who the eff resrrected this?
GF always sulking....should I breakup with her ?
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 Feb 13 2015, 12:11 PM
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Feb 13 2015, 12:19 PM
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Love is suffering. If u still love her. Be patience with her. She just too love u and make her sulking u.
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Feb 13 2015, 02:08 PM
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it depends on "merajuk" is to catch your attention or she do it automatically that becomes a habit. If is a habit, change her, if cannot.. stop.. and look for another one.. love is love, but marrying the wrong one will ruin your life.
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Feb 13 2015, 02:11 PM
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This is actually hidden signs that the gal already wants to break off....just they dont have the balls...errr..i meant tits to say it straight on the face...
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Nov 22 2019, 10:29 AM
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QUOTE(bluraypirate @ Jun 2 2013, 05:43 PM) I`m in dilemma right now....... BREAK THE FUCK UP BRO...women who compulsively sulk are crazy bitches. They will suck all your energy..make you wonder pointlessly over "what you did wrong" and basically make you feel upset at all times. It is a form of punishment to take revenge on you....i had GF like this before..never text for a while..terus merajuk...i dumped her..I have a gf.....we dated about 8 month now..... she`s nice. but the only thing really annoy me is she`s always sulking for a small reason ( for example text her late, not anwering her call ). sometimes for no reason at all...I knew it`s normal for a girl to sulking or merajuk but sometimes it nearly reach my boiling point. when she`s sulking she will silent for about a week no matter how many times I call or txt her.........when she`s finally respond ( many times when I have to start it first ) she will act normal like nothing happen........when I ask her what happen she`s not answering and quickly change the subject........... there`s a time when I reveal my frustration about her attitude she became emotional and start saying lame things ( for example you`re too good for me ) and start threatening to end our relationship.....and what can I do is just silent, comfort and persuade her to continue our relatonship......... she have a bf before this but she`s got dumped.....i began to think i maybe it has something to do with her always sulking attitude......... I love her.......but now I became tired........ shoud I give her a chance. or should i break up with her and move on.........   |
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Nov 22 2019, 10:41 AM
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QUOTE(jason_spyboy @ Nov 22 2019, 10:29 AM) BREAK THE FUCK UP BRO...women who compulsively sulk are crazy bitches. They will suck all your energy..make you wonder pointlessly over "what you did wrong" and basically make you feel upset at all times. It is a form of punishment to take revenge on you....i had GF like this before..never text for a while..terus merajuk...i dumped her.. OMG. TS already breakup with the gal in January 2014. And you ressurected old thread from 2013. Wow |
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Nov 22 2019, 10:43 AM
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QUOTE(Snoe II @ Nov 22 2019, 10:41 AM) OMG. TS already breakup with the gal in January 2014. And you ressurected old thread from 2013. Wow Hahaha..i googled something on girls sulking..this thread came out..i had to give my 2 cents haha |
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Nov 22 2019, 10:55 AM
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Every human have their own pattern. Those more extreme type, can be tune depends whether their partner find the right way to hit it back.
