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Serious Persistance WILL NOT work for everyone!, I tell you why

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[F]atalit[Y]
post Jul 9 2010, 02:48 PM

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QUOTE(becool725 @ Jul 9 2010, 02:36 PM)
Evan was right at some point, what he put down makes perfect sense.

Characters differeciate a person.
When a loser lose, he gives up. No hope, and will not try it again. Sitting at the back of the keyboard blaming everyone including himself. Spreading his awful experience to enlighten the lost ones. He thinks he is telling the truth and truth hurts. Agree but it is only the truth for loser.

When a winner lose, he keeps trying. He may never win but he tries his best hoping for the best. When it reaches a point where success is a never, he walks away with no regret. Experience is what he gains. He will be better off next time. Or he may just get what he had wished for because of all the effort he put in.
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Neither do I say he is wrong. But whining like its the end of his life? Don't u think its unfruitful?

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post Jul 9 2010, 03:34 PM

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QUOTE(FatalitY @ Jul 9 2010, 02:48 PM)
Neither do I say he is wrong. But whining like its the end of his life? Don't u think its unfruitful?
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I explain, not whine. while youn kept on replying when you said my thread was not your attention. or you whine at my thread also. shakehead.gif shakehead.gif
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post Jul 9 2010, 03:40 PM

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If ure explaining, why are u repeating nonstop?
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post Jul 9 2010, 06:03 PM

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QUOTE(FatalitY @ Jul 9 2010, 03:40 PM)
If ure explaining, why are u repeating nonstop?
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because some idiots just wont understand and still live in his la la land.
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post Jul 9 2010, 06:20 PM

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Then let them be. Its their choice. Some people are beyond salvage.
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post Jul 9 2010, 06:30 PM

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QUOTE(FatalitY @ Jul 9 2010, 06:20 PM)
Then let them be. Its their choice. Some people are beyond salvage.
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Nope. I just love to spread the misery so they will learn, and doubt. Doubt is good. I just dont want them to become f*cked up like me.
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post Jul 9 2010, 06:38 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 9 2010, 06:30 PM)
Nope. I just love to spread the misery so they will learn, and doubt. Doubt is good. I just dont want them to become f*cked up like me.
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How f**ked up were u in the past? blink.gif
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QUOTE(SwooshY @ Jul 9 2010, 06:38 PM)
How f**ked up were u in the past?  blink.gif
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Corrected..
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post Jul 10 2010, 12:16 AM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 6 2010, 12:15 PM)
To those unlucky fuglies who got rejected, you might think that when you been rejected by someone you admire a lot or "love" for all I care, you think that "I will try again and again until he/she accepts me". Well I tell you this, persistance is one thing but complete anoyying is another.

1. You might have this idiotic self concious in the back of your thick head saying "He/she is playing hard to get (jual mahal)".
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2. You have this idiotic concept of persistance is somehow noble and show her your sincerity.
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3. No is NO. Simple as that!
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4. Persistance is annoyying.
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5. You can't force someone to like you.
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6. Don't push him/her to the max.
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Hate me all you can, I know I speak the truth. Don't live in denial.
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+XXX!
i agree with u dude
u do make me wake up
cause it somehow sounds like the uglytruth to things


Added on July 10, 2010, 12:25 am
QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 7 2010, 10:18 AM)
by sharing my f*cked up life, i hope to enlight few people.
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if there was a "like" button like in FB i would have liked it hahah


Added on July 10, 2010, 12:30 am
QUOTE(tech3910 @ Jul 8 2010, 01:08 PM)
if a person already in denial mode, do u think he/she will listen to the advice in dis thread?
he/she in denial mode will also deny ur advice.

let dem learn from natural course, let dem fall, let dem hurt, let dem feel the pain....it's the best way.
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it might be the only way
but the truth is why are the hurt feeling this way is because
they thought they had done their best
they thought they had do all they could
they worked hard for wad they wanted
they just happen to fail on the way..
so dun give up is all i can say. sometimes u need luck in these things
and many other factors come into hand at the sametime


Added on July 10, 2010, 12:33 am
QUOTE(becool725 @ Jul 9 2010, 02:36 PM)
Evan was right at some point, what he put down makes perfect sense.

Characters differeciate a person.
When a loser lose, he gives up. No hope, and will not try it again. Sitting at the back of the keyboard blaming everyone including himself. Spreading his awful experience to enlighten the lost ones. He thinks he is telling the truth and truth hurts. Agree but it is only the truth for loser.

