Is virginity important to you girls?
I maybe very open to my friends, but deep down inside, I am still waiting for the RIGHT one.
By that I meant marriage LOL
How about you girls?

yes, it provide u ultimatum again any girl or women ..

Hey, same here. But I also wan the same in a guy. Oh wait, I've got one

even i'm a man, but girl virginity oso important to me...

(^___^)

yup agreed , thres a saying , no matter how many women that man bang/slept with , at the end he will choose a virgin for a wife............becoz of offspring quality maa

huh ? offspring quality ?

what difference will a virgin or not make to that ? ?

hard to say , ppl believe bad parent lead to bad children , means if u commit adultry then lead to the birth of your child , theres a child will do the same , dishonour runs in the family , in relegion too , u are advised to seek out virgin wife , coz usually virgin bride ( or in other case , widow which her husband died , left her for no good reason ) will give birth to good natured child or in Malay said , anak yang baik budi pekertinya , its just a theory but who want to try make their children into monster right?? , since most malaysian give piority to tradition or old custom , if two couple who not virgin anymore got married ppl will talk , even if u said , our love is strong , but if every day ppl talk bad it efffect the marriage ( since ppl believe wat ppl said is they prayer /doa to us ) , other than that , virginity is the crown of a women , what i mean is shes a good women , not easily tempted to let go of her virginity to guys who can talk cheap ( klaka love love in sarawakian ) , even playboy if he decided to settle down he will find a good wife , who can protect her honor so she can teach the children good moral ( since the playboy surely know tat he cannot show good moral to his children ) , sorry for the bad english , dun take it seriously its just a personal opinion


p/s im not a playboy btw

True with the facts, at some point that we still stick to our customs

if u love that person ignore the fact she is virgin or not la.

tak kan u wana survey : 'hey r u virgin, ' b4 goin into r/ship with her meh..

so for me from a bois perception not really important as long she/he desease free

another same previous topic.btw,my answer it's i don't mind about virgin

i also dun really mind , coz some girls lost their virgin due to sport or other rough activities , if tats the case ( or in other case is like kena rape or smth at the same category ) , tats ok , coz tat one cannot ramal...........but if she lost her V cost of free sex or wateva , playgirls bla2 , cannot lee

i am virgin also.

but i ok whether or not my gal is virgin.

so girl that not virgin will never got married lor....pity 1
i hope all guys open his mind about this....
virgin or not is not important...
heart is most important

pity u bujang forever

can u survive without a guy?

I place emphasis on health issues rather than being a virgin or not.

my mind is very open one. whatever status u r also can.

yaya , well , if health problem , i du think vergin or not have different..............XD im a guy so not really a prob , if u loose ur virgin to ur bf then marry him tats ok wat.......taking responsibility..................imagine u a guy is virgin , then u maried with no virgin wife anymore.............XD.............for me cannot accept one.............especially she already slept with other guy

Ehhhhh... The virginity I am talking about here is the matter that have you been "poked" or not? HAHAHA
Not about sports or what.
Well, I believe virginity is something special to look forward in a marriage.
Not in a normal relationship. I know girls sleeping around, sometimes I wish I can do that to my ex because I hate him (silly I know), but in the end of the day, it is not worth it. Keeping for MR RIGHT.

keep oso no use later old no one wan u until berabuk

then should give it away to guy after romance date

Love cannot be justified whether ur a virgin or not. Thats just my opinion on it...

yes yes..virgin is very important

then no different from those who do bissness at lorong2 gelap there lee , at least they got money , u wat u get??shame onli....hehe , girls should kept their virginity to their wedding day..........if both party first time do "that" , its be an event that can be remember bcoz its special , if both party already used doing that , then nothing special during the first night leee

virginity is not important as love

i deeply respect those girls who keep their v for the right one ... tat show how big sentimental value to the right guy! its worth to keep it for d right person rather than mess around ...

Well, from my friends around me, and what i heard, i think most of the teen lost their virgin during 15-18 at high school time..heard alot about this..lol..don't angry if i said something wrong

i heard from my friend, most of the girls in college has already lost their virginity mostly..~ issit true?

not most, it's there.. but we didnt notice.. they always can pretend.. but who know,

when the first night they hubby will know laa

urm..can maybe...
god already choose 1 for me...
so wait lor

sometime Mr. Right is the the right one. Even after u marriage. but its worth waiting.


im gonna get marriage this june and my history is worst.. being sleeping around for years so i cant aspect my fiance is virgin and i dun care. As long that we both love each others and prepare to make our marriage as happy as we could.. im ok with that.

