sex becomes secondary when u realize the pleasure only last a short period of time... while doing it with someone that means a lot to u, the feeling is just different.

seriously, if i'm gonna see my guy masturbating in front of me n i'm not touching him.. the first thing i'll think is "which gal is it in his mind" n the next thing i'll do is walk away. so boring...

i think u meant foreplay / oral sex. lol
lol. in a way of saying.. it is more of sex is a tool to enhance a relationship. i think i stated this before somewhere. i wont say its a must, but to bond closer, sex will be a strong tool. after all the pain n pleasure than comes with it 

masturbation..i do not enjoy it. it is different when u're playing with urself n when someone's playing with u. lol. i'm sure u know how that is like. ~ wahahahaha

lust.. what a nice term. ...i dont have must lust to last a full course of masturbation. i get bored within the first minute. i'll stay with the real deal n the real touch n the real taste n the real scent. 

hahahha like they always say, great minds think alike.
its an absolute tool to bond the relationship closer im sure.

wahahahhaha
ic ic, i dont blame you, obviously the real deal is so much better