1) original distributor is rm4xx (can't remember exact, lazy dig receipt lol)
2) yes can diy. no only change the spark plug if it needs replacing; then again they aren't that expensive, so changing them anyways isn't entirely a bad thing.
4) yeap to be objective of your upgrade, do have a resistance meter to test and determine the existing grounding resistance

no they didn't claim original filter, and even if so, rm8 for original proton oil filter, so what?
that particular idemitsu engine oil is not api certified... so be wary if it may be fake EO or just very low level EO that idemitsu themselves don't care about. (synthetic blend/semi synthetic/synthetic technology can be 99% mineral oil and 1% synthetic they still can call it semi synthetic btw)
my gear box is auto, so yeah regular should be around 20k km however i am using very expensive semi synthetic ATF with lubegard additives so i do change in between 20-40k km depending on how much i trash the car/go to track days.
Thanks for those advice! I'll take note on that. About the resistance meter I just went to ask about testing the grounding cable thingy and the mech tell me that is not really necessary one...