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TSvincenteoh88
post Sep 9 2012, 03:04 PM, updated 14y ago

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Went to club few times already but still did not succeed in getting any girls but only danced . how to approach a girl when they are dancing at the dance floor ? What should i do or what should i say to them ? any sifus please helpppp
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post Sep 9 2012, 08:24 PM

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QUOTE(Holocene @ Sep 9 2012, 06:41 PM)
1. Have a smile on your face or at least a face that shows you are having a good time.

2. Proper eye contact.

3. Confidence.

4. Dance but not to the point that you are waving your arms around and giving out high fives to random strangers.

5. Don't sing to the song that is playing.

6. When on the dance floor, it's okay to be with your friends but make yourself accessible. Try not to be too close to your group of friends. Imagine, say if there is a girl you like but she's bunched up with her girlfriends.. Chances are you won't approach her. Same thing.

If the girl likes you, she'll make frequent eye contact with you and flash you a smile or 2. From then on just position yourself closer to her but don't go all the way. Let her come closer to you too and if she leans in. You're in smile.gif No talking necessary for the first approach, talking comes later. They say it's a numbers game and it's true to a certain extend but remember to always be a gentleman biggrin.gif
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notworthy.gif notworthy.gif expert expert thank you will try it out next time biggrin.gif but usally when a girl goes to dance floor within seconds already 'FISHED' by other boys too many boys on the dance floor --
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post Sep 9 2012, 08:27 PM

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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Sep 9 2012, 08:26 PM)
Only approach girls who want to be approached.

Only approach girls who want to be approached by you.

You can tell who they are - they're the ones who glance at you, who make eye contact with you, who smile back when you smile at them. If you're getting those signals, then you don't need any pick-up line or any special technique; just go up to her and say hi.

But the vast majority of the time, you will go to a club and see dozens of hot girls completely ignoring you. There is nothing you can do about them. They are not there for you. They are not there for guys who are handsomer or richer than you. If they choose to layan a guy who is not you, that's just your luck. Do not get butthurt about it.

On the other hand, there is a way to make girls pay more attention to you at clubs...  biggrin.gif
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such as ? brows.gif

This post has been edited by vincenteoh88: Sep 9 2012, 08:28 PM
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post Sep 9 2012, 08:29 PM

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QUOTE(rc2x @ Sep 9 2012, 08:27 PM)
I assume you are not very good looking. You got plenty of money? Booked a vvip room and ask her if she would join you?
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so only money can get girls ka ?
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post Sep 9 2012, 08:33 PM

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QUOTE(abanga @ Sep 9 2012, 08:31 PM)
girl at club are whore..like seriously, decent girl wont club.. in b4 ppl rage
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haha it doesnt matter la after that day you wont even remember who is she (approaching ONLY)
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post Sep 9 2012, 09:10 PM

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QUOTE(rc2x @ Sep 9 2012, 08:57 PM)
Then what would you expect from such place?
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depends on which club u go ba
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post Sep 9 2012, 09:32 PM

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QUOTE(mowlous @ Sep 9 2012, 09:25 PM)
don't do the pelvic thrust . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1ZcIAAFU7I
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TSvincenteoh88
post Sep 10 2012, 02:09 AM

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QUOTE(Holocene @ Sep 10 2012, 12:47 AM)
I don't think he meant meeting a girl in a club and asking her to be his gf. He's just there for fun smile.gif For the moment biggrin.gif
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YESSSS rclxms.gif rclxms.gif the girls there cannot be gf 1 i just wannna have fun thats all
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post Sep 10 2012, 01:42 PM

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QUOTE(facelol @ Sep 10 2012, 09:26 AM)
y must find girls in club? their makeup very thick u know..i know cuz i club very often.


