I was persistent, but she didn't tell me that she was annoyed until the end (or the max, as Evangelistica put it).

She kept telling me she was busy only; I guess this was one sign, but I didn't think of it that way. *shrug* Already got blocked and all that; oh well...

It happens most of the time, Evangelistica.

She saying she was "busy" was before I told her my feelings, though; maybe she could see through my actions as to how I felt about her, but that doesn't make sense, then. It's not like I was bugging her before I told her.

AzureOfSky: She said she's not ready; not a big fat NO (yes, it might mean the same thing ><). That's kinda different, I suppose. Evangelistica is saying for those who has solid and firm "NO"s for replies.

Don't flame mee >< Just sayingg

As long as people don't mix the dramas and reality up lol

To wait for a person isn't stupid; it's how you do it that's stupid.

Let's say if a person thinks to wait for the girl without doing anything; just waiting, not improving himself and giving blind persistence now and then. This is stupid.

However, if a person were to wait (as in not date others; maybe he just can't forget the girl and doesn't wanna date others) and improve himself whilst waiting, this guy is surely not stupid. At least he's not blindly doing something.

This is very true, but not all is lost if this path is chosen. Maybe after a few years (5-10+ years?), the guy decides that the girl really won't return his feelings and moves on; he'll have much better chances with other interests thereon after with his improvements.

OR, the girl could just be very materialistic and goes to the guy back since he's so much better than before.


Thanks for the +1, vivienne85.

This post has been edited by Helldiver: Jul 13 2010, 06:12 PM

Anni, you see, by showing your romantic interest on day 1 you might scare the girl off. Girls nowadays tend to ignore people after a show of romantic interest; this is very hurtful. Some people prefer to be the best of friends just so that they can spend time with their interest.

Honestly, all in all, it's just how we view the situation; how we assess it. No one's wrong, no one's right. All I have said is of my own opinion, experience and view.

What's winnie boys?

No one here is wrong; stop picking on Evangelistica. No, I'm not on Evan's side nor am I on the other's.

Sure you guys might find him really annoying posting those "whining" threads and posts around CC, but have you guys tried to see things from his view point? Fine, you guys might be saying there's no point comforting Evangelistica but give him the cold harsh words upfront. This is true, but NOT every person is the SAME; he might take a few years to accept this "reality" that everyone speaks of in their own definitions and the other guy might just take a few months. I find it quite annoying sometimes, but I let it slide and try to understand him.

He has said before that he's changing, improving himself, before. That doesn't mean he can't speak his mind out. He's still in denial, perhaps, and he's just in the mood of not wanting people to go through what he has; this is common, nothing strange about it. Just let him do what he does, it's not like he's not allowed. If you are really finding him annoying and wasting CC, send a message to a moderator or an administrator.

And please, DO NOTE: I AM NOT SAYING YOU GUYS ARE WRONG AND EVANGELISTICA IS RIGHT. When people are in "denial" and others are not, it is common to feel that everything is right to those who are not in denial and whatever the person in denial is doing is wrong.

Evangelistica: Just ignore whatever pisses you off in CC; don't reply to their posts if you feel it disses you. Maybe try not to be so general about certain things as well, like saying most people do this and that.

Just my dua sen ^.^

This post has been edited by Helldiver: Jul 19 2010, 05:07 PM

+1 for your, sir. That's a very optimistic approach! Yes, his posts have truth, people just fail to see it sometimes. ><