Aiyah say only la. I think I've heard like so many girls say that when they were younger, but at the end of the day still get married. Why are you taking what they say literally and why are you asking how to change them when it's not your problem. Has it ever occured to you it might be just an excuse to get rid of guys that they don't like?




This post has been edited by Drian: Mar 15 2011, 02:43 PM

There's also the mentality that guys must provide financially and pay everything for the girl and the girl do not need to be successful in life.
Why didn't you say it's unfair for the guys?

To me there's nothing wrong with women having high expectations. If women have high expectations towards men, men too can have high expectations towards girls. So women can reject/dump men because they do not meet their expectations(wealth, status etc), similarly men can reject/dump women because if they do not meet their expectations (beauty, boobs, wrinkles). As simple as that.

So if a girl is still single and have high expectations, that's her problem and that's her issues. As long as she doesn't whine and blame the world about it, why bother what they expect from guys.


This post has been edited by Drian: Mar 30 2011, 03:05 PM

It is relevant because I'm trying to show that they can expect anything from a guy but they will only get and maintain it if they themselves can meet the requirements of the guy. So why make a big fuss about the high expectations girls have on guys when at the end of the day it's also whether they themselves can meet the requirements of guys.

Too tired to argue with you , if you want to think that it's irrelevant so be it.

My task is just to say, don't bother being emotional and making a big fuss on how high girls expectation is .