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dotadellpro
post Jul 19 2013, 11:40 PM

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QUOTE(EthanWong @ Jul 19 2013, 11:23 PM)
IMO, for those university where most of the students are upper middle class chinese, basic car like proton or kancil also will get looked down upon.

Minimum standard is at least a entry level japanese car like vios or city.

I have known quite alot of people who are actually my close friends who will judge people solely based on the car that said person drives.
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:05 AM

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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jul 19 2013, 11:55 PM)
Yeah well, indeed he was at least three times more hardworking than me. I was addicted to gaming last time. But those tips his friend blurted out had the exact same question, only the values were changed.

I do not hate him for being more hardworking and got slightly better results than me in the end, I hated him for his kiasu-ness and being fake. It's like when I got benefit, he comes and stick to me. When I have no more benefit, he will leave and stick to others that have higher benefits. Tell you my story.

Once he asked me to go sing karaoke. One rented car, 6 people, share all expenses including petrol and singing and rent. I said ok. The day before outing, he told me cancel. I said ok, didn't suspect a thing. One week later I found out he did went out to karaoke, just that another person had replaced me. That guy was a major top scorer also. I suspected I was only invited to fill in the gap and to distribute out the expenses to more people. So disappointed in him.
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You also wanted benefit from him, and then complain when he doesn't want to share his hard work with you, you complain and then say he kiasu?

Someone certainly have a sense of entitlement.
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:31 AM

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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jul 20 2013, 12:19 AM)
Hey mate, that were only a few times I asked for his study material, if he doesn't want to give then so be it. I don't whine about not being able to get his precious cargo. The only complain I have for him is he fake and kiasu. If he doesn't want to give, just say, "Sorry, these are mine". I can understand it. We are close friends, at least don't lie to my face.

Read: He's fake, I don't like it. Not I don't like him because he didn't share his precious cargo or I cannot get benefit from him. It was an example only. If you still don't understand, it means even if he's offering free beers to me whenever we go out, I would prefer not going out with him because he is fake.
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Sorry if offended you, but I'm only judging from what you previously said.

Well, I seen the same people. Overachievers tend to be kiasu, its what drive them to overachieve.

This post has been edited by dotadellpro: Jul 20 2013, 12:31 AM

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