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> UTAR student suicides due to friendship problem, Source: China Press

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post Jul 19 2013, 11:40 PM

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QUOTE(EthanWong @ Jul 19 2013, 11:23 PM)
IMO, for those university where most of the students are upper middle class chinese, basic car like proton or kancil also will get looked down upon.

Minimum standard is at least a entry level japanese car like vios or city.

I have known quite alot of people who are actually my close friends who will judge people solely based on the car that said person drives.
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post Jul 19 2013, 11:42 PM

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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Jul 19 2013, 08:26 PM)
I pernah study utar, I know how it feels and I still remember it. Not wanna be racist, but it's not easy adapt to this kind of environment. People are quite pikcky when making friends there. Those with cars, even u face problem perangai mcam babi also can get friends. I regret masuk utar, honestly speaking.
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post Jul 19 2013, 11:43 PM

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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jul 19 2013, 11:59 PM)
I am different. I didn't hang out with these kind of people because I hate fake. I admit they have the advantages/skills of sucking out tips out of nowhere and super detailed study materials. Their materials were top notch, compact and simple but contain almost all information, putting to shame almost all the buku rujukan in the market.

I just can't stand their "batu" face when I asked:

Me: hey, any tips? My tips are lousy, just this and that..
Major top scorer: Oh, I no tips la, got also just same as yours.
Me: oh ok. Do you know which sections are important?
Major top scorer: Aiyo, exam la. If want score study all la
Me: .... ok.jpeg

After the exams, he actually know the questions that are going to come out. Because he shared with his group of close friends. And his friend was so happy, he can't help but to tell everyone how lucky he was to get similar tips right after the exam. Study all my punggung... vmad.gif

So I just carry on with my life without joining them. Study what matters.
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u useful they will share inform
u useless ass hole they ignore u
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post Jul 19 2013, 11:46 PM

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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Jul 19 2013, 08:26 PM)
I pernah study utar, I know how it feels and I still remember it. Not wanna be racist, but it's not easy adapt to this kind of environment. People are quite pikcky when making friends there. Those with cars, even u face problem perangai mcam babi also can get friends. I regret masuk utar, honestly speaking.
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u malay ar?
juz asking because u say racist issue u faced during study'?

btw,get my degree 1 month ago in utar engineering dep, now waiting convo while working

mi SPM -4A others B,no STPM, foundation ( no A) ----> Degree ( 1 A for 4 years ) doh.gif doh.gif Nw in singapore working no gain no loss, normal
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post Jul 19 2013, 11:48 PM

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post Jul 19 2013, 11:49 PM

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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jul 19 2013, 10:59 PM)
I am different. I didn't hang out with these kind of people because I hate fake. I admit they have the advantages/skills of sucking out tips out of nowhere and super detailed study materials. Their materials were top notch, compact and simple but contain almost all information, putting to shame almost all the buku rujukan in the market.

I just can't stand their "batu" face when I asked:

Me: hey, any tips? My tips are lousy, just this and that..
Major top scorer: Oh, I no tips la, got also just same as yours.
Me: oh ok. Do you know which sections are important?
Major top scorer: Aiyo, exam la. If want score study all la
Me: .... ok.jpeg

After the exams, he actually know the questions that are going to come out. Because he shared with his group of close friends. And his friend was so happy, he can't help but to tell everyone how lucky he was to get similar tips right after the exam. Study all my punggung... vmad.gif

So I just carry on with my life without joining them. Study what matters.
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post Jul 19 2013, 11:49 PM

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In utar,tarc ade kereta Ada amoi ade friend ade status ade semua.
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post Jul 19 2013, 11:50 PM

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QUOTE(meistsh_musical @ Jul 19 2013, 11:43 PM)
u useful they will share inform
u useless ass hole they ignore u
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tis world where got free lunch wan.. biggrin.gif i also dowan free loaders around unless they contribute.
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post Jul 19 2013, 11:52 PM

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post Jul 19 2013, 11:52 PM

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damn....I was like him for 3 semesters in uni. Really unfortunate...

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post Jul 19 2013, 11:55 PM

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QUOTE(EthanWong @ Jul 19 2013, 11:30 PM)
I could emphatize with that maajor top score guy. He probably got his "tips" or knowledge/notes through sheer hard work and consistent studying.

if i were him, i would only willing to share my work with very close friends as i would feel hard-done by sharing these notes with random people.

don't forget that in the examination, you are also his competitor
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Yeah well, indeed he was at least three times more hardworking than me. I was addicted to gaming last time. But those tips his friend blurted out had the exact same question, only the values were changed.

I do not hate him for being more hardworking and got slightly better results than me in the end, I hated him for his kiasu-ness and being fake. It's like when I got benefit, he comes and stick to me. When I have no more benefit, he will leave and stick to others that have higher benefits. Tell you my story.