Added on September 10, 2012, 9:29 amu know, last saturday i went to club with my friends, and suddenly 1 girl come and approach me and drink and danced with me. so i got along with her and dance too. after that night i went home, i check out her fb, MY GOD she's married and have a child alrdy


Added on September 10, 2012, 9:36 am
easy man..the one and only way.
but few shots and give them drink. they sure get wasted ! haha
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doesnt matter la after club den forget them d , not interested in proceeding to next step . girlfriend i will find myself biggrin.gif

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post Sep 10 2012, 02:44 PM

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QUOTE(facelol @ Sep 10 2012, 02:42 PM)
so u wan ONS la..just say la earlier..haiyo
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ONS ?
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post Sep 10 2012, 02:47 PM

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QUOTE(facelol @ Sep 10 2012, 02:46 PM)
one night stand..means f*** a girl for a night then forget everything
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LOL no laaaa im just interesting in playing at club thats all
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post Sep 10 2012, 04:50 PM

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QUOTE(frekezoid @ Sep 10 2012, 03:02 PM)
slap her ass and ask nice ass wanna piap2?
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later u kena slap on the face lol
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post Sep 11 2012, 10:16 PM

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QUOTE(sparda @ Sep 11 2012, 09:55 PM)
my bro let me give u advice. first you need to dress sharply, hw did ya think james bond picks girls up
always always wear a suit. clubs bars picnics all accept suits. den u need to grow a pair of balls and go hit on de girl. dont buy a drink cos u look desperate
swagger up like u own the joint, if u feel unconfident think of her as a ladyboy from thailanf and u will be a ok. so when u go talk her friends will block block and thesr.ppl are known as cockblockers. neutrLize dem by engaging them in light talk first. eg how u doing, nice dress but.nvr compliment de one u wanna pick up. u gotta neg her to get her to lower her b****shield. i.e. her resistance to being.picked up. tease her with somrthing light. like yo momma.u got a big ass. i shall impart.more words of wisdom when i get a ptoper keyboard to type on


Added on September 11, 2012, 9:56 pmmy bro let me give u advice. first you need to dress sharply, hw did ya think james bond picks girls up
always always wear a suit. clubs bars picnics all accept suits. den u need to grow a pair of balls and go hit on de girl. dont buy a drink cos u look desperate
swagger up like u own the joint, if u feel unconfident think of her as a ladyboy from thailanf and u will be a ok. so when u go talk her friends will block block and thesr.ppl are known as cockblockers. neutrLize dem by engaging them in light talk first. eg how u doing, nice dress but.nvr compliment de one u wanna pick up. u gotta neg her to get her to lower her b****shield. i.e. her resistance to being.picked up. tease her with somrthing light. like yo momma.u got a big ass. i shall impart.more words of wisdom when i get a ptoper keyboard to type on
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kinda deep LOL

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post Sep 13 2012, 02:05 PM

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QUOTE(simon308 @ Sep 13 2012, 11:40 AM)
this thread is just AWESOME. thumbs up!
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so u learned alot la ? biggrin.gif
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post Sep 14 2012, 04:33 AM

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QUOTE(conqu3ror @ Sep 13 2012, 10:25 PM)
You are just too conservative, you just belong to the other group & please don't pretend you much better then others.

I have plenty of friends met their bf/gf or husband/wife in club. BTW they all grad & most are professional (Doctor, Lawyer, Engineer, Accountant & etc)

Most people go to club to socialise, enjoy the fun. Life is short, don't too restrict yourself.
Realise here got plenty of experienced ppl in flirt.  thumbup.gif

A important advise, never scare of fail in approach, but scare you don't learn from the mistake.
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True story bro . They never tried before and they say not good haizzz
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post Sep 14 2012, 01:15 PM

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QUOTE(doorbell @ Sep 14 2012, 04:35 AM)
good point,well made!!
my friends and I used to club when we were in uni,
i met my soon to be husband from a club.from just a simple hi,we dated for 5 yrs n we r gettin married tis year.

there are many types of ppl in the club.some are bad n some are good.

my point is ,to those ppl who never go to club,please stop being judgemental n just live your own life.obviously this threat is not for you to comment:)

just my two cents:)
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post Oct 17 2012, 12:49 AM

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QUOTE(win44 @ Oct 16 2012, 04:34 PM)
Im sure it wasnt just because of height.
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should be face problem liao rclxms.gif
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post Oct 17 2012, 08:11 PM

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QUOTE(zphyremix @ Oct 17 2012, 06:25 PM)
I see so many experienced clubbers here huh? Well, TS, like what they said, just have fun and that's the point of going there.

Good read though, made me laugh at some comments. Lol.

If any of you plan to go to Zouk, well, just lemme know. I might be able to get you a guestlist. =)
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