As for the title is virginity important to girls?

From my girlfriend's opinion, YES because of religion and how she was brought up by her parents.

I have been dating my girlfriend for 3++ years almost to 4 next mid-year and I've never poked or deflower or pop her cherry before. She would like to think in a way that her virginity is a present on my wedding night. We did kissing until to the stage of DRY humping but never SEXual intercourse.

It depends on the guys and girls' thoughts individually. If a girl asks me is being a virgin important, I would say yes. However, I don't mind having my 2nd-half as not being a virgin as long as the reasons are acceptable to me. Playgirls and girls that have 2 or more boyfriends aren't acceptable to me because although they've said they changed, a bad apple is a bad apple and the probability of her backstabbing you is quite high.

In Malaysia, there are people who accept non-virgins as their loved ones, but there are also people who will talk bad things about girls not being a virgin anymore and usually the gossips hurts. The safest bet I feel is be a virgin until you met Mr. Forever Love You because

Exhibit A: Not a virgin - some guys and his parents does not like the fact that his wife/daughter-in-law is not a virgin before marriage.

Exhibit B: Virgin - ALL guys would want to marry a virgin girl.

P/S: This is just MY own thoughts about this. Think twice before you act.

This post has been edited by Avion: Nov 20 2009, 12:50 AM

Wrong? Enlightened me. Some guys do not like marrying a virgin girl? That's kinda odd to me.

O.o this seems new to me. All my friends in Malaysia and Australia would prefer to marry a virgin girl. Hmm...then be a virgin and non-virgin has pros and cons. Well then it is up to individuals to decide which weights more than the other.