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post Jul 24 2005, 02:51 PM

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my ever best frend is a guy
all my good good frens r guys ~!
so i believe tat gals n guys can b good good frens~

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post Aug 7 2008, 01:48 PM

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QUOTE(yeelin04 @ Aug 7 2008, 09:13 AM)
KVReninem : hahahaha...i also dunno o..i everytime also kena buli & tease till very teruk..from 100% confidence drop till 20% only...aiks.. cry.gif

addedon : i and my guy close frens but we dont like the god or lil sister thingy..
approached him b4 to be his god sis but he say it will nv happen in his life...
so? rclxub.gif
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kena buli? well, same here
my bunch of buddies are guys, or shall say 90% of my good friends r all guys
most of the time i only go out with guys n im the shortest, n always the only gal
so in the end im the one who always kena buli doh.gif but i oso whack them back xD
well, dah la cakap good friend, so we all know tat well but jsut play around
sometimes gals cant play de, cos too sensitive sweat.gif sweat.gif
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post Aug 7 2008, 11:05 PM

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QUOTE(KVReninem @ Aug 7 2008, 08:24 PM)
baby ..sensitive eh brows.gif  brows.gif  brows.gif  tongue.gif
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well, girls sometimes cant joke around de tongue.gif
a bit small gas sweat.gif
somemore when make a girl mad hor, susah nak pujuk n take long time sweat.gif sweat.gif
i wonder m i a girl or not now sweat.gif sweat.gif
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post Aug 9 2008, 02:13 PM

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well its normal to tell guys tat aunty visit
most of my buddies know when's my aunty visit
somemore sometimes they talk yellow jokes i oso just join in to talk crap with them
well, nothing geh, just some laughter around mah
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post Aug 13 2008, 06:06 PM

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sometimes yellow talk is nice and fun!!!
sometimes i would be the one who turn the jokes into yellow joke pulak ni
well, used to it and being kinda close, so talk yellow joke oso no problem
sometimes talk until too excited in the end all blushie face sweat.gif

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post Aug 21 2008, 06:31 PM

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well, of cos another thing is, both party oso must b open minded and clear enough lo
later all kind of misunderstanding pop up sure ruin the friendship sweat.gif sweat.gif
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post Aug 28 2008, 01:27 PM

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QUOTE(Ahsin1987 @ Aug 28 2008, 01:11 PM)
Well~I never say guy and girl can't mix up together but for the good friend relation is really hard..
Imagine .. What if a group of guys start conversation about "dirty staff", you as a girl aren't you going to feel uncomfortable with them? If you say you would join them into that topic , i really nothing to say then~ tongue.gif
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Well, I have this bunch of friends, who are all guys, we will hang out at least once a month and always I am the only girl. They will sure have some dity jokes, so I also just join in talk some crap, overall we are fine and comfortable. They are also the one who I used to talk to whenever I have any problem. tongue.gif
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post Sep 7 2008, 08:03 AM

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QUOTE(ayie1984 @ Sep 6 2008, 12:52 PM)
I think gal n guy can be good friends but the real question is;

Can the gf/bf of the guy/gal accept it?
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When you are in a relationship it never mean that you can not have friendship, if it is so, then I will need to reconsider if the relationship can last long or not. It's very selfish if you control your bf or gf friend scope.
Why can't accept, if you have trust and faith in your girl or boy, then shall accept about it. They will not betray you.
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post Sep 7 2008, 02:21 PM

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QUOTE(KVReninem @ Sep 7 2008, 10:24 AM)
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cant accept it also mean trying to be anti social and trying to be like no others but you only doh.gif

gah; that is soooo selfish  rolleyes.gif
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That have another better word to describe the person which is dominant.

QUOTE(eyez98 @ Sep 7 2008, 10:30 AM)
trust.. thats the toughest part in a relationship. But once the trust is there, then the relationship can move much smooher with both parties free to mix with their friends
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Trust? Why is it the toughest part? Well, when you meet a stranger, you allow the person to know your name, age and some brief details, it mean you already trust the person. If you accept the person as a friend, it mean you are giving the person more trust.When you are having a relationship with the person, don't tell me you can't trust the person, because by right you should b giving in a lot of trust for the person. It's not the trust lead the relationship to be smooth but it's the people. Some people they can't accept due to jealousy, dominant thinking and so on. It's all depends on one person's will and desire. Unfortunately, relationship it can't work base on one person, need both hands to clap. Since it involve both party, shouldn't both have some sort of agreement in the relationship? Some common thinking and idea of relationship? In a relationship, both party must give in and take, not just one person giving in and the other one take all time. It just won't work.

 

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