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 GF always sulking....should I breakup with her ?

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jasonlim
post Nov 22 2019, 11:36 AM

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QUOTE(cc980024 @ Nov 22 2019, 10:55 AM)
Every human have their own pattern. Those more extreme type, can be tune depends whether their partner find the right way to hit it back.

Merajuk is quite common, but if she merajuk to someone that don't feel it. After some time she will get used to it and no longer like that. Let her merajuk, don't try to pujuk.. behave as if you don't feel she angry at all. She wanna ignore your call, quiet or whatever, let her be. See who can tahan longer (make sure you must tahan). Until she come to you and throw tantrum complaint you don't bother even she angry. Then you say "You angry, I lagi tak mau kacau u. Til you ok, u will recover yourself". Since you already have the thought to give up, who cares? If she still cannot get over it, let her leave. Otherwise, after some time you behave like that.. she will know her behavior not works to "ctrl" you.
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jasonlim
post Nov 26 2019, 08:38 PM

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QUOTE(jason_spyboy @ Nov 26 2019, 09:31 AM)
I totally agree. Sulking is very immatured and it's how children behave to get their parent's attention. It is also a passive aggressive way of punishing your partner. End up I used to be so upset and down thinking about "What did I do wrong to make her angry?". I think this sulking is a universal problem..both men and women do it..but mostly women. This is one thing I hate about being in a relationship. Why can't we just be matured and stop this sulking that simply destroys lives and peace of mind..
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