Went to club few times already but still did not succeed in getting any girls but only danced . how to approach a girl when they are dancing at the dance floor ? What should i do or what should i say to them ? any sifus please helpppp

hm..so far my experience is..once dance for sometime we hug > exchange num and go out next day. or dance and have eye contact with her whole night > kissed on face and lightly on the lip > exchange num.

As long dont stick too long with a girl that have male friend at her table. some male friend of her will come to separate u both. u must take action fast. if the girl like u.. she will dance with u again 2nd round once her friend not around.

1. Have a smile on your face or at least a face that shows you are having a good time.

2. Proper eye contact.

3. Confidence.

4. Dance but not to the point that you are waving your arms around and giving out high fives to random strangers.

5. Don't sing to the song that is playing.

6. When on the dance floor, it's okay to be with your friends but make yourself accessible. Try not to be too close to your group of friends. Imagine, say if there is a girl you like but she's bunched up with her girlfriends.. Chances are you won't approach her. Same thing.

If the girl likes you, she'll make frequent eye contact with you and flash you a smile or 2. From then on just position yourself closer to her but don't go all the way. Let her come closer to you too and if she leans in. You're in No talking necessary for the first approach, talking comes later. They say it's a numbers game and it's true to a certain extend but remember to always be a gentleman

expert expert thank you will try it out next time but usally when a girl goes to dance floor within seconds already 'FISHED' by other boys too many boys on the dance floor --

Only approach girls who want to be approached.

Only approach girls who want to be approached by you.

You can tell who they are - they're the ones who glance at you, who make eye contact with you, who smile back when you smile at them. If you're getting those signals, then you don't need any pick-up line or any special technique; just go up to her and say hi.

But the vast majority of the time, you will go to a club and see dozens of hot girls completely ignoring you. There is nothing you can do about them. They are not there for you. They are not there for guys who are handsomer or richer than you. If they choose to layan a guy who is not you, that's just your luck. Do not get butthurt about it.

On the other hand, there is a way to make girls pay more attention to you at clubs...

such as ?

This post has been edited by vincenteoh88: Sep 9 2012, 08:28 PM

I assume you are not very good looking. You got plenty of money? Booked a vvip room and ask her if she would join you?

so only money can get girls ka ?

haha it doesnt matter la after that day you wont even remember who is she (approaching ONLY)

Have fun.

Sincerely have fun.

The next time you go clubbing, tell yourself, "I'm going to have fun, I'm going to enjoy myself, I'm going to talk and laugh and dance and get juuuuust drunk enough. All of us are going to have a fantastic night tonight."

Notice how there's no mention of girls in there? That's right. You can't enjoy yourself if you have too high expectations - like you're going to pick up a hot chick and take her home that night. You cannot go clubbing with that kind of objective in mind. You will never have fun like that.

Go clubbing because you enjoy clubbing - because you enjoy hanging out with your friends. Talk, laugh, dance, be loud and happy, be the most fun gang in the club that night. Then step away from your friends for a minute, sip your drink, and look around.

You may suddenly notice that the cute girl 2 tables away is smiling at you.

smack their honky tonk badonkadonk

Then what would you expect from such place?

depends on which club u go ba

don't do the pelvic thrust . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1ZcIAAFU7I

awesome

Then you have to show you that you're better than all these other guys. It does help if you're physically attractive because honestly, when you go clubbing you'll be looking for the hottest person to grind with anyways so there's nothing personal about it. If there is something you can do to improve your chances with the ladies, do it then when you hit the clubs next time they'll notice you more

I don't know what you wear to the clubs but personally I like to keep things simple and classic. A nice khaki pants and dark colored polo t works well or a dark jeans with a grey shirt with rolled up sleeves. Converse shoes, because they are easy to dance with and look good with any pants I have. To finish everything off, an amazing looking watch.

getting girls and then what would you want to do next?
and so you decided to get your gf on a club and no where else? a place with easy targets?

I don't think he meant meeting a girl in a club and asking her to be his gf. He's just there for fun For the moment

YESSSS the girls there cannot be gf 1 i just wannna have fun thats all

dont simply approach girls or do some eye contact with them
like last time i saw a guy go do some eye contact and talk to the girl next thing u see a look a like KL Gangster scene in the carpark

1. Make you face become handsome means make plastic surgery, later every days when you dance, you can F* all the girls

y must find girls in club? their makeup very thick u know..i know cuz i club very often.