There was once I read this quote before: Virginity is the most precious gift you can give your future hubby

FOR SURE. it is important.

virginity is overrated nowadays science is advance already can restore virginity

virginity also can restore?

As for me.... i have my own way to see virginity.....

Before a gal become my GF having sex with other guy, i wouldnt mind.....

But during couple, if she do this mistake...... there will be no 2nd chance given

Virgin or not, is not important at all. Whats more important is if you love her or not.

Some people say waiting for the right person but how will you know he is the right person? Have you seen the divorce rate now. It doesn't matter if you are virgin when you get married.
Lets say, there will be a divorce, you sure ain't a virgin right that time? So, are you gona like be depress coz you are not virgin anymore?

This post has been edited by DreameR888: Jan 15 2009, 11:05 AM

For my view, virgin may be important or not, depend on you love her or not. Btw if she betrayed you and deal with other guys during in-relationship, that is unacceptable.

Virginity... long time never hear this word. In my opinion virgin or not ... it only matters if you love that person. What about if you love very much that person and suddenly you found out that he/she don't have the virginity. Were you break up with the person? maybe if you have a little bit of open minded of the issue. Maybe I am not virgin or virgin but who knows. Only you and your partner knows about it.

Virginity is not important. Nuf said by me

Meaningful quote, li ping

and to those guys out there, virginity is not the main issue to assess the love in a r/ship cz usually wen it comes to the fact to realise is ur partner's virginity, i blif tat there's already a certain level of love n foundation has develop between both of u(except fot those that exp one nit stand).

only at that time, u wana end the r/ship is bcz the girl is no longer virgin? doesn't it sounds abit naive? isn't it the love n the bond is the most important??

but after, if one can remain virgin till the ur mr right, it stil wud b d best

This post has been edited by XXX2008: Jan 16 2009, 12:01 AM

if the guys f*cks many girls up, then many girls lost their virginity, then the guy only looking for a virgin wife?
is it fair?
for me virgin is not important as long as u play safe, wkwk..

virgin or not virgin.. when you love someone, you wouldnt care much about this anymore.. lol!

important

However, giving out virginity on the first night of your wedding day doesn't mean the marriage will last long forever, it's just a way you show royalty and respect to your body and your future husband.

Just my 2 cents.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Nov 16 2009, 04:14 PM

The value of virginity is overrated. Most men don't expect their wive to be virgins by the time they marry....they would have lost it to themselves during courtship or from previous relationship. Sex is an activity...for enjoyment. Doing it with someone you like makes it more enjoyable. It has got nothing to do with love....and in this day and age, I think 80% of those over 25 are non-virgins already. So I think getting married and expecting that the partner is a virgin is gonna dissappoint many.

yes,beside of both lover enjoy..sex also can get relationship more closer and show/give everythings to partner .25 ? from what i see.from what i heard , my experiences and my friends over 15 not virgin already.LOL

This post has been edited by wah chai: Jan 18 2009, 09:58 PM

no matter how, i personally think that it's always best advised to put sincerity as first priority and shouldn't cling on sex to maintain a relationship.

Make love because you love him, not for self-enjoyment.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Feb 27 2009, 10:50 PM

You go girl! I support you!

So what if you know the person you love so much that you cant live with have syphilis, gonorrhea, Hepatitis B and AIDS?

Will you still give it to him?

I'm sure he won't have mood to make love with me if he knows himself having so many diseases

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Jan 19 2009, 04:49 PM

hmm... i think many ppl will say today i dun mind i dun mind whether u r a guy or gal
mayb til da day of marriage u soon realize u mind
but who knows?
so no point sayin this until it happens

hm..i think society nowadays dont really value virginity as high as the olden days.
I think at the end of the day, it's just personal preference. Some ppl dont mind, some mind... so IMHO, it depends lor..

i already married man.i said " i don't care / don't mind about my partner's virgin .the most important she treat me good and love me.

Wah Chai player ma, dunno how many gals become victim adi, "mai ke ke".
Forget bout da "no need 2 guide" or "betta service part" ok, its ok 2 me as long as she is not a player n she is free from disease.
My gf wasn't a virgin when we met, after making sure dat she wasn't a random player n free of disease, we coupled n love each other very much till we broke up coz of a difference in opinion n personality, as u see, its nothing 2 do with da virginity thing.

Some guy important and some are not..For me important..If u get virgin girl and married with u..That girl not easy run and divorced..Normally not virgin girl will run away after 3-4 years after your LOVE IS BORED!!..After 3-4 year so many couple alway fighting..At that time LOVE not important than our heart..easy to say that girl easy to run if they get new bf or something special.

Nope.. not importado...

