sep 17 2013, 07:47 PM

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QUOTE(mIssfROGY @ Sep 17 2013, 05:51 PM)
hmmm i tot feelings cant be controlled?
Dont think we can control who we end up loving rite?

Hmm.....so gals who FUBU should end up with no one but guys who FUBU should only marry someone who is considered "clean"?

LOL!! for all u know....those who thought that they had the best gal in the world is letting u wear the green cap :/
Guys are not really as sensitive as gals in these kind of things....gals r really good in going behind your backs if they want to ok!
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post Sep 18 2013, 02:16 PM

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QUOTE(magnusEd001 @ Sep 13 2013, 06:26 PM)
man... ure da man! r u talking based on ur own experiences? but i don't do so many fubu at the same time, one gal at a time and usually will be once/ twice then no more contact. but this girl.. i don't know what to say, she's just special. nvr had enough of her
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yup 5 fubus at a time, get the job done with no regret what so ever.

QUOTE(magnusEd001 @ Sep 13 2013, 06:28 PM)
a pro player always wears a helmet  brows.gif
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hahas

QUOTE(nixoderm @ Sep 14 2013, 09:06 AM)
TS got a big tool? i'm wondering..
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y u care? his fubu care?

QUOTE(glamour @ Sep 14 2013, 11:44 AM)
never attach with ur fubu
serious...
u will be in deep shi!t in long run
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TS is the one with prob, his fubu is okay stone cold as she lovely fak him.

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post Sep 22 2013, 08:02 PM

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You guys are wayyyyyy luckier than what I have experienced. I was fortunate to have two but four-five at the same time? Dayum sad.gif
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post Sep 25 2013, 02:13 PM

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Hello Magnus,

Your condition is the same thing happened to one of my friend's. In result they both end up together as a couple. =) They both are happy and they accepted in what they did in the past and present.

There is no right or wrong here, when you fall for your FUBU partner... only God knows what will happen not you not her not your friends not anyone.

It's all up to you to be precise. Can you accept everything what's going on if lets say she say she likes you and want to have the real commitment with you. Do you consider yourself ready for it? Or you are just going to accept and stepping brek when things don't happen as what you expected. People can fall for each other when you have a FUBU partner for long term. Feelings does exist for each other. But if you both have a mutual agreement which is agree to sex only no feelings. Or u agree to sex but if there's feeling arise you both will decide on what to do. If it's better you both have to sit down and talk in what you REALLY want or need from both sides.

Good luck...


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post Sep 25 2013, 03:30 PM

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QUOTE(stefyyap @ Sep 25 2013, 02:13 PM)
Hello Magnus,

Your condition is the same thing happened to one of my friend's. In result they both end up together as a couple. =) They both are happy and they accepted in what they did in the past and present.

There is no right or wrong here, when you fall for your FUBU partner... only God knows what will happen not you not her not your friends not anyone.

It's all up to you to be precise. Can you accept everything what's going on if lets say she say she likes you and want to have the real commitment with you. Do you consider yourself ready for it? Or you are just going to accept and stepping brek when things don't happen as what you expected. People can fall for each other when you have a FUBU partner for long term. Feelings does exist for each other. But if you both have a mutual agreement which is agree to sex only no feelings. Or u agree to sex  but if there's feeling arise you both will decide on what to do. If it's better you both have to sit down and talk in what you REALLY want or need from both sides.

Good luck...
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