Once he asked me to go sing karaoke. One rented car, 6 people, share all expenses including petrol and singing and rent. I said ok. The day before outing, he told me cancel. I said ok, didn't suspect a thing. One week later I found out he did went out to karaoke, just that another person had replaced me. That guy was a major top scorer also. I suspected I was only invited to fill in the gap and to distribute out the expenses to more people. So disappointed in him.

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post Jul 19 2013, 11:57 PM

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QUOTE(zheng88 @ Jul 19 2013, 11:40 PM)
The environment and his lecturers should have been more proactive in picking up the warning signs. It shows the cold and insular environment that the institution has and perhaps he felt that there weren't people that cared for his problems especially depression. It is a shame that an institution that is so renoun should actually have people trained to mentor and supervise the wellbeing of students and see that people don't go over the cliff left unsupervised. Today we see a couple get convicted of crimes that show that our youth are suffering from delinquency and the defects of our society that is not paying attention to the emotional needs of people. We pay to much attention to the material aspects of life and not enough thought goes into wellbeing and balance state of mind and health. It is sad that we are becoming a mindless society only bent on prosecuting victims of a failed society.
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To be honest, nobody really cares. Everyone is to busy with their own life to notice. Some find it easier to suffer in silence than to reach out I suppose. Nobody can read other people's thoughts.

Well, I kinda went through what this fellow did.
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QUOTE(meistsh_musical @ Jul 19 2013, 11:43 PM)
u useful they will share inform
u useless ass hole they ignore u
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Haha, damn straight. But I am not that useless la cry.gif . He did come to me whenever he needed transportation. He's a nice person actually, just that maybe due to his family situation, he is very prone to kiasu-ness and jumps to whichever place/person that can offer more gooding to him.
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:01 AM

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QUOTE(H4XF4XTOR @ Jul 19 2013, 11:36 PM)
RIP. if only he met /k/. at least he can release his stress and depression here
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you guys would probably just speed up his suicide with your constant "go 14th floor pls >>>>>>>>"
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:03 AM

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QUOTE(iSean @ Jul 19 2013, 11:42 PM)
That's why there's TARC. lol.
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I quit UTAR and went to TARC, not much difference. TARC only a little bit better..


QUOTE(Go_up @ Jul 19 2013, 11:46 PM)
u malay ar?
juz asking because u say racist issue u faced during study'?

btw,get my degree 1 month ago in utar engineering dep, now waiting convo while working

mi SPM -4A others B,no STPM, foundation ( no A) ----> Degree ( 1 A for 4 years )  doh.gif  doh.gif  Nw in singapore working no gain no loss, normal
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I'm half chinese. It's not about race, in UTAR, even chinese makan chinese. It's about the personality/money that matters there..
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:05 AM

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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jul 19 2013, 11:55 PM)
Yeah well, indeed he was at least three times more hardworking than me. I was addicted to gaming last time. But those tips his friend blurted out had the exact same question, only the values were changed.

I do not hate him for being more hardworking and got slightly better results than me in the end, I hated him for his kiasu-ness and being fake. It's like when I got benefit, he comes and stick to me. When I have no more benefit, he will leave and stick to others that have higher benefits. Tell you my story.

Once he asked me to go sing karaoke. One rented car, 6 people, share all expenses including petrol and singing and rent. I said ok. The day before outing, he told me cancel. I said ok, didn't suspect a thing. One week later I found out he did went out to karaoke, just that another person had replaced me. That guy was a major top scorer also. I suspected I was only invited to fill in the gap and to distribute out the expenses to more people. So disappointed in him.
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You also wanted benefit from him, and then complain when he doesn't want to share his hard work with you, you complain and then say he kiasu?

Someone certainly have a sense of entitlement.
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:06 AM

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QUOTE(lopo90 @ Jul 20 2013, 12:01 AM)
you guys would probably just speed up his suicide with your constant "go 14th floor pls >>>>>>>>"
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Actually there are a bunch of good ktards here. Sure we mess around with the "go 14th floor please" phrase. But once we detected something is wrong, ktards are more than willing to help out if they are able to.
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:08 AM

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QUOTE(ISawYou @ Jul 20 2013, 12:03 AM)
I quit UTAR and went to TARC, not much difference. TARC only a little bit better..
I'm half chinese. It's not about race, in UTAR, even chinese makan chinese. It's about the personality/money that matters there..
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Normally materialistic people are like that. Who cares I poor fag, only one goal, work hard, play hard, and success. those people can ignore them.

Like my tuition teacher always says,' 眼中你是第一无敌,其他抛离远远!' XD
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:09 AM

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QUOTE(Balanced @ Jul 20 2013, 12:06 AM)
Actually there are a bunch of good ktards here. Sure we mess around with the "go 14th floor please" phrase. But once we detected something is wrong, ktards are more than willing to help out if they are able to.
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Not really, if /k/ pushed too hard, they really 14th floor.
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post Jul 20 2013, 12:11 AM

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QUOTE(iSean @ Jul 20 2013, 12:09 AM)
Not really, if /k/ pushed too hard, they really 14th floor.
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i remember you get pushed hard too. why no 14th floor wan? biggrin.gif

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