QUOTE(akrami @ Aug 18 2011, 03:11 PM)
agreed... like nowadays, husband are smoking, cost around >RM250 per month, using smart phone that cost >RM1k, shopping using credit card >RM200 per month, your perfume cost >RM150, not even include sport rims, car sound system, car body kit, LCD TV, home theater, handbags, expensive clothes and watches.... in will sum up tp thousands.... all those item are categorize as LUXURIOUS.... and during labor, some might search for BUDGET... it is not fair for the wife and the baby..... but if your entire life was in the budget mode, then, you are being fair to the family...... just my 10cent.....
QUOTE(lit_ching @ Aug 18 2011, 04:44 PM)
beg to differ with some of the points here. My wife was giving birth in HUKM, yes, there was nurse who handled the normal birth for my wife but i believe she is qualified to do so. Not least, plenty of medical practitioners on the spots too. If you told me the nurse will handle the c-sec, then only i will starting to worry, not to say that there is doctor who were on the spot too to monitor the situations.
if you are looking gynae who eventually the only one to help you for the whole pregnancy process, then your only choice is private hospital or engage a private doctor. This is not the case for GH
as for cheap or expensive, does it mean expensive = safety, ponder on it. may be you might not aware that if some serious case happen in private hospital, they can still refuse your admission and ask you to go GH instead, why they do so? may be because they don't want to take the risk or their equipments are not to the par for serious case.
having said that, the doctor's in the private clinic who we visited for routine check up told us that his hospital won't accept emergency admission for pregnancy below 36 weeks, does it mean they only welcome healthy and trouble free maternal?

Agree with you both. Everyone comes from all walks of life, different wants and needs.
But i wasn't saying that expensive = safety at all, sorry if what i wrote was misunderstood. I've also experienced bad treatment in a private/ expensive hospital. Tis why i will not go back there, even if it's just for a small matter.
I didn't know about this " if you are looking gynae who eventually the only one to help you for the whole pregnancy process, then your only choice is private hospital or engage a private doctor. This is not the case for GH

" -So thanks for pointing that out

Even if you have a lot of money, but your situation is very serious, they will still request you go to GH, cuz they have all the advanced gears and equipments. So i'm definitely not saying that if you have/ or don't have the money dont go here or there and vice versa etc. What i mean is that everyone should be wise and choose carefully when having a baby, the money needed to support, choosing a gynae/ doc, clinic, hospital etc.
Sometimes if you feel that the doc/ gynae that you are seeing is not right for you and doesn't match what you require, it's best to change i guess.
This post has been edited by SuggieBliss: Aug 19 2011, 07:21 PM