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 Enough Whining Already., THIS is why you fail.

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evilcold
post Dec 2 2012, 07:26 PM

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QUOTE(Glocker @ Aug 17 2011, 03:51 PM)
Nice guys who are playing by the rules and still can't win are usually playing a different game.

The REAL rules of the game are out there; it's just up to you if you can play by them or not.

5 simple things:

1) Friendship Zone: Avoid at all costs.
2) Never be a doormat. That means you don't have to say yes to everything. It's ok to say NO. BE A MAN, not a piece of rough textile used for brushing the dirt off shoes!
3) KINO! If you don't know kino or how to use it you are at a massive disadvantage. Go read up on it.
4) Take care of yourself and things will take care of themselves; that is if you try your best to look presentable at all times and not go out to malls in 5 yr old t-shirts and shorts and Crocs, chances are when you pass a girl you won't feel ashamed, but you'd wonder if they secretly checked you out or not, and it's highly likely they did simply because you looked your best in the situation. Confidence is a very big trump card.
5) Lastly, CONCENTRATE on your CAREER/STUDIES. It may seem counterintuitive, however sometimes all you have to do is nothing but your best to be who you want to be and that kind of effort attracts the opposite sex. Serious.

I'm nice, but if I really put my mind to it, things are just cause and effect. And the worse is she can say no, then you move on. D'uh.
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~tennisgal~
post Apr 12 2013, 03:25 PM

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whats the definition of mr nice guy? does this still exist.....

Think its all about striking the balance, one of the top management in my company said this to his staff. Trust is reciprocal, it takes two parties to establish trust and is mutual. If you trust me, then i will trust you. But it does not mean trust is build in a day? icon_rolleyes.gif

This rule of thumb applies to how we treat people. How much can we give or put our time to someone, when the other side seems to be so distant? sad.gif

So nice or not nice, i think it all depends also on the other side of the fence? blush.gif
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post Nov 10 2013, 03:28 PM

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post Nov 19 2013, 11:10 AM

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the post really make me doh.gif

but i still see innocent woman prefer "lay low criminal cool looking guy"~ wink.gif
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post Nov 24 2013, 06:58 PM

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Do you guys find this cheesy?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hJiYQSdIBc8

I am really into this girl and do you think I could do this? Should check their channel out btw, Malaysians doing daygame. Their videos pretty funny la
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post Apr 28 2014, 10:54 AM

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Why men marry b****es? because they are b****es too!
A good man is for a good woman.

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mudkipryan94
post May 1 2014, 01:44 AM

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QUOTE(nanananabilah @ Apr 28 2014, 10:54 AM)
Why men marry b****es? because they are b****es too!
A good man is for a good woman.
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post May 20 2014, 04:41 PM

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moved

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post Jun 9 2014, 08:37 AM

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Sincere and don't act so rush.
Tease the girl but don't give in so much.

Do not falter, especially your eyes.
Smile more.

Well, that just worked for me recently.
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post Aug 16 2014, 08:00 PM

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Ivan113
post Dec 19 2014, 05:32 PM

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what is wrong with being a nice guy?
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post Jan 6 2015, 07:45 AM

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Thanks for this =) it open up my mind
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post Jan 6 2015, 07:47 AM

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QUOTE(Ivan113 @ Dec 19 2014, 05:32 PM)
what is wrong with being a nice guy?
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post Feb 4 2015, 09:39 AM

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rely good advice ..... on the fist page

do all women feel the same way of nice guys?

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post Feb 5 2015, 12:07 AM

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QUOTE(Blissguy @ Feb 4 2015, 09:39 AM)
rely good advice ..... on the fist page

do all women feel the same way of nice guys?
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I think it's that men think they're being nice, when really they're being doormats. "Nice" guys on the first post is being sarcastic.
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post Feb 5 2015, 08:40 AM

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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Feb 5 2015, 12:07 AM)
I think it's that men think they're being nice, when really they're being doormats. "Nice" guys on the first post is being sarcastic.
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not to sure but I seem to notice the more u care less the more they are like supper glue.
the more you care the more they run for cover ... don't rely understand it.
there is no equal balance in love very rare and hard to find hmm.gif
believe92
post Feb 5 2015, 12:34 PM

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Manosphere anyone?

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post Mar 10 2015, 08:52 PM

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if lets say you have been a "nice guy" and suddenly you realised you might been too nice..and you decided to being lesser nice.

what will you do? doing nice thing less? lesser texting? find new hobbies? venture new things?
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post Mar 12 2015, 09:42 AM

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QUOTE(GoldenHorn @ Mar 10 2015, 08:52 PM)
if lets say you have been a "nice guy" and suddenly you realised you might been too nice..and you decided to being lesser nice.

what will you do? doing nice thing less? lesser texting? find new hobbies? venture new things?
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post Apr 22 2015, 11:28 PM

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Niceness, generally saying is good.
ie, listening, showing empathy, creating rapport with the person you're attracted to.
But problem is, Niceness could backfire if the person you want to attract IS NOT ATTRACTED to you beforehand, hence you fell into the trap of repeatedly doing things that turning her off. In other words, we call it the ''illusions of actions'', those actions aren't logical, or real; which comes from the place of in-authenticity or we call it we gonna DO something in order to gain someone's affection or attention. Indeed, it doesn't really need to do so, because if you love yourself truly, people are gonna loving you the same way.

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