QUOTE(bluraypirate @ Jun 3 2013, 08:37 AM)
She sulking again yesterday............reason.......I didn`t reply to her text.......hell it`s not because I meant to.......during saturday night she texting me around 11 pm but her sms only arrive to my phone at 1am and I already zzzz that time......only realize it after waking up the following day at morning..........but never in hell cross my mind she will sulking over this.....try to explain to her the whole thing but as usual it`s like talking to a doll.........no respond. maybe it will continue on for another 4-5 days if I didn`t do anything ( as usual I have to start all the talking first )......
mybe it`s time to make desicion....... really guys this is gone too far....... her attitude never matched her age ( 26 btw )
i'm guessing she learned this weird attitude from her parents.
this is how a normal healthy girl will confront you:
normal girl: hey, how come last night you did not reply my text massage? I was kinda worried.
you: oh I was asleep that time, I received your sms at 1am ler *show your handphone to her*
normal girl: oh i see. I was about to ask you what you going to plan for today.
usually only married women will choose not to confront, not to ask for explanation, but kept all her anger by herself. Because she couldn't possibly lose her husband, both side clearly did not love each other, but using this attitude to protest this lousy relationship.
your gf probably still not mature and living under the shadow of her parents. she dunno that in actual love life, everybody can break up if not match, everybody can ask for explanation, and everybody can express their doubt and unhappiness (in a mature way). she thought every couple in this world is like her parents ... eternal cold war and not talking to each other, will never dare to ask each other for the questions they really wanted to know.