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Added on September 10, 2012, 9:29 amu know, last saturday i went to club with my friends, and suddenly 1 girl come and approach me and drink and danced with me. so i got along with her and dance too. after that night i went home, i check out her fb, MY GOD she's married and have a child alrdy

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Added on September 10, 2012, 9:36 ameasy man..the one and only way.
but few shots and give them drink. they sure get wasted ! haha

This post has been edited by facelol: Sep 10 2012, 09:36 AM

Looks don't get you very far. As everyone else has mentioned, its about the type of image that you project to others. If you're having fun, girls will sense that and it will be easier to approach them.

this u nid to ask Justin Li, he's a pro, but 1st thing 1st, do u have monee in ur pocket else forget the idea.

just bring rm100 also enuff..keep buy for them girls drink. all u need is DRINKS DRINKS DRINKS and make them drunk. there u have it.

This is the best advice, certainly coming from an experienced people.

doesnt matter la after club den forget them d , not interested in proceeding to next step . girlfriend i will find myself

This post has been edited by vincenteoh88: Sep 10 2012, 01:43 PM

so u wan ONS la..just say la earlier..haiyo

ONS ?

one night stand..means f*** a girl for a night then forget everything

LOL no laaaa im just interesting in playing at club thats all

That is about right. You will be amazed what sort of people get attracted when you are genuinely being yourselves. TBH, most people go clubbing nowdays has a fixed mentality of wanting to get hooked up with a hot chick and not genuinely wanting to have a good time.


You are either the type whom has a high tolerance for alcohol or have not met a chick who can drink you under the table before. IMHO, unless you are the first type, don't bet your money on it.

This post has been edited by Madgeiser: Sep 10 2012, 03:04 PM

ur 'club' is different d

slap her ass and ask nice ass wanna piap2?

hey i just met you and this is crazy, but here's my number so call me maybe

later u kena slap on the face lol

If you purposely make girls drunk in order to take them home and have sex with them, you are a rapist.

rapist is those who use force and hurt girls..
im not consider as rapist HAHAHA

When girls get drunk, it's much easier to force them.

Why can't you get a girl to be with you when she's sober?

i found going in with confidence really help. often in clubs, i see a girl or two girls dancing, and then 10 more guys just dancing around her. It is obvious that these guys are interested in her, but have no balls to push forward.

I would just walk straight to her, tap her at the shoulder, and yell at her ears 'Hi, Im XXXX. I am keen to buy you a drink. Would you join me and my friends? we dont bite!'

often these girls would say yes, after looking at my table - usually a mixture of guys and ladies, at working age. Once they are over, its talking and 'get to know you better' time!

u seems like a pro

my bro let me give u advice. first you need to dress sharply, hw did ya think james bond picks girls up
always always wear a suit. clubs bars picnics all accept suits. den u need to grow a pair of balls and go hit on de girl. dont buy a drink cos u look desperate
swagger up like u own the joint, if u feel unconfident think of her as a ladyboy from thailanf and u will be a ok. so when u go talk her friends will block block and thesr.ppl are known as cockblockers. neutrLize dem by engaging them in light talk first. eg how u doing, nice dress but.nvr compliment de one u wanna pick up. u gotta neg her to get her to lower her b****shield. i.e. her resistance to being.picked up. tease her with somrthing light. like yo momma.u got a big ass. i shall impart.more words of wisdom when i get a ptoper keyboard to type on

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Added on September 11, 2012, 9:56 pmmy bro let me give u advice. first you need to dress sharply, hw did ya think james bond picks girls up
always always wear a suit. clubs bars picnics all accept suits. den u need to grow a pair of balls and go hit on de girl. dont buy a drink cos u look desperate
swagger up like u own the joint, if u feel unconfident think of her as a ladyboy from thailanf and u will be a ok. so when u go talk her friends will block block and thesr.ppl are known as cockblockers. neutrLize dem by engaging them in light talk first. eg how u doing, nice dress but.nvr compliment de one u wanna pick up. u gotta neg her to get her to lower her b****shield. i.e. her resistance to being.picked up. tease her with somrthing light. like yo momma.u got a big ass. i shall impart.more words of wisdom when i get a ptoper keyboard to type on

This post has been edited by sparda: Sep 11 2012, 09:56 PM

kinda deep LOL

This post has been edited by vincenteoh88: Sep 11 2012, 10:16 PM

Easier gua.

From a distance , you see a girl.
GO ALONE !!
If possible,if she's with her friend.She won't be looking at one side only.She will look around,try to capture her glance and smile once.

She will be looking twice to check whether she's being stalk or something , and just try to act your looking around also . Then make sure you catch her glance and smile back to her .

She will be smiling and looking away.
If she is looking again at your direction = good signal.
If no just wait for her to give another glance..then only go and start.

