Feb 21 2009, 02:44 PM
these are based on personal experience, and from married couples and even divorced couples as well
1. Sexual Compability
sexual compability is a very very important aspect in marriages.
sometimes, the male's sex drive overwhelm female sex drive, like if your wife is a virgin, how would you know that she enjoys sex as much as you do ?
This is what happens to a friend of mine(he's around 38), his wife only made love with him once in a month, and that leads him cheat outside and cause the divorce
what if it's the other way round ? you cant satisfy your wife and you feel insecure about your "manliness"
2. Current divorce rates
as in today's divorce after marriage rates, it's around 50%, why is it so high ?
i wish i understand why, but it makes you wonder, what are the chances of the girl you'll marry which you love is one of the non-V
3. Current average age of marriage
due to economic pressure, people are getting married at a much older age, lets say around 30, but our sex organ started to produce these hormones at around 13, so what to do in the other 17years before they get the "first hand experience" ?
4. Peer pressure
on average, malay couples get married at a younger at as compared to other races because of peer pressure, like " there must be something wrong with you if you are not married by 25 for girls ". The peer pressure in society demands exchange of sexual experiences, even girls can exchange their experiences during chit chatting, so it's no longer a taboo. you dont do it and you become a lame-ass
so please think again
guys, dont be so selfish and go poke cherries and then demand fresh ones for yourself when you're really finding a life partner
to me couples can only stick together if they are compatible, those who prioritize on virgins and look down on non-V are perhaps still young, and not involve in real relationship yet
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