Hey have of you chrisitan guys ever struggle to find a soul mate?

Sigh. I dated a lot of non-christians, only problem is they don't want to convert. I also dabble with the prospect of marrying a non-christian. I can accept not converting my wife but I really feel very bad if my future kids don't follow me to church, it might affect my kid's future faith because maybe the wife want them to be buddhist/taoist.

I find it very very hard to meet christian girls at church. They seem aloof to me. Almost unapproachable, like they are seeking a super holy guy or something.

Then the better looking christian girls, wah got one time, I saw 3 guys going after this girl at the same time. So competitive one.

bro, try approaching a nun.

u been here 2005 and it take 7 years for u to realized tht?

this is dictatorship, adapt with it.

been here 2005, just started trolling like last year lol

hi alvin,

Did u found your soul mate at the moment?

There is one thread each for the major religions. The other two major religion threads are here:

Islam lounge: http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=877129
Buddhism lounge: http://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=1520928

These threads are not meant for debate and discussion of religions (which would belong in RWI), they are more like "chit chat threads" for believers of the respective religions. A place to get together and chat (hence why it is in kopitiam).


Trust God lor. My previous two gf's were non Christians. Somehow didn't work out. Then I was single for five years before my current fiancee literally almost dropped into my lap from the sky (she is Christian too).

HALLELUYAH

bt really i oso want to learn abt this religion. dunno where to start. so secretive.

did both of ur ex exercise premartial sex? is it allowed in kristian?

not secretive la, this religion is.....how to say, u need a certain competency then onli can be super christian

seems like this is the only way out for me too, trust the Lord that He'll bring me to the right person at the right time

If you're sincere then you're welcome to ask your questions. If you're here just to troll then there are hundreds of other topics in /k/ for you to do so.

No, and No.

wt u mean by competency? not to all ppl?

which 1 i troll? no i ask very sincere but maybe wrong tone sorry i dont know, very new here.

oo very gud ar u. if christian want to marry, must hv large sum of money like malay wan or very simple only?

its not secretive at all, u can start to know more from now on.

no, its not allowed. just like the "law" protecting the below 18 not to do it. why does this concern u in a religion btw? care to share?

we human are no perfect being, chasing for the word "super" will makes u chasing perfection. being wanted to be "super" or "perfect" will leads u to have "arrogant" attitude.. we don't wants to be arrogant ppl

hi blackbox,

I guess its just a mis-understanding maybe?
if christian wants to marry don't need to have very large sums of $, it depends on what u want for your wedding demand. It can be a very simple blessing ceremony. Are u having problem with wedding budget? Care to share? I can try my best to answer

This post has been edited by skydrake: Nov 18 2012, 05:56 PM

no la i just ask ask only, curious.

bt got this 1 friend of mine that hv Cristian gf bt he islam. so u think how to solve? islam hv to convert of Cristian hv to convert? they really love each other i tell u.

I almost found...with non christian.

I went out with a taoist girl...we almost held hands but I hesitated.

She is quite outspoken and she deliberately say things to me that irritates me...like she tell me she likes to go temple and meditate incantations. Why would she say such things?

After that I didn't bother going out with her.

Sigh, yes i know i know...submit to his will and trust him.

But its being many many years, i am not getting any younger.

I don't want to wait for the miracle of abraham and sarah...when i marry at 50 years old and then pray and hope god can help us to produce an offspring like isaac when we are 80 and hope we will live until 150.

I attended one church, the pastor told us that he conducted a lot of marriage councilling and he experienced a lot of tough call whereby lots of couples argue and want divorce. So he keeps on telling us single guys, its better not to marry than to suffer a dysfunctional marriage. But hey, this pastor himself is married and got two kids so he does not know how it feels like to be single too.

I am not saying i like to rush into a marriage but if only, if only, the church is open about christian dating and encourage its members to try going out with each other. But most members at church are very closed up. I have asked girls at church for a date, only for them to give me big big frowns and then the church leaders come over and give me black face.

Then I decided enough is enough, I go outside and date non-christians. Why? Because the christians are not giving me any opportunity. The bible says do not mix unholy yoke with unbelievers...but hey, the church is not helping.

Wah, i wish they can drop on my lap. But I go to do ministries, the girls there don;t seem to be interested in me. I even try to approach them, like so LCLY and aloof. They then give me the black face. They seem to be seeking the super holy christian guy. This kind of guy ah, i tell you don;t exist one. Darn unrealistic.

But outside the church, so many non-christian girls so interest in me, i bodoh bodoh reject them. Now i regret. One by one of those non christian girls who go after me, are getting married. Now I am suffering from loneliness because i listen to the pastor.

She is in good hands of the pastor. Will take time before the thing can come out. Hopefully she will come to the healing room every monday 7.30pm -10.30 GTPJ.