To all guys and girl, i just wanted to share my experience on a relation with a foreign girl from Philippines.

7 months ago, i met her in an Online game. I was disguise as a girl and ended up to be sisters with her. we both was very close to each other. Whenever what happened, we used to share it together. After that, she was inlove with a guy and i seldom stick with her anymore. Later on, she changed boyfriend again. I asked the guy who previously coupled with her. He says that this girl very spoiled. Very "Manja" and he cannot tahan.

After few months, i asked her. Why you seem to be changing bf so often? She tell me that those guys dont appreciate her. After this words, i feel like the same like her. No girls appreciate me either. I always got cheated almost 10 times.

Few weeks later, I've coupled with this philippines girl. on the 1st day, she called me. When i answer the call, OMFG!! Her voice is very sweet. Later on, i started to call her everyday. Our love was very deep for each other. After 1 month i've coupled with her, she start asking money from me. Ofcouse, i sent her. Since philippines economic is very bad, she can't find any job yet. So, she been asking money from me almost every month for her nephew medical and sometimes she going vacation somewhere with her friends, she asked money from me also. And recently, her dad was in hospital and she asked money from me also.

Many friends told me dont send her money anymore. She might be cheating me. Some even says if the girl loves me, she dont ask money from me. From what my thoughts, She asked money from me cause i'm the closest person with her now and i really love her. We dont know if she really telling the truth or just trying to cheat on me. If you love someone, you need to trust her. So far, i've send her almost 20,000 pesos. Extimated RM1,500. My friends always asked me to find another girl but they dont understand how i feel. It's not easy to forget someone you love and it's painful. We promised that we wont leave each other. so i must keep my promise as a man.

i always tell her that i'm scare that she might leave me like i experienced before. She told me to trust her. If you love someone, you need to trust him/her. I read many articles from websites. They says that Pinoy or Phillippines girls is loyal on their relationship. Phillippines girls is the best girl to choose as a long term life partners as they was a very loving and caring wife to their family and humble. Philippines girls was taught not to yell or shout whenever they're angry but stay calm and talk all over in a polite way. These article was truth cause my gf wont Yell or shout whenever she's mad or angry.

Recently, i have lost my job since company is closing down. I can't send her money as i promised her for her dad's medical treatment. She says it's ok if i can't help. She can try borrow money from other ppl. I feel sorry for her, but i send her money too even i'm jobless. But i told her that this is the last time i'll send her money untill i have met her.
It's not easy for us to meet each other cause she lost her ID card and need time and money to fix it. Then, she says her dad dont allow me to meet her but she still trying to talk with her dad. She told me that she can come to see me but i'll need to bear the cost for everything like valid documents and flight ticket. I dont know if i can believe her but i tried to believe her cause i really need her.

From the 1st day i start my relationship with her, i already prepare for the worst. So, i willing to gamble because i'm totally tired to find girlfriend again. Just hope i can meet her someday.....

This post has been edited by amane_kaoru: Aug 5 2009, 07:27 PM

wow.

how long have you know her liao?

Good luck.

so it was like 7 months oh ...

dude, been in your position before.

I would suggest you hold on to your guns first. All pinoy chicks has nice voices.

Mine was PRC and I spent more than you by the thousands. Just don't get too involved until your in pinoy land. Right now you have no information and information is vital to make a decision.


This post has been edited by KirklandLee: Aug 5 2009, 05:18 PM

picture?

Another Fruit.

I'm a bigger Fruit than Fruit man.

wake up man...

You say you're in love? How long have you been together any how? What made you fall for her? She's there and you're here right?

Dude, I think you should hold your horses. Sure, trust comes with love but you can't love blindly either. Many people have been dupped by women, get rich quick schemes, etc because they acted purely on emotion. I'm not saying she's a fraud but to be honest, I don't see any strong evidence to suggest she isn't either. What makes you think she isn't using you? Too often people see what they want to see rather than what is.

try not to be another fruit la. kirkland is the biggest fruit so far naoo.
from what i know,philipinos are somehow quite realistic. its difficult to understand sometimes. i know i cant generalize but be aware la k

spot on.