If possible barge in to dance with her.
Give her eye contact and smile whole time if possible to make her feel that your enjoying your time with her.
If possible,hold her hips if she allow ( GOOD SIGN !!! )
then dance , and try to ignore the beats like pop/rock/remix and try to spend dance with her the classy move .

NO CHEESY MOVES !!

If possible complement her dancing skills .
She will confirm blush or say " No la,i cincai dance one ".
Then insist she's doing a great job like this " Not bad for a starters to dance such nicely ".

If she smiles,then go ask her number.
SMS her after 2 days , i repeat << 2 DAYS !!
Let her mind be puzzled.
Keep it cool bro !

Call her for next clubbing if possible,act as if you both are going.
Before that meet her somewhere and go for a dinner.

If everything work out on the dinner,you might get your kiss in the club itself.

Sincerely.
Jeeva,
Ambassador of Club LUST/Stage

Funniest topic ever seen..

Why you go to club?
Reason: Either dance with pretty girls or drink only.

Why girls go to club?
Reason: Either dance with handsome/rich guys or drink only..

REASON WHY YOU CANNOT APPROACH A GIRL:
Because you might be ugly. Or wearing stupid stuffs to the club..

A girl will simply approach you when you're standing at the dance floor.. If only you look handsome or the stuffs you're wearing are outstanding, then start kissing(my favorite part).

My advice to you, try not to approach girl that don't seem to like you. Reason are there might be chances that she have friends down the stage and they might be gangster style, you kena tumbuk and she won't safe you.

I tried once, but luckily that girl help me.

Good luck on hooking one bro Don't go throw your face oni

I don't have good impression of guys approaching girls at clubs.

why? not all of us approaches girls with bad intentions.

Well...it's an impression doesn't matter your intention

At the same time, guys like me always think that girls who go club, are full of intention to fish, and full of irresponsibility, not to her self but also people around them, i.e.: the family, often they disregard about parents worries and staying late to see them home, or parents having their version of impression that their girls might be cheated, rob etc.

Some girls told me that they go club just for a drink (can't drink at other place like a classy pub but to a lousy place with overpriced drinks?)
Some girls told me that they are going there just to dance (come on girls, don't talk about salsa, u can't even suffle properly i bet)
Some girls told me that they are going there because of stress (I see no reason in this, the only thing i feel after going club is constant vommit and headache due to hang-over)

So, my impression on girls that goes club (i mean always, like a routine) is not a good thing
TL:DR

This post has been edited by TheEvilMan: Sep 12 2012, 09:00 AM

Then you have comprehension problems.

Talk like you damn experienced but you don't know anything. Prices of drinks in pubs and clubs are about the same.

So what if they can't dance well? They dance is for you to see izzit? They dance for the same reason people sing karaoke - because they enjoy it, regardless of how good they actually are. You don't like to dance, don't judge people who do.

That's your problem then. Don't like clubbing, don't go. Other people who like won't give two shits about what you think.

oh really, i'm sorry professor love, u're one smart ass (as if u look like it )

Edit: I mean ur look as in ur face lol, incase I am not making myseof clear again :/

This post has been edited by TheEvilMan: Sep 12 2012, 09:30 AM

in this world there are 2 types of girls
1.girls which are easy to get
2.girls which are hard to get

slowly think of this..baib2

i stating this as an example of guy's possible POV, like what u mentioned about girl POV
apparently some nerd look-a-like dude take it too seriously (my statement is valid yo, it does have the face features like N-generation desu??!)

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Added on September 13, 2012, 8:51 am3. girl u never gonna get a.k.a. lesbian

This post has been edited by TheEvilMan: Sep 13 2012, 08:51 AM

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Added on September 13, 2012, 8:51 am
3. girl u never gonna get a.k.a. lesbian

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i cant agree more

this thread is just AWESOME. thumbs up!

so u learned alot la ?

dun simply approach gals on the dance floor unless u are sure that she is single/bf not around..

my friend got tackled by a guy on the dance floor while her bf is eye-ing them from a corner...he got hit after he walked out of the club...

hhaha!!

the girl no reject him ?

he d expandables

You are just too conservative, you just belong to the other group & please don't pretend you much better then others.

I have plenty of friends met their bf/gf or husband/wife in club. BTW they all grad & most are professional (Doctor, Lawyer, Engineer, Accountant & etc)

Most people go to club to socialise, enjoy the fun. Life is short, don't too restrict yourself.


Realise here got plenty of experienced ppl in flirt.

A important advise, never scare of fail in approach, but scare you don't learn from the mistake.

Spot on mate. SPOT PHUCKIN ON..

