I said Excessive masturbation... Btw do you need to masturbate b4 doing it meh ? *weird* I just read some article that if you always masturbate it will effect your mental health on yourself...

no...u masturbate wen u don't hav any1 to do it wit......

hm.....share the article a bit......how often is consider unhealthy?
for me, i think 2 ~ 3 times a week is pretty normal.....

masturbation is easy...aiyo can someone plz tell him/her. Shy to tell u cause it's so open at here...lol

not hard to find sex? right.....................................

Agreed!
Even as a man, I also getting "choosy" for partner when I getting older.
Yup, I am still a cat who like fish, but will like to find the right fish. Else, 5vs1 will be better.

masturbation is a must for male/females before having a sex intercourse .

Just like doing sports , you need to warm up first.

later wen u got even older & still single.....
u'll bcom less choosy & F any1 dat u possibly can....

Is this true?
I never did that if I have a partner. Why u need it even u have a partner?
Maybe there is some foreplay, but definately not "Masturbate"


Bro, maybe u r too "hungry". not all guy is "universal socket"

Yes correct, obviously not a universal socket

I agree. Like everything else u can get bored of it. But if done with someone special, it's all the more passionate all the more spicier. + i get to wrap her in my arms and wake up to her in the morning.

lol. sadly.. i dont even enjoy 'doin' it myself' ~. n yet.. i'm doubtful with the word 'love'. how?

lol. i think that depends. some guys just wants to get in n out. they just need that sensation on the lower part of their brains in that case. n for some guys..its not bout showing love but enjoying it together.

as for showin' the love n appreciation... sex puts the flow of certain emotions but not enough to 'show their love' for everything. n if sex is the only time one can show his love... might as well just go find a sex partner n enjoy the love in bed. cause when u're out there, u're not gonna treat her the way she wants it (or at least hope for it)

lets talk bout masturbation. what's the fun of it? LOL~ i can never enjoy it... does that mean that i'm not afraid to reveal my true self?

the whole time, from my gal friends n etc... i learn that those that masturbates tends to reveal more of themselves to their partner compared to those that doesnt.

well, i think sex will increase the bonding between the lover and for me i think it is quite important.
not sex because of love and etc, but sex is to strengthen the bond between the two lover..
if the other party refused to have an intercourse, try to imagine what the other partner would feel,
devastated because the lack of a bonding... more often a guy will feel more devastated than the girl...
like how mens does not understand womens, same goes for how womens does not understand mens.
finding another partner just to fulfill mens sexual desire, that is just a total lust.


masturbation?
oh my..
you can't enjoy it or have u not done it correctly???? LOL
im kidding!
i dont think masturbate had anything to reveal about that particular person, it cant be counted.
when a person masturbate, lust thoughts usually take over.
and overtime it's not really yourself that you are revealing, its just the lust part of yourself.
unless you're a such a person that lust is so much of what it makes of you, then i dont think you're revealing yourself.
=)

This post has been edited by ReonLim83: Apr 14 2010, 01:58 PM

seriously, if i'm gonna see my guy masturbating in front of me n i'm not touching him.. the first thing i'll think is "which gal is it in his mind" n the next thing i'll do is walk away. so boring...

i think u meant foreplay / oral sex. lol

lol. in a way of saying.. it is more of sex is a tool to enhance a relationship. i think i stated this before somewhere. i wont say its a must, but to bond closer, sex will be a strong tool. after all the pain n pleasure than comes with it

masturbation..i do not enjoy it. it is different when u're playing with urself n when someone's playing with u. lol. i'm sure u know how that is like. ~ wahahahaha

lust.. what a nice term. ...i dont have must lust to last a full course of masturbation. i get bored within the first minute. i'll stay with the real deal n the real touch n the real taste n the real scent.

Oh mai.

hahahha like they always say, great minds think alike.
its an absolute tool to bond the relationship closer im sure.

wahahahhaha
ic ic, i dont blame you, obviously the real deal is so much better

i agree

U just need a simple guy who can simply love and be loved. =D

This post has been edited by Pinarello: Apr 15 2010, 12:09 AM

why is it hard to match man and woman? i myself also find it hard...just dun know why

its just an excuse. nobody wanna have sex with em

aye aye

lol. before i get that, i think i need to learn to love n share.