Then what if he is very horny and had a couple of drinks that day?

wife lost it during 18 .. and i think i the no.10++th for her .. btwi lost mine to her

This post has been edited by lunar sea: Jan 20 2009, 04:34 PM

"why make an issue out of a tissue"
quote from i dunno who..
well, the rule of thumb is don't question or ask about the past of your partner.
the most important thing is now,present and future.

My gf also lost it at 18.
18 still ok la, some dat i heard of, younger than 16 also liao adi.
But from my observation, 18 consider acceptable age. Ppl who lost it younger than dat age r usually players, coz their minds r not mature enough to think for themselves.

Even the partner have past history have 4-5 divorces and have 3-4 kids with each wives, and contracted HIV?

and more than 100 reported case of conning and police record of rape and murder 8 year old boys

[quote=babytensai,Jan 20 2009, 02:10 AM]
Wah Chai player ma, dunno how many gals become victim adi, "mai ke ke".
[quote]
i'm not player.pls don't make this kind of joke.tq

Yes i am so agree with you... is so unfair for a guy to have his wife a non virgin, and also guys must be fair to their wifes also that they are virgin..

so popular this thread

i wonder whn 2 innocent virgins wana make out n they duno hw to do it.. is tat posible?
like nvr watch p#*n or nvr been exposed to those stufff....
imagine...
guy n gal gt naked...
they ask each other "wat should v do nxt?"><
haha

There was news report in China that there was this couple married for 8 years without kids because they do not know how to do it until they visited the doctor.

yes, important to me.

i think both were workaholics and this is why pron should not be banned

its good for education

Haha. I don't think any teaching is necessary!

if there is no teachin means there is no prevention...
if there is no p*#n to enlighten us..
v wouldnt noe which lubang to masukkan... 3C1( i heard ther is 3.. personaly duno)

try n error..?
sufferin for d gals....

They were from some rural village la if I remember correctly. Go google or something should be around.

but, this stuff u've to try out urself, not teaching by someone. and ur gurl would tell you where is it, u don have to worry about,
try n error thingy.lol

depends how u c it lor, in the past, gal have to be virgin because of unequality between the 2 sex ... today, everyone is equal, virgin or not virgin not for ppl to judge, is for urself to weigh.

Personal thought ... I feel that a non-virgin partner is better than a virgin since he/she will be more conscious about his/her body and knows what is best for him/her ... including selecting partners therefore producing best results for both parties.

i pity those gals who teach guys to insert d salah 1...
seriously.. wat if d gal themselves dun noe?

aiyo..there's nothing as fair or not fair..as long as both also love each other, why bother so much about ppl's past? im sure in the past they did it out of love anyway

some like it new, some like it used.

If you like it new, make seek advice from those who like it n

Likewise if you should like it used. Those whom like it used would tell you things you cannot accept and they also would not understand you.

So, if I were you. I shall not bother to ask anyone, as it your and its all of to you.

if girl de all kena see liao but not yet kena bang, consider virgin?

virgin is important for me..
if my girl wasnt virgin..
myb i not marry her..
bt if i the one who 'pecahkan' her virgin..
surely i marry her..

Hey virgin, let us know how you score.

yea i 100% agree unless miracle appear

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Added on February 5, 2009, 2:42 pmtrue enough

This post has been edited by thken: Feb 5 2009, 02:42 PM

i have one question here, how do u ask ur gf whether they lost their virginity?


for guys: how do u ask ur gf whether they lost their virginity? will u ever regret wateva answer ur gf gives u?
for girls: wat will u think if i were to ask u tat particular question above? does it mean tat i dun trust u? are u willing to tell?

virgin important, more than all other aspect.


unless special case like being raped , that was ok, still can tolerate

yeah, i think virgin is important

but i was wondering y did guys always wanna/search a virgin woman to be his wife eventho he's not virgin anymore..seems unfair to me..

lol..ask ur bf then..
if he no virgin.. just break-up..

its do bother me but yeah cant argue no more bcoz love is evrything.....

hey, me still virgin ok? if i not virgin then i dont care anymore.

SURE!! virgin is important
its my "gift" afta we get married

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Added on February 7, 2009, 2:46 pmya2~
SETUJU!!!!
but...."she" must b so depress rite??
hiseh..sad la...

This post has been edited by ruby8: Feb 7 2009, 02:46 PM

im fine with virgin or not since i aldi accepted my partner.
love > virgin/non-virgin/nonsense

I personally think love conquers all, and that is what matters most.

Consider these scenarios:
1) You met someone, you fall in love with him or her, you guys are happy together but a few months later you find out she or he is not a virgin. Are you going to break up straight away?

2) You love a girl or guy, you have dated for years, and you decided to get married. After your wedding night you discover he or she is not a virgin. Are you going to get a divorce??

