Because they have freedom and they do not need to think about their bf before doing anything..

Nowadays girls are more independent, or they just want to be a bit more "conservative" to relationship and not acting like one that will rush over whoever just to get some love.

Aiyah say only la. I think I've heard like so many girls say that when they were younger, but at the end of the day still get married. Why are you taking what they say literally and why are you asking how to change them when it's not your problem. Has it ever occured to you it might be just an excuse to get rid of guys that they don't like?




This post has been edited by Drian: Mar 15 2011, 02:43 PM

Many girls are single and men to.
perhaps,influenced by the movies

when girl 25, they look for older man, when 35, look for younger men...

Agree to you, we can't change them & that is not my problem.

Met quite some of these girls, and after a year or two, they still single. Probably some girls really afraid of commitment to relationship & being hurt again.

Well girls nowadays want to keep their options open widely. So that they can taste every single men in the world. They have everything to offer where by guys don't.

Imagine a girls spread their legs what will happen? And Imagine guy spread their legs, wonder what happen?

nowadays girl with high education usually like single as their requirement to choose a bf are high

This type of girls deserve to be alone and rote in hell. Seeking for mr perfect. Go fly kite lah idiots

As u mentioned, pretty and high educated....
Nth to be amazed that they just want to jual mahal and thinking that not many guys out thr doesnt qualify to be their mr.right.
Wait till they found one handsome + rich + 5C, see how they respond...

Or simply, they just not interested to the person they speaking to

single is good ba! dont u want to be single too~?

Many girl as well as guys in late 20's is also single nowadays. Mostly break up d and not looking for anyone currently or near future. Depends on fate whether they're gonna meet with anyone more right or Ngam with them or not.

People in their late 20's, early 30's, who've experienced break up b4 will have certain standard/requirements. Some just dun wanna get together for the sake of getting together or having a partner. They're just not desperate. N also dun wanna be together again with someone with about the same characteristics as their ex. Dun want repeat the past mistake anymore.

As long as being comfortable/happy, being single/married/dating/divorcee is acceptable, is okie. Better than being in an unhappy relationship.

now people earn more than grandfather time...so being bachelor now n 4eva is no longer n issue if compare with stone age where marriage is compulsory by old generation parents

I think an important mentality to be changed among some people is, just because a girl is still single in their 30's or late 30's, automatically some people will say 'Sure the girl have some character/attitude problem'. I just think it's really unfair for the girl. But if the guy is single and above 35 yrs old also, others dun find it a big issue compared to a woman.

from the quoted,
Honestly, you has face problem.

haha sexism still exist lor thats y women need 2 have WOMEN MOVEMENT GROUP like AWAM unlike men

anyway i dont mind marrying any wife 10 years older than me s long s our hearts can glue 2gete very closely...then i m in 4 a lifetime ride yo

Are you sure you will want 10 yrs older ladies?

Think again, when u are 25, she is 35. Of coz she may still hot & pretty.

While you are 35, she aldy 45, certainly become auntie type (unless she like those artist still look like 30).

When you are 45, she already getting retire 55. While all thing had change during this age.

Remember one thing, girl mature & aging faster then guys.

While you are 40, probably you still look like 30's. But for most ladies, I dun think so.

mature lady are usually hot.. and sexy. hehe

when they become old they are not !

they r still young ...they still want to enjoy their single life ..
or they still have the choice to wait for mr right ..