I still don't get why a lot of guys who are non-virgin have the audacity to say that they want a virgin as a wife. And why is the girl being victimised in the sense that guys that sleep around can get around and be lauded as a hero whereas girls that sleep around get labelled as sluts?

My take is that only virgins that actually save themselves for marriage, so to speak, are entitled to ask for a virgin as a partner.

But it is extremely unfair to stereotype non-virgins as unloyal cheating whores, for just as you can have the cheating virgin, you also can have the extremely loyal non-virgin.

The thing is, you wouldn't know. That you have to trust the guy to tell you the truth.

But then again, you also won't really know whether a girl is a virgin or not, as I read somewhere that the popped cherry can be caused by sports as well.