QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 6 2010, 12:15 PM)
To those unlucky fuglies who got rejected, you might think that when you been rejected by someone you admire a lot or "love" for all I care, you think that "
I will try again and again until he/she accepts me". Well I tell you this, persistance is one thing but complete anoyying is another.
1. You might have this idiotic self concious in the back of your thick head saying "He/she is playing hard to get (jual mahal)".
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There is a FINE line between "I'm just not interested" and "Catch me if you can". Get a grip of yourself and re-asses your situation. Don't be fooled by your ignorance.
2. You have this idiotic concept of persistance is somehow noble and show her your sincerity.
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This is bullshit. You're in the top ladder of denial. Persistance WON'T work for everyone. Out of 20 of my colleagues, only 2-3 person have succeeded, and they look slightly above average for the least. They have charisma and charm to "strengten" their persistance.
3. No is NO. Simple as that!
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What makes you think that showing off your persistance will make her "NO" turns to "YES" just like that (snap)? Even if you live for thousand years, or be it both of you the last 2 surviving human in this planet, No is still a big "NO".
4. Persistance is annoyying.
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Imagine this. You hate someone to the guts, just by seeing him/her walking by in front of you or the smell of his/her scent. You want that person to stray along with you like an unwanted dog all day long? Calling you, texting you, sit in front of you, try to make joke to impress you. In the end, how would you feel about him/her? Totally loathing right?
5. You can't force someone to like you.
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You like him/her, but that doesn't warrant them to reciprocate your feelings! You dont have that rights. The world wont give a damn on what you need.
6. Don't push him/her to the max.
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This is important. Unwanted persistence will lead to loathsome and loathsome leads to anger and anger boils up to hatred. You don't want him/her to be pushed to the limit. He/She will change their number, block you from facebook, msn whatever. In serious cases, a restraining order will knock down your door. Down degrade yourself down to the floor, you fugly already. At least have some sort of dignity intact.
Hate me all you can, I know I speak the truth. Don't live in denial.
+XXX!
i agree with u dude
u do make me wake up
cause it somehow sounds like the uglytruth to things
Added on July 10, 2010, 12:25 amQUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 7 2010, 10:18 AM)
by sharing my f*cked up life, i hope to enlight few people.
if there was a "like" button like in FB i would have liked it hahah
Added on July 10, 2010, 12:30 amQUOTE(tech3910 @ Jul 8 2010, 01:08 PM)
if a person already in denial mode, do u think he/she will listen to the advice in dis thread?
he/she in denial mode will also deny ur advice.
let dem learn from natural course, let dem fall, let dem hurt, let dem feel the pain....it's the best way.
it might be the only way
but the truth is why are the hurt feeling this way is because
they thought they had done their best
they thought they had do all they could
they worked hard for wad they wanted
they just happen to fail on the way..
so dun give up is all i can say. sometimes u need luck in these things
and many other factors come into hand at the sametime
Added on July 10, 2010, 12:33 amQUOTE(becool725 @ Jul 9 2010, 02:36 PM)
Evan was right at some point, what he put down makes perfect sense.
Characters differeciate a person.
When a loser lose, he gives up. No hope, and will not try it again. Sitting at the back of the keyboard blaming everyone including himself. Spreading his awful experience to enlighten the lost ones. He thinks he is telling the truth and truth hurts. Agree but it is only the truth for loser.
When a winner lose, he keeps trying. He may never win but he tries his best hoping for the best. When it reaches a point where success is a never, he walks away with no regret. Experience is what he gains. He will be better off next time. Or he may just get what he had wished for because of all the effort he put in.
agreed! +1!
This post has been edited by starpillow: Jul 10 2010, 12:33 AM