True story bro . They never tried before and they say not good haizzz

good point,well made!!
my friends and I used to club when we were in uni,
i met my soon to be husband from a club.from just a simple hi,we dated for 5 yrs n we r gettin married tis year.

there are many types of ppl in the club.some are bad n some are good.

my point is ,to those ppl who never go to club,please stop being judgemental n just live your own life.obviously this threat is not for you to comment:)

just my two cents:)
cheers

hello can i buy you one more drink
like this can already

u sounded like a girl. are u a girl? come lets go club oneday

this is very true, u sounds like having very good experiences

you have no idea where I'm coming from

i know where u came from

stupid of course me is girl stupid
no not interest go out with people coming from forum

it's true, only stupid believe u is girl, please fix ur gender and england

DO IT THE TRADITIONAL WAY. OFFER HER A DRINK.

Oh the irony coming from your nick
Sleaze huh.. 12 tequilas enough..?

watch how i met your mother and learn from barney

I'm an engineer that enjoys alcohol and clubbing.
I love to buy girls drink and enjoy the company.

Does that make me a bad guy? I'm just enjoying my time.
She pulling to the toilet or taxi is beside the point.

its always a good time!~
ohhh oh ohhhh oh ohhhh ^^~
club is for fun TS.
y think so hard looking for girls?
just b urself, let them com to u XD

when i go club, girls approach me.i dont apporach girls

imo..whatever you do, just don't dry hump the girl from behind, it's freaking rude. just dance near her and see whether she reciprocates or not, if yes, then you know what to do next =) be confident!

go watch greedy ghost movie. see the part where the guy win lottery and enjoy at the club part. hehehe..
so far i got bring home few girl to ahem... most important things is the way you talk and flirt.

At very first, increase your personal value, have a successful career to build up your internal charms, which leads you confident, it subconsciously shows your fascination all over your gesture when you talk. Improve your intrinsic maturity, then you would have a terrific thinking skill. Plenty of my friends are grads and mostly professional like engineer, lawyer etc, they do have a flying color result for attracting girls at the club.

you want to have a right attitude. You are not going up to them just for “one night stand”. You are going up to them plainly just because you are a friendly, sociable guy, and networking with random people is just a part of your social life as a relax lifestyle which one high standard gentleman does.

At Last, Have Fun. Game was Fun, but you needa take the game to higher standard level for a upper tier man. By having a good minded and right attitude, you can take it to advance excitation and making chemistry in your life. Enjoy it.

This post has been edited by javentzy: Dec 27 2012, 01:24 AM

Why so much theories...

Just tell her straight whats in your mind

My experience :

1) you really did attract me to come over and to chat you up. There are many hot girls around yet I still have eyes on you only. If you are already happy with someone else, I absolutely respect it and I draw my line. Else, I like you to like to see all the straight forward thing about me that you started seeing the last 1 min ago.

2) You stand out among the rest and I honestly do want to make out with you but I would allow the standard protocol to flow first unless you like to skip that procedures.

Results:

1) it works wonder at many times
2) I was given cold shoulders
3) being labeled crazy or pervert
4) given a tight slap to the face. Once a girl shock me with a slap then proceed to shock me again with a French.
5) quite a few times causes fights cuz bf was around. Once the bf was something like a gangster or something but in the end still kau Tim. And yea, survey careful if there's bf around.
6) some gave me numbers straight away.
7) once I was reported to staff for sexual harassment.

Just be bold and be yourself. Don't need to prepare speech before hand. If it work, it work. If not, just move on or be persistent shall you insist.

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Added on October 15, 2012, 4:09 amThose days are over for me. Was a legend. Concentrate being a good father now.

This post has been edited by M_century: Oct 15 2012, 04:09 AM

I know you are good at it Vinesh. I still remember New Year. =)

Bwahahaha..
Wing-man of the year la you..

just be confident and dont dry hump.. most date in club wont end up with ONS, but if you are lucky den u might get one.

if you're tall and go to club. for example like 174cm+ , u 'll get girls automatically or girls come to u automatically. no joke

meh. not true.

i am 175cm...i had faced it,experienced it, done it.

Im sure it wasnt just because of height.

should be face problem liao

haha, not born lengzhai. How?

This post has been edited by Jaja91: Oct 17 2012, 04:59 PM

I see so many experienced clubbers here huh? Well, TS, like what they said, just have fun and that's the point of going there.

Good read though, made me laugh at some comments. Lol.

If any of you plan to go to Zouk, well, just lemme know. I might be able to get you a guestlist. =)

hehe under age

Bro.. tricks like this mesti kena simpan sendiri ma.. abo all learn d how ? market become lower d la..

ayam jual ikan. xD

wait until you're 21 then. LOL