Mar 18 2017, 06:14 PM
QUOTE(jknowsit @ Mar 18 2017, 05:25 PM)
I'm 26 this year and I’m still a virgin. Virginity is good but should not be seen as a pride of a woman. I am certainly aware that I am too old for this title. Speaking of which, I will be a bona fide late bloomer.
Understand that virginity is seen inconsequential in this era and most of us easily downplay the value of sexual purity (so do I) and men like going after someone who have had done it for umpteen time. Somehow I feel imbalance within myself because being a virgin at this age isn't my choice.
Bf and I were once infatuated but we wanted to wait for the right moment. I could have lost it a long time ago if Bf hadn’t devoted himself to his religion frantically in which he held on to asceticism after we had been dating for a year. He wanted to keep our virginity for marriage (for each other). I admit this was part of the reason I broke up with Bf before because I thought we were a weird couple. Can you imagine we're in our 20s, being together for nearly 3 years, never had sex? We were lack of physical intimacy to build a strong emotional bond between us.
Even when I met someone else after the split, I insisted that we should wait and the someone else respected that. To a certain extent I want to keep for someone who really deserves and is really meant to be with me. Speaking of which, if I had had many serious relationships, I would have had sex with every serious bf. But I did not have that chance, so I'm still a virgin.
After reconciliation Bf promises he will give me a normal, healthy, and happy couple life. He’s decided not against this natural and beautiful thing. I make him realize a relationship, aside from other things, needs to be based on basic sexual compatibility as well.
yea i do agree with u that, this is not our choice...Understand that virginity is seen inconsequential in this era and most of us easily downplay the value of sexual purity (so do I) and men like going after someone who have had done it for umpteen time. Somehow I feel imbalance within myself because being a virgin at this age isn't my choice.
Bf and I were once infatuated but we wanted to wait for the right moment. I could have lost it a long time ago if Bf hadn’t devoted himself to his religion frantically in which he held on to asceticism after we had been dating for a year. He wanted to keep our virginity for marriage (for each other). I admit this was part of the reason I broke up with Bf before because I thought we were a weird couple. Can you imagine we're in our 20s, being together for nearly 3 years, never had sex? We were lack of physical intimacy to build a strong emotional bond between us.
Even when I met someone else after the split, I insisted that we should wait and the someone else respected that. To a certain extent I want to keep for someone who really deserves and is really meant to be with me. Speaking of which, if I had had many serious relationships, I would have had sex with every serious bf. But I did not have that chance, so I'm still a virgin.
After reconciliation Bf promises he will give me a normal, healthy, and happy couple life. He’s decided not against this natural and beautiful thing. I make him realize a relationship, aside from other things, needs to be based on basic sexual compatibility as well.
are u ready to do it after the reconciliation?
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