i don't know. i feel there must be a certain degree of trust between you b4 u should let him bring u out late and all.
so yeah, depends on the person.
Can gals and guys be good fren?
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Jun 7 2008, 11:10 PM
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well, i won't say ALL guys are like that.
i don't know. i feel there must be a certain degree of trust between you b4 u should let him bring u out late and all. so yeah, depends on the person. |
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Jun 9 2008, 04:04 AM
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Jun 9 2008, 01:16 PM
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QUOTE(crazy_pc @ Jun 7 2008, 10:07 PM) depending on wht the guy is thinking lo but nowadays where got guys just 1 b friends la.. dun b so stupid. nonsense when they say just friends... trust me. esp when they say send u home late at nite la, go out for drink late at nite la... it's all bullshit... unless u know tht guy VERY well den is another situation. or else... b prepared for the worst Idiots like you who post like this give us guys a bad name. I don't think you have any platonic female friends. |
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Jun 9 2008, 06:05 PM
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well there are people who just don't believe that guys and girls can ever be platonic friends
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Jun 9 2008, 07:34 PM
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Guys and gals can be good friends, just becareful though, just because you're friends now, doesn't mean you'll continue to be in the future. Things do change in time, its quite common for close friends to fall for each other. How you both take it from there, is up to the both you.
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Jun 9 2008, 10:51 PM
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QUOTE(宧el @ Apr 14 2005, 02:50 PM) Just wondering that can a gal and a guy be a good fren? My fren alwiz tell me there is no such thing as good fren between gals and guys. Sure the guy want something from you or in either way. Is it true? hmm...i do think gal and guy can b good fren...coz i do have a couple of good guy frens...i call them my 'chee mui'...i enjoy to hang out with close guy fren more coz they gave me true advise and they are there whenever u need them... and it is good to have them hanging around with me coz i feel more safe and i have ppl to help me carrying things... |
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Jun 10 2008, 11:42 AM
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I have lots of guy friends
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Jun 11 2008, 10:41 AM
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QUOTE(crazy_pc @ Jun 7 2008, 10:07 PM) depending on wht the guy is thinking lo but nowadays where got guys just 1 b friends la.. dun b so stupid. nonsense when they say just friends... trust me. esp when they say send u home late at nite la, go out for drink late at nite la... it's all bullshit... unless u know tht guy VERY well den is another situation. or else... b prepared for the worst crazy_pc : i strongly DISAGREES with your point of view...i can prove it that i have guys frens that r sincere for friends..i have gone out with several guys that i met thru net..and all goes fine.. i mix with guys frens more than gals...coz i feels guys are more understanding and wont get jealous for some stupid reason... so plz RESPECT FRIENDSHIP... |
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Jun 11 2008, 12:56 PM
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I agree with yeelin04, I don't have many girl friends, mostly guys. (Most probably because of the course I'm studying) And they treat me like a tomboy. I'm never a girl in front of their eyes. HAhaha~
I'm rather grateful I don't have a gang of girlfriends hanging out together always, because from what I see, girls tend to get into fight (because of jealousy or whatever) more than guys. A lot of drama going on. Perhaps I'm watching too much of Gossip Girl. |
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Jun 11 2008, 01:05 PM
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QUOTE(Elala @ Jun 11 2008, 12:56 PM) I agree with yeelin04, I don't have many girl friends, mostly guys. (Most probably because of the course I'm studying) And they treat me like a tomboy. I'm never a girl in front of their eyes. HAhaha~ I guess if you do not have a bunch of girl gang you do not know, again it depends on individual. Even in family there are lots of drama between diff generation. Prolly if u have a buch of forgiving and easy goin girl friends you do not get so much drama.I'm rather grateful I don't have a gang of girlfriends hanging out together always, because from what I see, girls tend to get into fight (because of jealousy or whatever) more than guys. A lot of drama going on. Perhaps I'm watching too much of Gossip Girl. |
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Jun 11 2008, 01:55 PM
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QUOTE(fujkenasai @ Jun 11 2008, 01:05 PM) I guess if you do not have a bunch of girl gang you do not know, again it depends on individual. Even in family there are lots of drama between diff generation. Prolly if u have a buch of forgiving and easy goin girl friends you do not get so much drama. I agree that it depends on individual. I had a gang of gfs back in high school and unfortunately they are neither easygoing nor forgiving. They backstab each other so much and I didn't really care about their issues ever since. |
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Jun 12 2008, 01:53 AM
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Yep... girls can be really mean, even evil to each other...
but between a guy and a girl... they can be friends, but not too close... i mean, it happens, but very, very rarely. and even if you find one such friendship, they most likely WILL have or already have a 'history' together... the chemistry is just too strong between two heterosexual people This post has been edited by shikuzika: Jun 12 2008, 01:55 AM |
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Jun 12 2008, 04:53 AM
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hallo friend...belum cuba belum tau..sudah cuba tiap-tiap hari mau
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Jun 12 2008, 09:01 AM
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sometimes if u gets to close to a guy then slowly slowly will begin to like him...haha..first impression too good or he is too caring...hahaha...
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Jun 12 2008, 03:29 PM
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Before got relationship,can..
After,cant.. |
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Jun 12 2008, 03:46 PM
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agree wit u woeijiann
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Jun 13 2008, 12:59 PM
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i disagree..
for me before can't, after can... at least you tried to be together and it doesn't work out, so u become friends instead |
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Jun 14 2008, 10:27 AM
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definitely
I have these bestie who shares all joy n troubles but we're not each other's cup of tea AT ALL |
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Jun 14 2008, 10:36 AM
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i got a lot of guys friend
always bully me only |
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Jun 15 2008, 12:09 AM
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QUOTE(julie~ying~ying @ Jun 14 2008, 10:36 AM) same with me here..i also have guys fren that eveytime also bully me at class..3 guys bully me 1 gal..coz i in class i sit only with guys..that y everytime what i say to them..including trying to BOOM them back also cant..coz they very good in BOOM-ing me back..when i merajuk a guy that sits next to me will start laughing... |
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