Of course this topic is a subjective one (ie it is of personal preference) but saying virginity is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing is kinda silly. So if she's not honest, not loyal, disrespectful, but still a virgin, you would prefer that?

Just because a person is not a virgin doesn't mean she or he has STDs or any other diseases contracted sexually. There are such things as precautionary measures and blood tests.

i totaly agree with with you =.= beside i also dont really matter if my GF is vergin or not But i still gona love here till she die
Althouge i am her 5th boy friend.. donoe is she still vergin anot ,but i wont ask her cous i love her and i could see that see love me alot

i support virginity..if i were a guy..i think it is important..however there owez be a guy for all of us..so don't worry lah..

am new to this thread. first of all kudos to riinalynn for this thread. it's good stuff. keep talking it out peeps. it's good when not-so-talked topics like this have a platform where all of us can give our two cents.

just to redirect to riinalynn's first post..yea we are talking abt whether virginity is important or not. so lets not get into talking abt whether is virginity the most important thing. it is definitely NOT the most important thing for a relationship to work. it DOES however have a part to play. some of u posted saying that it's more on the character of the person and how the person treats his/her partner that are more important. i totally agree with that. it is the beneath the surface stuff that keeps a relationship together n progressing.

my two cents on the virginity however is a crazy cool bonus to have in marriage.


picture this,..

a well-chosen present packaged with it's protective anti-dust anti-fungal vacuum packed packaging, boxed in a classy met black double-ply gradient recycled solid cardboard box, fastened with a cream white gold-laced shimmering ribbon ending with a pretty flower bow placed perfectly at the top corner of the box, topped off with a mini-card with a personal note just below the flower bow, and placed neatly in an elegant chic superior quality paperbag being given wholeheartedly to the love of your life. . .the glitter in his/her eyes sparked by a deep sense of expectation as he/she receives and opens the present..one step at a time..pulling the mint condition boxed present out from it's secure paperbag, unfastening the it's flower bow ribbon slowly but surely..reading the personal note on the mini-card heightens the anticipation..opening the top of the box..peeling back the sealants from the vacuum packed packaging..and finally revealing the brand new untouched unopened present you've been wishing for. >>>> pure ecstasy and ultimate sense of satisfaction


now picture this..

a well-chosen present packaged with it's protective anti-dust anti-fungal vacuum packed packaging, boxed in a classy met black double-ply gradient recycled solid cardboard box, fastened with a cream white gold-laced shimmering ribbon ending with a pretty flower bow placed perfectly at the top corner of the box, topped off with a mini-card with a personal note just below the flower bow, and placed neatly in an elegant chic superior quality paperbag being given wholeheartedly to the love of your life. . .the glitter in his/her eyes sparked by a deep sense of expectation as he/she receives and opens the present..one step at a time..pulling the mint condition boxed present out from it's secure paperbag, unfastening the it's flower bow ribbon slowly but surely..reading the personal note on the mini-card heightens the anticipation..opening the top of the box..peeling back the sealants from the vacuum packed packaging..and finally...REALIZING THAT IT'S AN OPENED PRESENT....!!.... *uhhhh*....oh >>awkwarddd<<...some time passes and u know that u know that he/she is a good person and one who really lays his/her life down for u. u smile again and thank the heavens.

it's still a good present(oh thank God that with the character and values and love of the person..the person turns out to be a real good person and a good match for you)... just minus that super cool bonus called virginity which IMHO still IS an awesome sorta gift you would wanna give to that one special person whom u wanna spend the rest of ur days with.

my long two cents.

peaze out =>

P.S - im a virgin, im engaged, im getting married in 6weeks time, and im SOOooo looking forward to it with an awesome virgin woman
P.S.S - if u are not a virgin already, dont feel that u are not worthed anything anymore, its always never too late to make a stand in life and go for something of a higher value.

ur article so long.. @@

Nice one there jasonwes!

Congratulations on your marriage! May it last forever!

oh, terima kasih banyak-banyak!

yep, moga-moga begitu.

im in the midst of doing me pre-marital course. pretty neat stuff.

yeah because the analogy between a human being and an object is totally realistic..

not.

lol at people saying marriage = the right one.

chances for you to be married with the not-so-right is just as high. so what if you keep your virginity then gave it to ur so called future hubby and the marriage fell off and u got divorced etc.. then what are you gonna give the next future hubby?

nice one jasonwes
i will try to picture intimate relationships now with cardbox, sealants, ribbons n all
and somehow relate sex with cardboxed present

very sexy

That is so true...

Virgin or not not really important but of course not a girl who keep whoring herself around..