Instead of an affair what about ONSs? He has enough emotional burdens with the marriage, he just needs sex.

question, by sex being "not my thing" does she mean she doesn't like intercourse or any act that can be construed as sex?

coz well, if it's the former.. there are other things that could be done to errr.. ensure the husbands satisfaction

while TS is posting this topic in forum, i guess her husband already curi makan outside for dunno how many times already..2yrs +++..honestly can any guy stand without sex with his wife???maybe there are but the percentage i bet is less than 50%.. better get a doctor to treat the 'i dun like sex' mindset~~~

This is exactly why pre-marital sex is important. Can you imagine marrying a person who doesn't enjoy sex as much as you? Or worse yet, enjoys sex MORE then you?

u surely have a big heart.

TS do you thing forward or future properly? What if your husband go to find another girl to has sex.

What will be ur feeling that time?

Worst case is, if your husband has sex with another girl and he fall in love to the other. What will the consequences?

U will even mad and not happy on that time. Remember you still got 2 kids that need a warm family.

sex therapy!

I think this make sense.
Like someone else said, I've never heard of anyone who dislike sex so far in my life. There must've been something that has conditioned her to dislike it. Maybe pain, side effects, etc. but then, there are many ways to get rid of those negative stuff and enjoy sex.

chill.... tis is only a topic found by her through her sources. she opened tis topic juz for the sake of sharing and discussions

my opinion...
For muslim, men are allowed to married more than one..this will prevent husband being cheated...in this case, the women love her husband but dont want to have sex...rather than sharing her husband to prostitute, better for her sharing with someone she willing to share with...
indeed, poligamy is not easy(really2 difficult)....men should be fair with all wives..but this is the better way compare with sharing your hubby with b**ch and prostitute...

regarding premarital sex, i'm not agree with it...some might say it is really important to know your partner...YES..but to know what?how good he/she in bed? if ur partner REALLY good in sex, doesnt mean he/she also good to be ur lifepartner...some prostitute really can satisfy you in bed...but would u marry her?and being ur children's mommy?
Some people dont mind if their partner had sex before, but deep in our heart, we will feel something missing...and sometime might ask ourself.. "How my gf had sex with her ex? He good or me?Other people already touch, lick my gf body?".....How do you feel?

sex is a wonderful time to share with ur partner.....both parties can share how they want it to be and can explore each other...there is no right or wrong in sex...seek medical attention to cure the problem....

Anyway,just my 2cents..

Demi Moore and Aston Kutcher can, Madonna also can...why u kennot? hehe

seriously???? That's the basis for poligamy in Islam? Was written somewhere in Al-Quran or result of a study? I understand Al-Quran was written long ago but if that's a reason for poligamy, then that should change. Women are not comodities or even collectibles.

but seriously? to prevent men from being cheated? Women don't get cheated back then? So they came up with a law to prevent men from being cheated but forget that women can be cheated too? See the oversight when there's no female in the committee?

but really? really really? I dunno much bout Islam or Al-Quran and much less bout certain beliefs. (except stuff like what you can and can't do in Bulan Ramadhan, if during puasa then ter-makan, bunting syaitan, and pocong, stuff like that, hehe). Wait, can I use the word Al-Quran? or should Al-Quran be termed as Al-kitab by non-muslim? and what other words that I cannot use? Sorry, I didn't follow the proceedings for proper term to describe God for non-muslim. Er, I dunno how to put my point without using certain words lah. You get what I mean? I like to know more bout Muslim's views in family matters.

b4 u allow ur husband to do so maybe he already did it.

Like masturbating?

no sex no kids.leeds to no point of gettin married.

I suggest psychological help for the sex problem- it's actually a real psychological disorder, and it happens more commonly than you'd expect.

well. somedays are hornier then others.. but 2 years... omg.. i will kill my self i dun get any from my gf in days, well she feel the same of cos.. not forcing her.. is a wonderful thing.. maybe u should buy those cheap cloth.. have sex fantasy.. or have sex off the bed.. in the car.. thrilling~~ Sex is not only on the bed.. u can have it everywhere.. bring back the old feeling.. talk to each other more.. experience .. open up.. what u like what u dislike.. there is sure something or position or the way he do make u excited, horny.. or make u feel in estacy state..

hahaha. if one can't give it, n another wants it.. its time to open an option or find a solution.

1) i feel that there's more cheating going on with a marriage of 4 wives instead of having one wife n many girlfriends. after all.. legalities n etc is enough to get him fully ripped up!! frankly speaking, i'll be more than willing to share my husband with someone i don't know, knowing he'll come back each day..compared to sharing a husband with someone i am forced to know, n knowing he might nto be back that day n is satisfying someone else.

2) everyone have their points of premarital sex. n i support u in ur thoughts of it. as for me, i'd rather have someone with experience than someone that doesn't. i've tried both, n its a whole lot of difference. as for my partner.. if he can't accept me for who i am, n is going to dwell over split milk, its time for him to think whether is he being fair judging me over my previous choice n experience or the person i am now from the lessons of my past, looking forward for the future.

3) have someone come up to u n tell u that u suck in bed n imagine u keep needing pills or medication for sex. then come back n tell me how it feels like to be that person or to be the person suffering from in-completion. i rather go for a test drive... seriously.

While women are not sexual comodities, men are not sex machines... we are not here to shoot and forget... I love making love to my wife simply because I enjoy her affection and giving my affection to her.... sex to me not only " hi, undress, bang, clean up and fall asleep"

While men will brag and dream to have lotsa sexual partners and monstruous sexual organ, but in reality, I would rather have 3 inch d*** and bring my wife to "siezure like" orgasm..... The most important is she must enjoy our lovemaking and companionship....
For me, making love to the women I love is the best thing... even though you can buy any prostitute you want...

When the TS is not enjoying sex, there is something wrong... maybe childhood experiences or anything.. going for treatment is the best way... the worst decision is to let her husband
to fool around.... what if he fall in love with them... what will happen then?

This post has been edited by Masculine: May 10 2010, 02:27 PM

I don't remember I ever said this topic is about me.

lol~

How many times have you been wrongfully referred to so far?

kesian Sara Apples

you love your husband but not giving him your true love by sex..? what you mean..? not make love how to build love then..

how do u give ur partner true love through sex?