The only thing TS can do is chill and relax.

I got a friend who married a pinoy chick but he was lucky because they work in the same company and that company have a branch in pinoyland.

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Added on August 5, 2009, 5:26 pmciba|z....hahahaha.....yeah, but now i look back, i laugh at it

This post has been edited by KirklandLee: Aug 5 2009, 05:26 PM

That's for the reply guys. i was aware, but i plan to gamble on it. I really believe her cause i love her.

We cannot judge anything on love cause love is blind. We dont need reason to love someone. When the feelings is here, then we cannot deny it's love.

all the best to you mate!

okay la, just dont send anymore money. Just chill on the money part. The rest you can do whatever you want

i already told her everything yesterday. This is the last time i'll send her money till i meet her and she agreed on it. Till this morning, i called her. She still telling me that she loves me even i told her it's the last time i'll send her.

Well anyway, i hope she's serious about this relationship

sorry , i can't restrain myself from saying u dumb.
or perhaps too naive ????????????????????????????

internet game-->telephone calls-->$$

and u didn't even met her b4?

omg plz.

wake up.

can't u see this?

obviously she is just playing with u and any other guy.

move on plz, go find some chicks in real life.

dont be so silly.

u r not atm.

even atm need down payment .

TS, instead of sending RM1500 to her, why don't you spend this amount of money to fly to her and meet her up instead?

You don't have to meet her father, just meet her up. By the way, how old is she? Is she still under 18 that under parents' control?

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Aug 5 2009, 05:42 PM

It amazes me and still probably will, how do you love someone whom you do not know.

Maybe I'm the odd one out.

Side note, you used Yui in your avatar and siggy as much as I want to flay the actor for Kouru, I'll withhold my flaming cause of Yui.

Pinoy girls = SPG's . . .

Very sad to hear, i understand ur feeling ........... Coz i experienced before.

All the best to you

Many girls told me that. But i need to trust her cause i loves her.

She just reached 19. If her dad says no, means i need to respect that decision also.

you're a fan of Yui too? Maybe you can visit my forum for latest info. www.yui-station.co.nr.
Well, love comes from feelings. It's really hard to explain...

thanks bro, i hope things goes well for you

Thank you

So whats your problem?

you love her so much and trust her so much and is willing to give all your money to her. Happy ending then

Can we close thread now?

ya... kinda agree

since some of us told u it might be a tarp but u still saying u should trust her and decided to carry on... Do u still need advise from us?

sohai lar u , ppl dont love u .

ppl love u cash .

tats all.

love = give and take.

lulz.

u give she take.

how nice.

I cant believe this.

You like a girl that you never meet before? Now,you are giving her your money.

Seriously,have you ever think that "she" could be a guy that is lying to you? Or she's just lying you so that she can have your money?

To be honest,get out and meet some real girls.I mean those that you can actually touch with your hands,not just seeing them off the internet.

i think there's some mistaken, actually i didnt asking for advice cause i already decide what to do. i just wanna express out my situation and feelings here....

Yes! Meet Real girl!, fck internuts..so many Tarp around!

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Added on August 5, 2009, 6:10 pmbut u r 50/50 dude..

u r not sure if your are loving a wall or you are loving a person.

why dont when you see her, ask her this. if I did not send you money at the first place; will you stay on with me or you will create a mess that what others said? see eye to eye. You can spot a lie

This post has been edited by KVReninem: Aug 5 2009, 06:10 PM

he happy give, let him be la....i wish i was rich like ts.

TS, forgive me for calling you an idiot.

Have you even seen what she looks like? or if you have, can you prove that it is indeed her? You met her in an online game? for god sakes, how old are you? knowing pinoys, who are the a**holes of the online gaming world, she might be some whore probably conning you with her real boyfriend as the mastermind.

