I`m in dilemma right now.......

I have a gf.....we dated about 8 month now..... she`s nice. but the only thing really annoy me is she`s always sulking for a small reason ( for example text her late, not anwering her call ). sometimes for no reason at all...I knew it`s normal for a girl to sulking or merajuk but sometimes it nearly reach my boiling point. when she`s sulking she will silent for about a week no matter how many times I call or txt her.........when she`s finally respond ( many times when I have to start it first ) she will act normal like nothing happen........when I ask her what happen she`s not answering and quickly change the subject...........

there`s a time when I reveal my frustration about her attitude she became emotional and start saying lame things ( for example you`re too good for me ) and start threatening to end our relationship.....and what can I do is just silent, comfort and persuade her to continue our relatonship.........

she have a bf before this but she`s got dumped.....i began to think i maybe it has something to do with her always sulking attitude.........

I love her.......but now I became tired........ shoud I give her a chance. or should i break up with her and move on.........

only you can answer your own question.

break up. move on.

TS, I feel you bro, but think a for a moment are you ok living with this person?

If you intend this to be a serious relationship, you know whats best and as you typed, though you expressed your feelings she doesn't respond back to you in a way which is even rational. Hard as it seems, is it worth it?

The decision is yours, hang in there bro.

love her? imagine what her sulky attitude and face looks like after marriage. save the divorce fees and hassle. drop her now and look ahead. so many more out there that will bring warmth to your heart and happiness. look ahead not backwards. drop her and stop the pain

If she merajuk over simple things, no point continuing the relationship. Think of what will happen if bigger issues arises next time. Find one who is understanding.

Friend,

You don't think just because you date her for months, you both are forever together.

You may be under "probation" period.

She is just testing and checking you out to see if you are the right person. That is why she is not so open to you.

Don't read too much about her threat to dump you.

But if you both are not holding hands and she haven't confirm you verbally as her boyfriend, you still have the right to see other women.

You ask us whether you want to break up or not but you know the answer yourself, I can see that you are unsure because you still like her although she doesn't respond to you. So in other words, you don't have the guts to break off. Unless she is the one who initiates.

Just wait and see...

If things don't go well, just take this as a learning experience.

Yep, only you can answer your own question. But I have a friend with similar attitude with your GF and honestly, every time she pull that shitty act I soo wanna bash her face. It is annoying, even from a girl's point of view.

hurmm... perhps time for u to move on...

Move on

You have to ask yourself and solve this dilemma yourself.

1. Do you love her so much that you feel you can tahan going through with her sulking over small matters if you were to remain in the relationship?
2. If you choose to keep peace, can you be patient with her everytime she does this?

Personally, the relationship doesn't feel like a positive one and I'd end it and just move on.

This post has been edited by MysticShadow: Jun 3 2013, 12:31 AM

shit happens bro...sometime we dunno the ppl until we together with him or her~

She sulking again yesterday............reason.......I didn`t reply to her text.......hell it`s not because I meant to.......during saturday night she texting me around 11 pm but her sms only arrive to my phone at 1am and I already zzzz that time......only realize it after waking up the following day at morning..........but never in hell cross my mind she will sulking over this.....try to explain to her the whole thing but as usual it`s like talking to a doll.........no respond. maybe it will continue on for another 4-5 days if I didn`t do anything ( as usual I have to start all the talking first )......

mybe it`s time to make desicion....... really guys this is gone too far....... her attitude never matched her age ( 26 btw )

This post has been edited by bluraypirate: Jun 3 2013, 08:49 AM

Treat her like crap. That will brighten her day up for sure, instead of calling her and apologizing and trying to make up with her.

Let her deal with her baggage. Its not yours for the taking.

Honestly? Dump her.

There's no better cure than hard lovin'. You putting up with her attitude simply means you're enabling her misbehaviors.

dont you think you shud assure her more? i think she's insecure and worried.. i guess it's your job as a guy to assure her that everything's gonna be okay..

if you cant do it, then it's gonna be hard for u.. and for her

key to relationship is communication. talk to her about it. if after confrontation and she's still the same, then you can move on.

You're being too soft. Hell, i'll do the same damn thing. Cold shoulder back to her for a month.
Such simple understanding she can't grasp, I'm not sure how both of you going to discuss bigger matter in life.

You're giving into her "emotional blackmail" which matured relationship won't do and doesn't exist.