Yeah, *sniff* It's a cool game.

no gf,wont die 1

aaannnndd.... what's the problem?

haha... im not dat stupid... read my signature... i bite gals... they dont bite me...

to d TS, my advice s bite others... sometimes kampung girls oso not clean anymore... clean girls r hard 2 comeby

You dont have to goto disco/pub to find one. Just look around. I never had one till Im 24 as well. It depends on how you perceive it. For me, my close buddies have had relationship and I was kinda turned off by how they were having to 'report' daily and night through the phone. Then there was this financial problem. Guys usually go all out financially to court girls so it kinda hurt the wallet.

You are fishing from the wrong pond dude..
Dun ever go to a place that you dun like to pick up girls.. You are picking the wrong type.

I see that people here are perceiving that never had a relationship till now (age 24) is nothing serious. You know what those non-playing girls told me? They said by the time I meet a right girl and the girl doesn't get serious, I'll be hurt bad because the clock is ticking. They said I won't be that hurt if that happened when I was 18-20 because at that time, it's still for experience. And another point they raised is that because not having any love experiences till now, it is hard for a person like me to understand what my right girl really wants. Even if I get her, she won't stay with me for long because I don't have the knowledge and experience to keep her happy.

However, knowing that this is the problem, I can't go all out to fix it. I tried to get to know girls around me but they just ignore me (don't want to talk more than 2 sentences with me) because they already have a first impression that I am a homey geek. Their first impression on how I look and dress already implanted and they won't try and change it because they think what they perceive is correct. How I wish girls would slow down and come understand me better.

kinokuniya in klcc has a whole big corner dedicated for japanese books, i like the eye candy there plus it's always interesting to discuss a book with a stranger

what i'm saying is, don't over think it lah. if you want to go find one, go find one

lacking the experience with opposite sex can be a drag

but you dont want to be flirting around - it can never turn out well

even if you think its ok, it wont

the more you go out hanging around the more chances you have, not in the sense of going out just to meet girls but in a sense of mixing around, cheers

If u cant get a moi, be gay or stay single. tat's it.

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Added on October 5, 2009, 11:19 amif u cant get a moi, mostly is ur attitude problem! u said u r attracted with taken girlz? wtf... wanna spannar? but u couldnt, tat's y posting here and complain nobody wants.

This post has been edited by LEE HOM: Oct 5 2009, 11:19 AM

They're being judgmental and stupid. Stop listening to them.

have you tried approaching girls that look like a homey geek based on a first impression?

Hey, miniskirt girls attract miniskirt lover boys,clubbing girls attract clubbing lover boys. Haha, remember that.

You know what makes me laugh? The fact that guys these days are so desperate to HAVE a girlfriend. Its like that must-have designer handbag on display.

People say they MUST have it, but for what reason? For the sake of having one?

gals tend to date earlier...that is true...

but about u being like husband look, dont go to club that type also can get gf lah...cos my bf is your type & around your age..also boring type but i doenjoy every boring moments with him..

Can't you make up your own mind ? What they said already make my stomach sick and I am glad I never meet them face to face. Heck, I pray that they better watch their backs.

Number 1, I did make friends with girls that look like a homey geek in first impression. They are really really geeky to the extent that nothing can separate them from their studies and storybooks. I tried calling them out, and you know what? FAIL

Number 2, Even girls that are homey and geeky actually have a wild side. I remember once, one my aforementioned friend asked a geeky homey girl to a picnic at a nice scenery park for relaxation and for some dialogue chances. The girl told my friend off saying it was boring and that his ideas suck. And I thought homey girls would like to go relaxing places like picnic and guess what, wrong deal again.

Number 3, Girls nowadays like to pin everything on first impression, especially looks. Even $$$ comes second. The same homey girl above told my friend about a new leng zai that got transferred to their class and my friend nearly fainted. The girl was so dreamy that he can't believe his eyes that the homey girl is actually crush-ing on a handsome guy with gold and standing hair and a pin on his nose.

Number 4, I can honestly say that balls doesn't really matter nowadays in getting girls. I tried asking a homey girl out just for tea for the 2nd time after the first, and guess what NO. Another handsome guy comes, and yes.

there's still time for u to find a girl...juz chill and enjoy yr single life at the moment