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Before marry, bad gf sulks and sulks until bf lets her win; ... after marry, she will nag and nag and nag softie husband to continue winning/dominating.

Why bad women have the habit of sulking and nagging.? = because gf/wife has a natural fear of directly confronting the bf/husband to get what she wants, eg to get the bf to report his whereabouts daily to her, in order to eradicate her insecurities and doubts. This is similar to animals having a natural fear of humans.
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I totally agree. Sulking is very immatured and it's how children behave to get their parent's attention. It is also a passive aggressive way of punishing your partner. End up I used to be so upset and down thinking about "What did I do wrong to make her angry?". I think this sulking is a universal problem..both men and women do it..but mostly women. This is one thing I hate about being in a relationship. Why can't we just be matured and stop this sulking that simply destroys lives and peace of mind..

if your not interested, may introduce to ktard..since so many is 4ever alone..

Yes very well said @lurkingaround. Women these days really want to have QUEEN CONTROL. Gone are the days when men used to be real men. Now I so sad to see so many men in the malls carrying their GF/wife's handbag..hen pecked husbands. Always having their tail between their feet. Women are very smart at being manipulative and blackmailing men, especially on sex, i.e. if you don't give me this and that, I won't let you have sex with me. Really sad la...

Who necroed this? I've to add on this this sulking thing. Sulking is one. The other to avoid is negative/pessimistic. Always living on fear of something. Everything you try to do, they'll give you 101 excuses why it won't work. They can bring down your high and happy into how their low. It's why it would not work rather than how can we try to make it work thing.

But usually these sulk and negative traits comes together.

so hows TS life now??

Hahahahha same here!

Only time will break u guys up anyway...better now than later. Sien to always facing a sulky pokey.....and yea from a girl's point of view here. Duno y guys just like to loh foo lei san.....seen many guys lOoooove these kind of girls and then complain later on or have affairs later on....i mean hello, not like u dunno right from the start tat your gf is like this? Then still wanna get married and cry over spilled milk later :/ really wh4 :/

This post has been edited by mIssfROGY: Nov 26 2019, 07:07 PM

wow, really old thread brought back to life.

Opssss didnt realised. Qonder if TS finally dumped her then? Or still hanging on the cliff?

Im curious too. hanging since 2013 or long gone already the gf?

Me three

LoL!!

Quote for the truth

Okay found it.

I do carry my wife handbag because i could and not because she told me to. By carrying her handbag, she can rest and the arm wont be so pain. I also do carry my mom handbag if i can.

Wow. /k going towards necromancy starting with this thread now?

I don't think sulking is the real issue here. The problem lies in communication.
Guys will always find reasons to justify that he no longer has feelings towards the girlfriend. When both people get together, initially during the honeymoon period, the guy would just accommodate the girl's demands, pampering the girl and saying the girl is cute (liking that the girl being jealous) etc.
But as time passes by, good feelings fade and not-so-good feelings appear. Both people refuse to communicate and would start finding faults and more disliking, but not to remediate the issue, although the issue could be minor.
Once the feelings (spark) fade and the excitement is gone, one would just initiate the breakup; and the technology makes the process much easy. No need meetup, nor talking through phone, just by using the text messages through WhatsApp.

Being an adult with maturity, there will be no scene of quarrel and fight. Probably tears and a tinge of heart pain while swallowing those words.

But eventually life moves on. Time will be the best medicine.

No matter one is at the initiating end or at the receiving end, I wish everyone of us taking it easily, since there is one saying, "Every happening is the best happening". 一切的发生都是最好的发生。

Another advice, the ball is always in the court of the initiating end. Hence if one would like to reconcile, the ball would have to be passed to the other end, conveying the message and making sure the communication is ongoing. Only the continuous two way communication would keep the game going. Cheers.

tell her u not happy with how she react to things.