i'm very sure dat she thinks dat u r bellow her league at dat time.....

thinking she can bag a better guy den den.
eventually, she just settles for u.

wisely said.

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Added on July 12, 2010, 9:38 am

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Jul 12 2010, 09:38 AM

sometimes, u need to know that "he/she is just not into u"... very rarely that by remaining persistant, the other person will finally open up his.her heart to u unless ur imagining it like in the dramas. instead of wasting ur effort waiting and hoping and moping, isnt it better to try other fishes?

sh1tty love dramas should be banned because what they portrayed is far from the truth, misleading and sadly, many unfortunate fuglies are entertained by it and sparks the angan angan in their heads.

As long as people don't mix the dramas and reality up lol

it's unlikely.

What if, u like the gal so so so so so much.....that even you tried to forget her alot alot alot of time by when in class u see her sitting nxt to your (love enemy-crossing her left facing him)...your heat felt damn damn damn damn pain...cannot focus study dy....

so is like, if u lost her, u would like lost your direction in life....ur feeling just cant let her go.....eventhough u tried many time.....so isnt persisting is better as u still got hope ??

nope. unwanted persistence is loathing, and degrading yourself in the process as well..

yes that phrase "I will wait for you" is sooo lame. yea go ahead and wait for the impossible. most of the time, when the girls dun like means they dun like. the more u linger arnd, the more they get tired of u stalking em. why not just channel that "waiting" energy and that persistence into tackling others worth tackling? if u reject drinking pee, persistance will not change the fact no matter how long u wait.

Yup, lets brainwash those unfortunate idiots who thought otherwise.

Hahahaha.my goodness.I cant believe these kind of reply.owh well,you can go on thinking whatever you like.man,you guys really give me a good laugh.

goodluck on whatever you guys doing.Peace.

n fyi,none of you all said are true.but up to you to believe or not.I'll be having the last n best laugh after all.lol

Then with all do respect, have your laugh in a corner alone, Mr AzureOfSky. Please bring your popcorns, porn whatever and go fap somewhere else. Peace...

Persistance will not work if you didn't try to improve your life at the same time, in that I agree, being blindly persistent is stupid indeed.

Imagine you and the other person are at the same point now and she has rejected you.

Now, instead of dwelling on it, try to improve your life instead, make it a source of motivation for you, date others and give others a chance to appreciate you further.

Years on maybe you'll meet the same person at a different point of both of your life and maybe, maybe you stand a chance if both of you are available, ready and she saw the growth in you as a person.

Or

You could dwell on it, and persistently making the same mistake over and over and over again, while standing at the same point where you are now while she has moved on to the other point of her life.

Peace

This post has been edited by Gr3yL3gion: Jul 12 2010, 05:59 PM

i dont think by just improving ourselves will turn a "No" to "Yes", not until the other party undoubtly, without force, genuinely starts to have feelings towards you.

To wait for a person isn't stupid; it's how you do it that's stupid.

Let's say if a person thinks to wait for the girl without doing anything; just waiting, not improving himself and giving blind persistence now and then. This is stupid.

However, if a person were to wait (as in not date others; maybe he just can't forget the girl and doesn't wanna date others) and improve himself whilst waiting, this guy is surely not stupid. At least he's not blindly doing something.

+1

true but still, if the other party have absolutely 0 (maybe even negative infinity) feelings, a thousand years of improvement also wont matter a bit.

Then erm.... move on?

Move on or continue stalking, your choice.

I guess you've made yours then.