You are just too conservative, you just belong to the other group & please don't pretend you much better then others.

I have plenty of friends met their bf/gf or husband/wife in club. BTW they all grad & most are professional (Doctor, Lawyer, Engineer, Accountant & etc)

Most people go to club to socialise, enjoy the fun. Life is short, don't too restrict yourself.


Realise here got plenty of experienced ppl in flirt.

A important advise, never scare of fail in approach, but scare you don't learn from the mistake.