Have fun.

Sincerely have fun.

The next time you go clubbing, tell yourself, "I'm going to have fun, I'm going to enjoy myself, I'm going to talk and laugh and dance and get juuuuust drunk enough. All of us are going to have a fantastic night tonight."

Notice how there's no mention of girls in there? That's right. You can't enjoy yourself if you have too high expectations - like you're going to pick up a hot chick and take her home that night. You cannot go clubbing with that kind of objective in mind. You will never have fun like that.

Go clubbing because you enjoy clubbing - because you enjoy hanging out with your friends. Talk, laugh, dance, be loud and happy, be the most fun gang in the club that night. Then step away from your friends for a minute, sip your drink, and look around.

You may suddenly notice that the cute girl 2 tables away is smiling at you.