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Advice Wanted FUBU relationships, pls share ur experience

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post Sep 12 2013, 08:52 AM

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QUOTE(magnusEd001 @ Sep 11 2013, 05:59 PM)
I don’t know if this is a problem but it’s really getting into me now. To cut the whole story short, it’s just basically about me and this girl – a very special girl in my life, but we are only friends, and you could say that we are sometimes more than friends, yet at the same time, just friends.
I’ve known her for years, we’ve grown so close, we’ve grown so far apart from each other and we got close again. This is a big loop some kinda relationship going on in a circle.
Things just got so heated up when she was posted here in Melbourne for work and she is just around for a few months. (I moved here 2yrs ago and we were just like strangers after I got here) but now since she came here and I am so available, we hang out really frequent and we started sleeping with each other again. I admit I am one playboy, but she is a bigger player than I am! This is what is bothering me, I thought I am the cool one but it seems like she doesn’t even care about this.
As a guy with a big ego, I am afraid that I might get hurt for real this time because I think I am actually falling for her now after all the years.
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post Sep 12 2013, 09:16 AM

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remember to do STD screening regularly ya, don't bring your own past disease to your future permanent partner, IF you can get any.
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post Sep 12 2013, 09:20 AM

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QUOTE(magnusEd001 @ Sep 11 2013, 07:16 PM)
yah, i just prefer not to use my usual account to stay anon. prob? smile.gif
anyway, let's just focus on the real issue here, thanks
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do u wear "safety equipment"? if both parties consider just sex and leave then should be no much troublem bah
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post Sep 12 2013, 10:13 AM

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go n watch the movie "No Strings Attached"

then u will learn the consequences...
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post Sep 12 2013, 12:21 PM

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traditionally is love then sex

but end of the day sex will turn to love anyway

so to those gal who think guys only want sex is a big wrong!!
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post Sep 12 2013, 12:36 PM

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QUOTE(GGSC27 @ Sep 12 2013, 12:21 PM)
traditionally is love then sex

but end of the day sex will turn to love anyway

so to those gal who think guys only want sex is a big wrong!!
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Those that think that way only have sex to offer.
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post Sep 12 2013, 04:32 PM

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QUOTE(vegas007 @ Sep 11 2013, 09:36 PM)
ure right but it takes two to dance. along the way, the other party might just walk away, no matter how many thousands of rights u did.
is this happening in most relationships?
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its happening but they did not notice it.
One willing to hurt while another willing to sacrifice..
but in FUBU relationship, its never about being committed anyway. laugh.gif
mIssfROGY
post Sep 12 2013, 04:45 PM

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haha i think its kinda romantic!! aweee...
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post Sep 12 2013, 04:53 PM

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Actually, this is true of most guys. Very few men can have sex without feeling the desire to be attached to that woman. Women, on the other hand, is very good at separating sex from love. It's probably a biological thing.
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post Sep 12 2013, 04:56 PM

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QUOTE(temmyoi @ Sep 12 2013, 12:56 AM)
I dun know how to answer this but better end tis.
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no, we shall continue this brows.gif
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post Sep 12 2013, 04:57 PM

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QUOTE(SmuffyJ @ Sep 11 2013, 11:46 PM)
mayb u can just let her know how u feel...
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worst he got toy ard with his feeling then suicidal laugh.gif
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post Sep 12 2013, 05:02 PM

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QUOTE(magnusEd001 @ Sep 12 2013, 02:14 AM)
as a guy like me, it's hard to say it out... and we hardly talk about our feelings
yeah sucks man, now even when she caught me looking deeply into her eyes but I don't see any reactions from her. Sads
man.. we had this kind of rel. way back before I moved here and we slept together right before I flew and now we are doing it again. Has been going on for about 3-4 yrs on/off. Love? I thought I do not know what love is, what is this love? I just want to know if I am the only guy for her now. 
But we don't talk about this sad.gif
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ugh u r PUSS-EGO

u let her fck u, screwed u, played u, timed u and never bother about you... the issue of YOU and HER. Feelings.

so u wanna talk it here? laugh.gif

the thing abt fubu is tat..its as good as sex gets.. tats it.

once you mix with your feeling, you know what you are into.

solutions.

find another girl to make her jealous or if she isnt, then she is not yours.

its either you walk out the merry go round or dwell within till you make a home of her.


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post Sep 12 2013, 05:11 PM

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If you fall for the person, then you clearly don't understand the parameters of FUBU in the first place.
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post Sep 12 2013, 06:31 PM

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yeah im so screwed this time. I thought that I am the cool one.
and how can a guy say NO to the girl he likes? LOL
I dunno what's she thinking but we're just good this way. It's just me.
Oh man, we all know the rules of the game but sometimes shitz jz happened.

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post Sep 12 2013, 06:35 PM

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QUOTE(mIssfROGY @ Sep 12 2013, 06:45 PM)
haha i think its kinda romantic!! aweee...
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why is this romantic? me falling for her? T.T
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post Sep 12 2013, 07:37 PM

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post Sep 12 2013, 09:25 PM

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Tell us why are you thinking that you are actually falling for her..

How about "maybe its not feelings like what you think.. its just that u can't get over the thought that she is a bigger player."
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post Sep 13 2013, 10:55 AM

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QUOTE(magnusEd001 @ Sep 12 2013, 06:35 PM)
why is this romantic? me falling for her? T.T
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the whole rship LOL!
its funny how certain things turn up...wish u best!
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post Sep 13 2013, 03:24 PM

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you gotta find a greater fubu to ditch the current fubu.

usually mens with lots of fubus always win vs love to fubu.

need to be stone cold sex oriented only multiple fubus.

no love.
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post Sep 13 2013, 05:34 PM

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bro, just walk out from her life.....
face it or leave it.... your choice .....
All the best dude....
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