sbux, she's just showing her concern la... i'm her first dil ma no matter how i wish to tok back she is after all mil n not my own mum should refrain refrain refrain... but she knows i'm not happy coz everytime she bring it up my face is a bit diff... u can't skip breakfast la... i used to skip breakfast n go for brunch... now if i dun fill up my stomach n then pump/bf, i'll get jelly legs... my boy is back to his usual self... mayb he din swallow properly from the nite feedings due to my very engorged breast...

i just read an article from babycenter... mayb i should say bf can protect me from cancer n baby from alergy... nego until 1 yr... i dun expect for 2 yrs now

This post has been edited by nicKit: Feb 1 2011, 01:33 PM

I put 2 bags of ebm into the freezer during midnight. In the morning, one pack was frozen like rock while the other bag not frozen. Have anyone encountered this? Any explanation?

sbux, i have no answer for u hope others will have answers for u...

guys, how does ur little one handle arguments between u n ur partner? does his feeding affected too?

the only explanation is probably someone took out to defrost then tak jadi then put back

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Added on February 8, 2011, 11:52 amwe never argue in front of baby (er.. except for one time when he exploded suddenly because of one minor thing i did) but i do know since breastfeeding is hormonal, i'd assume there were less happy hormones passed on inside the milk for baby - hence baby is less happy

but whenever i'm feeling down i'll talk to the baby - telling her how much she's sometimes the only reason why i endure certain things that i dont like doing. she'll smile and poof there goes my worries

This post has been edited by Syd G: Feb 8 2011, 11:52 AM

syd, good one... happy hormone mine still happy n bouncy just that he becomes more clingy onto my breasts... n nap oso little... at nite wakes up abt 30min to 1 hr... (hb not sleeping in the room so baby waking up dun disturb his sleep)...

Hmmm...where did you place these 2 bags in the freezer? the exact location? Coz..if the one that is not frozen was placed nearer to the door or at the door..that could be the reason.

I read somewhere that it's best to place right at the back of the freezer..reason because, if it's nearer to the door, we open and close thus hot air gets inside. Another one is if placed at the door, the temperature of the fridge is controlled right at the door..hence it's slightler warmer at the door area (if you touch it).

Or like what Syd G said..someone took it out and forgot to place it back..

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Added on February 8, 2011, 3:12 pmAs for me..we try not to argue but there was one time that my hb exploded too..and my son started to cry..but coz of the shouting. If not, it would be a cold war..so baby is not really affected.

This post has been edited by phythia79: Feb 8 2011, 03:12 PM

syd, phythia, the point of not arguing in front of the kids, was agreed by both of u beforehand?

btw syd, can apply for garage sales for pregnancy & parenting? coz stuffs for these r scattered everywhere~!!

This post has been edited by nicKit: Feb 8 2011, 08:39 PM

Urmm..no on my side. No agreement..just I make sure we don't argue in front of my son.

no i can be very sure that no one took it out and place it back cuz only me and hubby around and hubby swear he din touch it.

i put it at the back of the freezer.. 2 bags placed flat side by side. both with 240ml of ebm in it.

Hmm..now..that's very odd..

mutual understanding. he witnessed domestic violence first hand when he was growing upand doesnt think that it brings any good to his life whatsoever, so we're not gonna do it.

er.. garage sales ar?.. getting this subforum also already hard enough currently baby stuff goes inside 'stuff for the ladies'. i'll try to lobby for 'stuff for the kiddies'

sbux, mayb u can test try ur freezer wif some water... c if there's some particular place which is not cold it's my bright idea... hit me

syd, did u go to war for this subforum?

well, this is a bit odd... i dunno if it's growth spurt or teething... he's napping only for 30mins to 1hr... stay awake for abt an hr then feed for abt 30 mins n nap... repeat over n over even during the nite... if mil, she'll force him back to sleep... any ideas? it's been 3 days now...

Not to war, but it has been debatable for years inside the mod secret subforum. So since I'm available to moderate, they're willing to give it a chance. Given the fact that this section hasnt been closed yet, I say we're doing great yes? Give me some room to breathe first

Your baby is 3 months plus minus right? Yeap that's a growth spurt. Next one will be @ 6 months

oh syd, u need oxygen tank? ya... just a mth younger than urs :)how long did urs last? btw "auntie" come n visit liao?

Dunno what happened la but I took it down and feed my baby anyway. Tasted it and it's still alright.

sigh... my mil ask me to throw away my ebm... again... will clear them up before she complains again... i only leave 6oz in the freezer... the weather's so hot n to everyone, remember to drink LOTSSSS of water~!!!! it's killing me~!

oh no!! sorry to hear that lar...i know it's very painful

phythia, ya lo... will finish it off by this weekend lo... i dunno wat to expect next ... 4th mth coming soon...

i can't believe tat any1 believes processed refined food is better than natural...well...

be strong nickit

ijnek, thanks ya... be the force be wif me (since i'm able to joke, i'm still sane rite?)

so here's few questions for the weekend:

mil just told me if i continue bf, my breast will shrink to flat chest... anyone? hit me wif all ur might coz i wanna laugh at this one...

phythia, since ur boy is elder than mine, do u give him solid food first then ebm or the other way round?

i dunno how to cook so how to cook porridge for his first solid food ya? n how to puree food?

my boy can have 2-3 times of hiccup a day... since it's still within 6 mths, do u exclusively bf or give him water to cure his hiccup?

another question for phythia (), when ur boy was teething, how u go thru it? did he bite? did u give him something?

n feel free to ask more questions coz i oso wanna know