Apr 6 2010, 03:51 PM
QUOTE(MeruChan @ Apr 4 2010, 07:55 PM)
My bf of one year just told me he doesn;t like to hold hands or display any physical affection in public and he asked me to accept it. and say maybe just maybe he can change...but don't put hopes on it. So this is driving me a lil crazy. I dont wanna leave my bf just because he doesnt hold my hands. But on the other hand, what couple doesnt hold hands or display public affection that show them they are a couple. Everyone knows we are a couple so it is definitey not because he's trying to appear single. He just had never had a proper gf and never hold any girls hand before. He did try for the past year..but not seldom..just occasionally he'll hold my hand.for a couple of minutes..then he'll let go. And now he completely stop. And when I grab his arm he just shove me off...and we ended up having a big argument bout tat. But anyway the question is how can I accept the fact that my bf would never hold my hands? When I asked him is it for forever? he said no..mayb after we get married we can hold hands.. i think it's just bullshit and if he can hold hands then..why cant he do it now...whenever we talk bout this we just end up arguing..and whenever we go out and see couple holding hands..i just feel really uncomfortable. and make me extremely mad at hime and also really a lil self pity on my behalf 
what's ur tot on this guys? Are there any LYN-ers who is doing the same thing as my bf?? I think not.
I thought you quit lyn =P. what's ur tot on this guys? Are there any LYN-ers who is doing the same thing as my bf?? I think not.
That's a first, a bf who gives the impression that he doesn't appreciate the physical aspects of a relationship. I don't know, it's a rare case. Maybe he's just insecure? You need to find the reason behind him not holding hands perhaps get a guy friend to ask him subtlety, other than not wanting to be seen in public with you....
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same as mine, take it easy.
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