When a winner lose, he keeps trying. He may never win but he tries his best hoping for the best. When it reaches a point where success is a never, he walks away with no regret. Experience is what he gains. He will be better off next time. Or he may just get what he had wished for because of all the effort he put in.
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agreed! +1!

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post Jul 10 2010, 03:01 AM

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persistence can always be done in either smart or dumb ways
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Jul 10 2010, 03:01 AM)
persistence can always be done in either smart or dumb ways
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care to elaborate more Mr dattebayo? you said you're 50 something. sure there's something you can guide us.
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post Jul 10 2010, 04:39 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 6 2010, 12:15 PM)
To those unlucky fuglies who got rejected, you might think that when you been rejected by someone you admire a lot or "love" for all I care, you think that "I will try again and again until he/she accepts me". Well I tell you this, persistance is one thing but complete anoyying is another.

1. You might have this idiotic self concious in the back of your thick head saying "He/she is playing hard to get (jual mahal)".
» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «


2. You have this idiotic concept of persistance is somehow noble and show her your sincerity.
» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «


3. No is NO. Simple as that!
» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «


4. Persistance is annoyying.
» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «


5. You can't force someone to like you.
» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... «


6. Don't push him/her to the max.
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Hate me all you can, I know I speak the truth. Don't live in denial.
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Totally agree with TS~!! should have posted this earlier...by a few months...needed something to pull me back up... blush.gif
anyways nice thread and very 'detailed' explanation of "Persistence"... rclxms.gif rclxms.gif

QUOTE(dattebayo @ Jul 10 2010, 03:01 AM)
persistence can always be done in either smart or dumb ways
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and yes, dattebayo...please do elaborate and share with us more... biggrin.gif biggrin.gif

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post Jul 11 2010, 12:27 AM

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I was persistent, but she didn't tell me that she was annoyed until the end (or the max, as Evangelistica put it).

She kept telling me she was busy only; I guess this was one sign, but I didn't think of it that way. *shrug* Already got blocked and all that; oh well...
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QUOTE(aleluya @ Jul 6 2010, 04:46 PM)
True points; the more you chase a dog, the farer he will go away.
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QUOTE(Helldiver @ Jul 11 2010, 12:27 AM)
I was persistent, but she didn't tell me that she was annoyed until the end (or the max, as Evangelistica put it).

She kept telling me she was busy only; I guess this was one sign, but I didn't think of it that way. *shrug* Already got blocked and all that; oh well...
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Proves that I'm speaking the truth and not "whining" as some smart-ass claimed.
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post Jul 11 2010, 11:31 PM

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persistance to winning love is just a myth

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owh really?Me being persistance ending up getting the girl I want.I spent 2 years trying to court this girl and all this while she said she is not ready or said to me that I already know her answers.

However time well spent and in the the same girl is madly in love with me right now. Been together for almost 3 years right now.
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Jul 11 2010, 03:58 PM)
Proves that I'm speaking the truth and not "whining" as some smart-ass claimed.
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It happens most of the time, Evangelistica.

She saying she was "busy" was before I told her my feelings, though; maybe she could see through my actions as to how I felt about her, but that doesn't make sense, then. It's not like I was bugging her before I told her.

QUOTE(AzureOfSky @ Jul 11 2010, 11:36 PM)
owh really?Me being persistance ending up getting the girl I want.I spent 2 years trying to court this girl and all this while she said she is not ready or said to me that I already know her answers.

However time well spent and in the  the same girl is madly in love with me right now. Been together for almost 3 years right now.
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AzureOfSky: She said she's not ready; not a big fat NO (yes, it might mean the same thing ><). That's kinda different, I suppose. Evangelistica is saying for those who has solid and firm "NO"s for replies.

Don't flame mee >< Just sayingg ph34r.gif

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post Jul 12 2010, 12:15 AM

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"not ready" is another classic "on the hook" phrase.

the actual meaning is....."b my doormat while i'm waiting for some1 hotter".
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post Jul 12 2010, 12:39 AM

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at first she did say No.Even asked me to go find and look for other girls. I do have to add that she is one of the anti-guy type of the girl. In the end its all depends on the girl and ur techniques.

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"not ready" is another classic "on the hook" phrase.

the actual meaning is....."b my doormat while i'm waiting for some1 hotter".


Not in my case. Since I'm the first guy she ever go out and fell in love with.

This post has been edited by AzureOfSky: Jul 12 2010, 12:40 AM

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