Geez most of my close friends are girls. No i don't have any 'prawn behind the rock' ideas. Just close friends. Heck when their aunty come also come tell me.

ahaha tat is the extra advantage eh?

i also tell my close fren guys lor when aunty come.....

nothing to be shy off.....

Yeah,agree coz i always been told by lot of my girl frenz....this is normal i think...

well its normal to tell guys tat aunty visit
most of my buddies know when's my aunty visit
somemore sometimes they talk yellow jokes i oso just join in to talk crap with them
well, nothing geh, just some laughter around mah

just for laugh is okie

they talk always go blue n yellow...
so i also will tell them i will start thinking negative side..
then the will say..u think too much ady..too far ady...
come back come back!!!

u ..of course farrrrrrr away...too far. hamsap
ppl think in the box, u go far away....

sometimes yellow talk is nice and fun!!!
sometimes i would be the one who turn the jokes into yellow joke pulak ni
well, used to it and being kinda close, so talk yellow joke oso no problem
sometimes talk until too excited in the end all blushie face

Sincerity is all it takes to be best friends or not best friends.
Yes, it can happen but there is a boundary. If you could keep a limit, then good friends is possible.

Coz hormones do affect our emotions & feelings. And those feelings ain't neccessarily true. So...be alert!

well, of cos another thing is, both party oso must b open minded and clear enough lo
later all kind of misunderstanding pop up sure ruin the friendship

cos they so good in yellow thinking..
so i ma follow think think lah..
sometimes they simply say a word, also i can think negative side..
then when i laugh o smile..
they will say wat u laughing?
har...wat u thinking ar??
i just say..nothing lah..just some negative thinkings..
then they will tease me..
so bad...

hmm, i think can be friend, but not good friend.

you sure?
it depends tho; some even can be best fren.

why cant be good fren or best ?

can but need to set limit/border line....if not very easy get in trouble...
i mean will fall for that person...if too close

I will say that a boy and a girl hard to be good friend but just a friend will this is the limitation of the relationship between girl and boy, good friend mean that you will always with him/her . hang out together , play together like and out for drinks like usually how we having fun with friends most of them same gentle too..

Of course boy and girl can be really good, but "side effect" will happen to us without our knowledge..
Example: guy will become more ...what we say..gay?haha and girl become tomboy or a little bit rude..

i agreed with u ahsin.. My boy friends mostly is a gay because they not interested on me n other girls as well. so for me there is no issue with fall in love with your best friend!

and the others (who aren't gay) they easily misunderstanding with my friendly style... at the end, they will purpose to be special one.. ergghh!! i'm so sick of that situations oredi...

this perception is so so WRONG!!

i mixed with guys but i never change my behavior to RUDE and TOMBOY!!!...

Well~I never say guy and girl can't mix up together but for the good friend relation is really hard..
Imagine .. What if a group of guys start conversation about "dirty staff", you as a girl aren't you going to feel uncomfortable with them? If you say you would join them into that topic , i really nothing to say then~

This post has been edited by Ahsin1987: Aug 28 2008, 01:15 PM

Well, I have this bunch of friends, who are all guys, we will hang out at least once a month and always I am the only girl. They will sure have some dity jokes, so I also just join in talk some crap, overall we are fine and comfortable. They are also the one who I used to talk to whenever I have any problem.