You have been blinded by fake monkey love, slap yourself and wake up before it gets worse! If she truly loves you she wouldnt be asking you for money, more so that both of you have never met each other. You need to start reading the news more often about how women got conned by sweet talking niggers who pretend to be handsome guai lous.

Anyway she reeks of a scammer. If you're still stubborn and want to follow this "love" you're feeling, i bid you good luck. You reap what you sow.

Stop trusting virtual love, especially ones obtained from playing an online GAME.

Damn i hate pinoys.

This post has been edited by Xonius: Aug 5 2009, 06:13 PM

Why ?

+1

So now that you have expressed it all out, this thread served no real purpose then

/closethread

well, judge ppl from what we see. there might always something hidden that we dont know. Not to say i'm rich or anything. i just wanted to trust her.....

i already asked her all over again, i just think it might worth to trust her cause i already said to her that i will stop sending her money already. so nothing to be worried.

wahhh... from what i see that you post, all about close thread only. seem like you prefer to ask ppl to close thread. Maybe you dont have to click on this thread if you're not interested... peace..

This post has been edited by amane_kaoru: Aug 5 2009, 06:18 PM

Yes. its worth to trust her

Filipinos are the most trustworthy people on earth. Their country is the best with ZERO corruption.

Enjoy your wedding bells.

It's just not a good idea to have so much trust on someone you never seen face to face.

Do you realise that why are we criticizing about your decisions?

Yeap,and you know where to find a lot of them.

Not insulting those who are genuine,though.

TS in the first place trick her so now its her turn. haha

thank's for the reply bro...
not only you all were criticizing about my decisions. my friends does the same. well, i dont really understand why dont try to trust her? actually no harm to trust her, what if it's true?

I just dont wanna hurt her, incase she was serious on this relationship.

i'm really appreciate all the reply here....

cant say anything since TS had made his decision.

Good Luck to you bro..

well, i'm not trying to trick/cheat ppl. by this, ppl donno who i really am and we can see many ppl's real person. like some horny guys.

dun ur parent teach u; never trust a stranger or anyone? else u will get the bite on ur ass later?

u want a level of love trust; bare in mind...alot people who trust always get screwed well or just lucky.

Cant u see all the lies in her.. a lie to cover another lie.. n tell me y u hv to foot all the expenses when she is here? She not yet ur wife.. n cant her look for other alternative to look for money to cure his father? dun tell me tat, b4 met u her father is alright but after meeting u they juz found out her father hving tis serious illness..

Well, in ur post u did state tat "u always cheated by gal".. now i know y it is so.. plz dun blame the gal tat cheated u.. but blaming urself bcome stupid n believe on them n not waking up..

if we think from different angle, If a bf dont trust his own gf. What will a girl think and how would the girl feel if her own bf dont trust her?

Sometimes, i really feel like dont wanna trust her, but no harm if i trust her since she's my gf. You all can call me brainless jerk or whatever but we need to care about the girl's feelings.

If a girl wanna cheat me, i cannot avoid and i didnt blame them for cheating me either. There's no point to blame anyone for being cheated. I remember i didnt stated on previous post that i blamed them

TS go on. keep on giving urself excuses. its ok. its normal to comfort yourself

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

well, Baronic will close this down i guess.. Since TS seems like blogging here instead of asking advises...

i'm not giving excuses nor to comfort myself. Different ppl have different thoughts. You said you been cheated but that dont mean i'll get cheated by this girl. You won lottery from Toto doesnt mean i will win lottery from Toto also.

Musnt predict the same thing you experienced till it really happen.

If you look at the NORMAL angle, before becoming a boyfren to a girl, both would have checked each other's family background first, meeting the parents and such.

So how much do you know about her? Since you don't even have the balls to meet her father whom you are paying for his medical bills.

