hmm, don't have to feel so geram la.. actually if you know more about the S phones you won't feel so geram anymore
there aren't much difference between our Desire and the S phones actually
the difference is basically just like Desire HD vs Desire
Incredible S doesn't have a better screen vs Desire, just a larger one, its the same type of screen and the exact same resolution
what the S phones have though is a slight bump on the internal specs compared to Desire,
and also like you said, a front facing camera.
but Desire is also good in someway, the Desire have plenty of custom ROMs to play with, although that might not concern you at all

plus not a lot of phones can get to be the phone of the year

you should feel proud of it.
the S phones are cheaper for a reason, because now they're not the highest end of smartphones, unlike the Desire used to be.
when the Desire came out, its a breakthrough, now.. its all just rehashes of the Desire building on Desire's success
the difference between Desire S vs Incredible S is that
Incredible S has larger screen and better front & back camera, and that Desire S has a unibody aluminum design
that's pretty much it, the internals are more or less the same.
btw I think Desire S and Inc S have locked bootloader right? it is still under development by the devs to unlock it.