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Serious Persistance WILL NOT work for everyone!, I tell you why

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TSEvangelistica
post Jul 6 2010, 12:15 PM, updated 16y ago

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To those unlucky fuglies who got rejected, you might think that when you been rejected by someone you admire a lot or "love" for all I care, you think that "I will try again and again until he/she accepts me". Well I tell you this, persistance is one thing but complete anoyying is another.

1. You might have this idiotic self concious in the back of your thick head saying "He/she is playing hard to get (jual mahal)".
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2. You have this idiotic concept of persistance is somehow noble and show her your sincerity.
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3. No is NO. Simple as that!
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4. Persistance is annoyying.
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5. You can't force someone to like you.
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6. Don't push him/her to the max.
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Hate me all you can, I know I speak the truth. Don't live in denial.

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Jul 19 2010, 05:23 PM
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post Jul 6 2010, 12:23 PM

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QUOTE(gs20 @ Jul 6 2010, 12:21 PM)
Don't just be persistence blindly. Find out the problem & tackle each of them:

i) Is money an issue?
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ii) Is look an issue?
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iii) Is it your oral hygiene?
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iv) Is it your sense of fashion?
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Last but not least, does she have someone in mind?
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post Jul 6 2010, 12:31 PM

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QUOTE(ThanatosSwiftfire @ Jul 6 2010, 12:25 PM)
Hahaha, this sounds much better =D
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let see what those people still in denial will flame me..
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post Jul 6 2010, 01:19 PM

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QUOTE(FatalitY @ Jul 6 2010, 01:08 PM)
U sure you're not looking at one who cannot accept the truth? This is like the third same thread I read from TS. Yea, what he pointed out is true....SO? Set your goal differently la!
Face or attitude? I think its attitude. Negativity will only chase ppl away.
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I will go on and on reminding those unfortunates. I wont stop. You dun like, so be it...
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post Jul 6 2010, 02:11 PM

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QUOTE(Mist0guN @ Jul 6 2010, 01:50 PM)
ts kena dump againnnn?
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nope.just to remind to some people who still living in denial.
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post Jul 7 2010, 10:18 AM

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QUOTE(matthewctj @ Jul 7 2010, 09:09 AM)
I thought persistance doesn't work for everyone? You seem persistent on sharing your sad life with the whole world ... it only works for you or you change your thoughts as and when it suits you? Be consistent man ...
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by sharing my f*cked up life, i hope to enlight few people.
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post Jul 8 2010, 10:29 AM

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As i expect, many idiots and denial-ees will see this offensive, while I just want to remind some people who still lives in his fairy fairy land far far away where everything is beautiful.


Added on July 8, 2010, 10:29 am
QUOTE(Neek @ Jul 7 2010, 06:21 PM)
+1

those persistent guys scenario in those tv dramas isnt gonna happen in real life.
so stop watching those lovey dovey drama and stop listening to lovey dovey shit songs.

think i wanna subscribe to evangelistica's posts. wahahaha
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post Jul 8 2010, 12:59 PM

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I'm not talking about me, im reminding those denial-ees out there that unwanted persistance leads to nothing.
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post Jul 8 2010, 04:23 PM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Jul 8 2010, 01:08 PM)
if a person already in denial mode, do u think he/she will listen to the advice in dis thread?
he/she in denial mode will also deny ur advice.

let dem learn from natural course, let dem fall, let dem hurt, let dem feel the pain....it's the best way.
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true. im just gently knocking some senses. up to them to realize or terasa. hahaha..
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post Jul 9 2010, 01:28 PM

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slayer12 you should go die la..
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post Jul 9 2010, 03:34 PM

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QUOTE(FatalitY @ Jul 9 2010, 02:48 PM)
Neither do I say he is wrong. But whining like its the end of his life? Don't u think its unfruitful?
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I explain, not whine. while youn kept on replying when you said my thread was not your attention. or you whine at my thread also. shakehead.gif shakehead.gif
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post Jul 9 2010, 06:03 PM

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QUOTE(FatalitY @ Jul 9 2010, 03:40 PM)
If ure explaining, why are u repeating nonstop?
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because some idiots just wont understand and still live in his la la land.
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post Jul 9 2010, 06:30 PM

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QUOTE(FatalitY @ Jul 9 2010, 06:20 PM)
Then let them be. Its their choice. Some people are beyond salvage.
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Nope. I just love to spread the misery so they will learn, and doubt. Doubt is good. I just dont want them to become f*cked up like me.
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post Jul 9 2010, 06:51 PM

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QUOTE(SwooshY @ Jul 9 2010, 06:38 PM)
How f**ked up were u in the past?  blink.gif
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post Jul 10 2010, 09:50 AM

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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Jul 10 2010, 03:01 AM)
persistence can always be done in either smart or dumb ways
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care to elaborate more Mr dattebayo? you said you're 50 something. sure there's something you can guide us.
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post Jul 11 2010, 03:58 PM

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QUOTE(Helldiver @ Jul 11 2010, 12:27 AM)
I was persistent, but she didn't tell me that she was annoyed until the end (or the max, as Evangelistica put it).

She kept telling me she was busy only; I guess this was one sign, but I didn't think of it that way. *shrug* Already got blocked and all that; oh well...
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Proves that I'm speaking the truth and not "whining" as some smart-ass claimed.
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post Jul 12 2010, 09:30 AM

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QUOTE(tech3910 @ Jul 12 2010, 01:07 AM)
i'm very sure dat she thinks dat u r bellow her league at dat time.....

thinking she can bag a better guy den den.
eventually, she just settles for u.
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wisely said.


Added on July 12, 2010, 9:38 am
QUOTE(tech3910 @ Jul 12 2010, 12:15 AM)
"not ready" is another classic "on the hook" phrase.

the actual meaning is....."b my doormat while i'm waiting for some1 hotter".
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post Jul 12 2010, 11:15 AM

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QUOTE(BoboTheGrouch @ Jul 12 2010, 10:22 AM)
sometimes, u need to know that "he/she is just not into u"... very rarely that by remaining persistant, the other person will finally open up his.her heart to u unless ur imagining it like in the dramas. instead of wasting ur effort waiting and hoping and moping, isnt it better to try other fishes?
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sh1tty love dramas should be banned because what they portrayed is far from the truth, misleading and sadly, many unfortunate fuglies are entertained by it and sparks the angan angan in their heads.
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post Jul 12 2010, 12:26 PM

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QUOTE(Helldiver @ Jul 12 2010, 11:24 AM)
As long as people don't mix the dramas and reality up lol
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it's unlikely.
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QUOTE(slayer12 @ Jul 12 2010, 05:27 PM)
What if, u like the gal so so so so so much.....that even you tried to forget her alot alot alot of time by when in class u see her sitting nxt to your (love  enemy-crossing her left facing him)...your heat felt damn damn damn damn pain...cannot focus study dy....

so is like, if u lost her, u would like lost your direction in life....ur feeling just cant let her go.....eventhough u tried many time.....so isnt persisting is better as u still got hope ??
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nope. unwanted persistence is loathing, and degrading yourself in the process as well..

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