QUOTE(superman99 @ Jul 22 2013, 10:29 PM)
i have been working out for almost a year already T.T
Then it might have to do with your fear of the weights. I'm not saying your scared of them but you feel that you might not be able to lift it. But if you've been training for a year you should be quite confident with yourself to push yourself harder. Its all a matter of your own willpower!
You need to harden your mentality. If you really want to push more you need to force yourself to do it.
I'm guessing your training on your own? if you are and your not pushing yourself harder then you need to find someone to help motivate you. bring in a friend to be a spotter so you can try pushing higher weights.
But yes, I'm sorry to say that if you've been training for a year and haven't increased much then its really on you. You have to take the next step and say yes.. I can do it. Even if you only get 3 reps on a higher weight. Atleast you know you can get that weight down and push it harder next time.
But if you stagnant and don't push yourself then of course you won't increase.