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> UTAR student suicides due to friendship problem, Source: China Press

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post Jul 20 2013, 12:11 AM

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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Jul 20 2013, 12:03 AM)
I quit UTAR and went to TARC, not much difference. TARC only a little bit better..
I'm half chinese. It's not about race, in UTAR, even chinese makan chinese. It's about the personality/money that matters there..
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cainis people forever like that 1. like to backstab others 1.
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:12 AM

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QUOTE(iSean @ Jul 20 2013, 12:08 AM)
I tak tau my brother okay jugak.
TARC third year in accounting. Now doing internship.
Normally materialistic people are like that. Who cares I poor fag, only one goal, work hard, play hard, and success. those people can ignore them.

Like my tuition teacher always says,' 眼中你是第一无敌,其他抛离远远!' XD
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ENGLAND PLS
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:12 AM

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QUOTE(lopo90 @ Jul 20 2013, 12:11 AM)
cainis people forever like that 1. like to backstab others 1.
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7" stay one group, 5" stay in group, 2" stay one group?? hmm.gif icon_question.gif hmm.gif icon_question.gif hmm.gif icon_question.gif
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QUOTE(wordtalks @ Jul 19 2013, 08:52 PM)
some will call it "Nerd", but he did take action to make friend... but sadly he choosen to say bye.

actually "Nerd" can make alot friends too, if you know how. #truth
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how? by furiously rushing and crushing the gate just to get a minion?

wow thats cool. lets make friend with him.
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:14 AM

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QUOTE(ar188 @ Jul 20 2013, 12:11 AM)
i remember you get pushed hard too. why no 14th floor wan?  biggrin.gif
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Because you pushed on the wrong buttons laugh.gif
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:15 AM

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QUOTE(win7 @ Jul 20 2013, 12:12 AM)
7" stay one group, 5" stay in group, 2" stay one group?? hmm.gif  icon_question.gif  hmm.gif  icon_question.gif  hmm.gif  icon_question.gif
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yes.

chi-ed 1 group
eng-ed 1 group
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:15 AM

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QUOTE(iSean @ Jul 20 2013, 12:14 AM)
Because you pushed on the wrong buttons  laugh.gif
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push 1st floor button so jump also kennot die.. biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(lopo90 @ Jul 20 2013, 12:12 AM)
ENGLAND PLS
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In your eyes, you're always the top number 1, others push aside. laugh.gif
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QUOTE(iSean @ Jul 20 2013, 12:15 AM)
In your eyes, you're always the top number 1, others push aside. laugh.gif
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:19 AM

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QUOTE(zheng88 @ Jul 19 2013, 11:40 PM)
The environment and his lecturers should have been more proactive in picking up the warning signs. It shows the cold and insular environment that the institution has and perhaps he felt that there weren't people that cared for his problems especially depression. It is a shame that an institution that is so renoun should actually have people trained to mentor and supervise the wellbeing of students and see that people don't go over the cliff left unsupervised. Today we see a couple get convicted of crimes that show that our youth are suffering from delinquency and the defects of our society that is not paying attention to the emotional needs of people. We pay to much attention to the material aspects of life and not enough thought goes into wellbeing and balance state of mind and health. It is sad that we are becoming a mindless society only bent on prosecuting victims of a failed society.
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Wholeheartedly agree with the bolded statement

In this guy's case, he is probably an introvert to begin with and introverts in general would have a hard time opening up and explaining their predicament to "strangers" such as the university counselor.

His problem probably indirectly led to extremely poor self esteem as well as affecting his studies negatively but he is unable to share his problem with anyone who would understand him. Asian parents in general prioritizes studies and grades with neglecting to empathize with their children's mental and emotional problems thus opening up to his parents would not really aid much in any way.

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QUOTE(dotadellpro @ Jul 20 2013, 12:05 AM)
You also wanted benefit from him, and then complain when he doesn't want to share his hard work with you, you complain and then say he kiasu?

Someone certainly have a sense of entitlement.
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Hey mate, that were only a few times I asked for his study material, if he doesn't want to give then so be it. I don't whine about not being able to get his precious cargo. The only complain I have for him is he fake and kiasu. If he doesn't want to give, just say, "Sorry, these are mine". I can understand it. We are close friends, at least don't lie to my face.

Read: He's fake, I don't like it. Not I don't like him because he didn't share his precious cargo or I cannot get benefit from him. It was an example only. If you still don't understand, it means even if he's offering free beers to me whenever we go out, I would prefer not going out with him because he is fake.
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Lol, lucky I didn't did degree in Utar, the dog eat dog environment really make us disgust, however I don't think the young boy suicide due to the friendship problem, may be someone planned to kill him, hehe. Like some cerita hantu cerita orang minyak blah.
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QUOTE(zheng88 @ Jul 19 2013, 11:40 PM)
The environment and his lecturers should have been more proactive in picking up the warning signs. It shows the cold and insular environment that the institution has and perhaps he felt that there weren't people that cared for his problems especially depression. It is a shame that an institution that is so renoun should actually have people trained to mentor and supervise the wellbeing of students and see that people don't go over the cliff left unsupervised. Today we see a couple get convicted of crimes that show that our youth are suffering from delinquency and the defects of our society that is not paying attention to the emotional needs of people. We pay to much attention to the material aspects of life and not enough thought goes into wellbeing and balance state of mind and health. It is sad that we are becoming a mindless society only bent on prosecuting victims of a failed society.
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Well, you see lecturers don't really get to know their students well. Maybe in a class a teacher may teacher more than 50 people, the lecturer can't really pick up all the signs at once.

Also, I saw one of my tutors can really pick up students signs by just looking on their faces. That's creepy lol.
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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jul 20 2013, 12:19 AM)
Hey mate, that were only a few times I asked for his study material, if he doesn't want to give then so be it. I don't whine about not being able to get his precious cargo. The only complain I have for him is he fake and kiasu. If he doesn't want to give, just say, "Sorry, these are mine". I can understand it. We are close friends, at least don't lie to my face.

Read: He's fake, I don't like it. Not I don't like him because he didn't share his precious cargo or I cannot get benefit from him. It was an example only. If you still don't understand, it means even if he's offering free beers to me whenever we go out, I would prefer not going out with him because he is fake.
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Sorry if offended you, but I'm only judging from what you previously said.

Well, I seen the same people. Overachievers tend to be kiasu, its what drive them to overachieve.

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post Jul 20 2013, 12:35 AM

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he should have found some friends if he came /k cry.gif
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QUOTE(dotadellpro @ Jul 20 2013, 12:31 AM)
Sorry if offended you, but I'm only judging from what you previously said.

Well, I seen the same people. Overachievers tend to be kiasu, its what drive them to overachieve.
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and tend to be fake among the friend circle.
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QUOTE(dotadellpro @ Jul 20 2013, 12:31 AM)
Sorry if offended you, but I'm only judging from what you previously said.

Well, I seen the same people. Overachievers tend to be kiasu, its what drive them to overachieve.
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No problem mate, none taken. Yeah it is their drive.. My point of view is that they would rather push people down to be at top, instead of improving themselves to be at the top. I'm not saying their method is wrong, just that I don't like it.
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:45 AM

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i hope this wont happen to me ha utar sounds just like my uni tbh cb racist
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:50 AM

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I agree guys..Give him a break..Depression and health-related issues is not something easy..I have friends with depression and some with bipolar disorder..For the past few years I tried to you know make them happy,live a cheerful life,but tbh,they don't improve even by 1%..

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