Merajuk is quite common, but if she merajuk to someone that don't feel it. After some time she will get used to it and no longer like that. Let her merajuk, don't try to pujuk.. behave as if you don't feel she angry at all. She wanna ignore your call, quiet or whatever, let her be. See who can tahan longer (make sure you must tahan). Until she come to you and throw tantrum complaint you don't bother even she angry. Then you say "You angry, I lagi tak mau kacau u. Til you ok, u will recover yourself". Since you already have the thought to give up, who cares? If she still cannot get over it, let her leave. Otherwise, after some time you behave like that.. she will know her behavior not works to "ctrl" you. |
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Nov 22 2019, 11:02 AM
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QUOTE(ReWeR @ Feb 10 2015, 01:03 PM) this is how a normal healthy girl will confront you: Then I think I am originally not the normal kind. I also will keep quiet and show not happy. But my man also no pujuk until I too tired of show that angry face and cannot tahan, talk to him again.normal girl: hey, how come last night you did not reply my text massage? I was kinda worried. you: oh I was asleep that time, I received your sms at 1am ler *show your handphone to her* normal girl: oh i see. I was about to ask you what you going to plan for today. It started simple such as he travel to a place, I told him to call me so that I know he safely arrived. But he didn't call. Then I angry. Yet, his this behavior never change. So many years past, I already don't bother.. he wanna call will call. No point I wait and feel angry as he won't change and he don't seem to understand why I angry. Waste my energy. Hahaha. |
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Nov 22 2019, 11:36 AM
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QUOTE(cc980024 @ Nov 22 2019, 10:55 AM) Every human have their own pattern. Those more extreme type, can be tune depends whether their partner find the right way to hit it back. Quote for reference purposeMerajuk is quite common, but if she merajuk to someone that don't feel it. After some time she will get used to it and no longer like that. Let her merajuk, don't try to pujuk.. behave as if you don't feel she angry at all. She wanna ignore your call, quiet or whatever, let her be. See who can tahan longer (make sure you must tahan). Until she come to you and throw tantrum complaint you don't bother even she angry. Then you say "You angry, I lagi tak mau kacau u. Til you ok, u will recover yourself". Since you already have the thought to give up, who cares? If she still cannot get over it, let her leave. Otherwise, after some time you behave like that.. she will know her behavior not works to "ctrl" you. |
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Nov 22 2019, 11:38 AM
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QUOTE(jason_spyboy @ Nov 22 2019, 10:43 AM) Hahaha..i googled something on girls sulking..this thread came out..i had to give my 2 cents haha dude...see the date b4 u post...  |
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Nov 22 2019, 11:41 AM
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Yes... Spoilt brad n golden child princess... Ur life will suffer..
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Nov 22 2019, 01:15 PM
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Its difficult having a sulking GF
Imagine being married to one Cut your losses and move on |
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Nov 22 2019, 03:44 PM
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The one thing I can't tolerate is her showing me that shit face.
Want to scold, then scold. Got something to say then faster say your piece and STFU. The worst is when she shows a shit face at what is supposed to be a happy moment or occasion. Oh well she is only human I suppose. |
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Nov 22 2019, 03:47 PM
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communication is the key? face to face.?
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Nov 22 2019, 03:58 PM
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QUOTE(bluraypirate @ Jun 2 2013, 05:43 PM) I`m in dilemma right now....... If it is not clear that you should dump this childish girl, you wouldn't be posting here in the first place.I have a gf.....we dated about 8 month now..... she`s nice. but the only thing really annoy me is she`s always sulking for a small reason ( for example text her late, not anwering her call ). sometimes for no reason at all...I knew it`s normal for a girl to sulking or merajuk but sometimes it nearly reach my boiling point. when she`s sulking she will silent for about a week no matter how many times I call or txt her.........when she`s finally respond ( many times when I have to start it first ) she will act normal like nothing happen........when I ask her what happen she`s not answering and quickly change the subject........... there`s a time when I reveal my frustration about her attitude she became emotional and start saying lame things ( for example you`re too good for me ) and start threatening to end our relationship.....and what can I do is just silent, comfort and persuade her to continue our relatonship......... she have a bf before this but she`s got dumped.....i began to think i maybe it has something to do with her always sulking attitude......... I love her.......but now I became tired........ shoud I give her a chance. or should i break up with her and move on......... Dump. Her. |
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Nov 22 2019, 04:01 PM
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Err..necro thread?
This post has been edited by tomato people: Nov 22 2019, 04:02 PM |
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Nov 22 2019, 04:10 PM
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Why necro thread, have some ethics... sigh
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Nov 22 2019, 04:10 PM
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QUOTE(tomato people @ Nov 22 2019, 04:01 PM) Err..necro thread? Because why not? Lol |
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Nov 22 2019, 04:13 PM
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she have a bf before this but she`s got dumped.....i began to think i maybe it has something to do with her always sulking attitude........
your answered your question. Leave now or regret later. |
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