I don’t know if this is a problem but it’s really getting into me now. To cut the whole story short, it’s just basically about me and this girl – a very special girl in my life, but we are only friends, and you could say that we are sometimes more than friends, yet at the same time, just friends.
I’ve known her for years, we’ve grown so close, we’ve grown so far apart from each other and we got close again. This is a big loop some kinda relationship going on in a circle.
Things just got so heated up when she was posted here in Melbourne for work and she is just around for a few months. (I moved here 2yrs ago and we were just like strangers after I got here) but now since she came here and I am so available, we hang out really frequent and we started sleeping with each other again. I admit I am one playboy, but she is a bigger player than I am! This is what is bothering me, I thought I am the cool one but it seems like she doesn’t even care about this.
As a guy with a big ego, I am afraid that I might get hurt for real this time because I think I am actually falling for her now after all the years.

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hi, dupe

Fubu good wert, all the benefits without the headache.

Don't listen to your heart.

yah, i just prefer not to use my usual account to stay anon. prob?
anyway, let's just focus on the real issue here, thanks

+1

to play the game, you gotta follow the rules..
if you want to get a proper and committed gf, then ditch her to prove it. else you are just making excuse for yourself.

the thing is I thought that I know the rules all these while and I'm fine with it. But thinking of her as a bigger player and a heartbreaker, and me starting to have some feelings for me just drive me nuts.

she confessed to me few yrs ago but I told her we are just friends and she will always be special to me. That is because I do not like to be in a relationship. So, to me, I thought that she likes me all these while, but I just can't feel that from her anymore now eventho we are so close now to each other.
Life is funny, I want her to like me or love me now but she doesn't.
This is one of the bigger parts where I can't accept it, maybe due to my ego as well.

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This post has been edited by vegas007: Nov 3 2013, 11:51 AM

even if there is a replay button, would you give your very best on the first go or rely on the replays?
in life, there is only one chance. once screwed, you're screwed.

mayb u can just let her know how u feel...

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This post has been edited by vegas007: Nov 3 2013, 11:50 AM

I dun know how to answer this but better end tis.

rule no.1: no personal emotion

as long as u can continue f*** and enjoying it ... go maximum ahead

no fubu relation ever last more then 2 years because the love feeling comes naturally even u trying to deny it

as a guy like me, it's hard to say it out... and we hardly talk about our feelings

yeah sucks man, now even when she caught me looking deeply into her eyes but I don't see any reactions from her. Sads

man.. we had this kind of rel. way back before I moved here and we slept together right before I flew and now we are doing it again. Has been going on for about 3-4 yrs on/off. Love? I thought I do not know what love is, what is this love? I just want to know if I am the only guy for her now.
But we don't talk about this

1st rule of Fubu....not a single emotion is given in. Treat watever sweet words she say as just "I wanna fck". Even if she requests "can u keep ur hair long for me?" <==="I wanna fck". Simple, condensed, plain. If you can't do that, don't dip your finger into the chocolate.

End it right away.

You are breaking the cardinal FWB rule. Your problem.

If it's hurting you, why still do it?

Funny people these days.

You only have few options:

1. Speak to her; potential risk of ruining even your friendship
2. Keep to yourself and just stop doing it
3. Keep to yourself and continue doing it; hence the continuous hurting

You make your choice. This is not a world problem.

Sex is one of the weakness for a some guy........Coz guy only must have feeling for the girl only can have sex with the gal....