i hope i dont end up that way when i'm after 35. but im havin' sex even when i'm focus on my career. just need to balance between sexercising n work.

n yea.. sex is becoming a lil overrated at the moment (although the pleasure n intensity is fulfilling ). its all up to an individual anyways... n sex isn't that enjoyable when there's no mutual connection with someone.

This post has been edited by djcarmen: Mar 11 2010, 03:59 PM

lol... no i'm not. had my share of guys to know that its not hard to find for sex, but its hard to find for a partner / lover that knows exactly what you want or how to please u. =)

sex becomes secondary when u realize the pleasure only last a short period of time... while doing it with someone that means a lot to u, the feeling is just different.

lol. that's the difference between men n women. guys just feel the sensation at the moment n have that need all the time. ladies, when they're doing it..their mind is wondering "is this right?", "does he like it?", "what will he be like after sex?", "will he still love me?" or "is this the only thing he wants from me?" kinda crap....

sex is not the best medicine but a fast route away from stress. it helps control one's emotions n etc. but doing it with the wrong person.. u can get worse instead of better. been there tried it.. kinda crappy after a while.

lol. sadly.. i dont even enjoy 'doin' it myself' ~. n yet.. i'm doubtful with the word 'love'. how?

lol. i think that depends. some guys just wants to get in n out. they just need that sensation on the lower part of their brains in that case. n for some guys..its not bout showing love but enjoying it together.

as for showin' the love n appreciation... sex puts the flow of certain emotions but not enough to 'show their love' for everything. n if sex is the only time one can show his love... might as well just go find a sex partner n enjoy the love in bed. cause when u're out there, u're not gonna treat her the way she wants it (or at least hope for it)

lets talk bout masturbation. what's the fun of it? LOL~ i can never enjoy it... does that mean that i'm not afraid to reveal my true self?

the whole time, from my gal friends n etc... i learn that those that masturbates tends to reveal more of themselves to their partner compared to those that doesnt.

seriously, if i'm gonna see my guy masturbating in front of me n i'm not touching him.. the first thing i'll think is "which gal is it in his mind" n the next thing i'll do is walk away. so boring...

i think u meant foreplay / oral sex. lol

lol. in a way of saying.. it is more of sex is a tool to enhance a relationship. i think i stated this before somewhere. i wont say its a must, but to bond closer, sex will be a strong tool. after all the pain n pleasure than comes with it

masturbation..i do not enjoy it. it is different when u're playing with urself n when someone's playing with u. lol. i'm sure u know how that is like. ~ wahahahaha

lust.. what a nice term. ...i dont have must lust to last a full course of masturbation. i get bored within the first minute. i'll stay with the real deal n the real touch n the real taste n the real scent.

aye aye

lol. before i get that, i think i need to learn to love n share.

women are having sex with more than 1 man!!! i agree on this ~ *ops*

go have it, n then come n tell us. enlighten us on ur feelings. if u're a guy n u want to know how a gal will feel, try anal ~

yes

sex is sex. in many ways it brings two people closer to one another, but in some...it breaks many things apart. i wouldn't say it is not important or it is important, as it depends on who u're doing it with n what u feel from it. of course the pleasure could be overwhelming to think bout it..

quite a fair bit..

how to answer this question...

had more than 10 men in a lifetime (4 months to be precise) but never more than 1 at a time.
n yes, i never had more than 10 this year. accurately, i haven't had even one this year. LOL~

oh, i'm waiting...

hahahaha... frankly speaking, i lost count after 1 month. KEKEKEE...!!

owh? i was supposed to keep a journal? ...great. i'll remember to grab one this year. (although i got a feeling its gonna be empty the whole year around) ~

oh yeah... GRRRrrrr... where's my men? ~ hahahaha... sorry, no longer play around. too bored of it.


i disagree... women can go on n on n on in one day without any limits. while men have their limits. n when a lady is high in sex.. that's the end. at times, can never be satisfied.

its not bout the money... but the willingness of the person to do it without a benefit other than pleasure. the reason y they dont want the connection is because they can't bare the emotions that runs around. its better not to be tied up when u're not ready than tie urself up n realizing how wrong it is.

prostitutes are always available at a certain price. but it is rare they have the fun that comes with it, since its all just experience n they're only willing cause of money. end of the day, u dont find the joy in sex.

literally...that's true. when a girl isn't comfortable, they wont enjoy n relax in it. n that's when sex is just horrifyingly boring. prostitution is a good business only because ppl is in need of being released n prostitution is an easier route around it.