Is there's a rule state that we can only post to ask advice?
Sorry, i didnt read the rules and regulations. if i really break the rule, then please close this thread down

Please close it yoruself.

its at the bottom left corner

lol another purist. From my understanding you two never met? why do u want to risk all to a girl u never met? I m not pouring cold water to you but be prepare for disappointment while being optimistic.

It's not i dont have balls to meet her family. You just talk like you know everything without knowing anything. i ask stated previously, her dad dont allowed her and me to meet up. You dont know the religion at philippines. Their parents is the most respectful person in their life. Please dont simply judge ppl no balls or anything.

Alright.. maybe i should not use the work "blame".. appreciate is better.. u hv done tis n tat.. u hv gave all ur money to them but them didnt appreciate it..

Good Luck then.

not helping? you are telling him to keep on digging his grave.

Why would i wanna close it? If i really posted the wrong thing, mods can close it. If i didnt break the rules on posting, i dont have to close it unless i feel like closing it. If you dont really like this thread, as i said before. dont have to come in and read.

I have stated in previous post, i already prepared from the 1st day i being with her.

most of the time it is oneself who have to realise how deep they dig their graves in.

Dear TS,

I have USD$50 million in a Nigerian bank account. I cannot withdraw it because of political trouble in Nigeria. I need RM50,000 to bribe the bank officer so I can withdraw the money. If you send me RM50,000, I will split 50-50 with you.

USD$25 million for only RM50,000! Good deal right? PM me.

i have a fren...same situation with you..


she is a foreign gal...from somewhere...(i dowan to be racist so i guess better not tell the region)

my fren is a married guy, she met this foreign gal and i dunno how they fall in love..and that makes my fren almost divorced with his wife because of this gal..there is once, he called my another guy fren "J" to go up to the hotel to talk cos he & the gal argue but less than 1/2 hours they got back together...

and my this fren keep giving money to the foreign gal as she kept asking..and he summore take personal loan from the bank to give it to her cos she said her dad or someone sick in the family n needed money..and its not a small amount..he spend on that gal around RM 10-20k's just because she asked from him..


p/s : not to be bias, just i dont think it's a good idea u send money to her ady..stop it.. and u never met her b4..u will never knows she takes your money n spent with other guys there...and i agreed with some forumers here stating "gf will never ask money from their bf's" and yes although i have bf, i never ever ask money from my bf b4..

If you're my girlfriend, i would send you but tell frankly, i dont have RM50k la....

Thanks to share this experience. i told her that i'd stop sending her money and she's fine with it too. She still love me like before. I agree girls mostly dont ask money from their boyfriend. but her situation is different and the economy at philippines also different. So, she might really short of money and no other alternative. Anyway, the money talk already stopped and she's agreed to it...

It's because it was a bad decision in the first place.

People over the internet arent trustable,most of the time.

cant you see? everyone is giving him opinions, at the end of the day its his choice. So im merely helping him since he wanna jump off the cliff. i push a bit lor

This thread is truly epic. I only needed to read half of the first sentence to burst out laughing.

TS' first paragraph already got my stomach hurt, j00 phailed !!11111oneonesatusatuyiyiyiyiyiyiyi

hahaha....hi im angelina lets go hunt for some pokemons

oh yeah..but to be honest, there r always gals that r honest although they took your money...

some might be acting and some might not

Quite frankly I think the TS should go dai

I don't know why I'm so mean today. PMS, or "limbic irritation"?

That's bullshit. Even if they're honest, they shouldn't as simple as that. If the guy is giving then that's a different story.


This post has been edited by KirklandLee: Aug 5 2009, 07:02 PM

yeah, i know but sometimes we dont really know.

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Added on August 5, 2009, 7:04 pmi agree with yeelin.
We cannot really tell if it's truth or lies. but you guys like to judge without knowing the truth.

Sometimes, we cannot judge anything by think about it. What if she's honest and i dumped her. It's really hurt her deeply....

This post has been edited by amane_kaoru: Aug 5 2009, 07:04 PM

Pls la...using excuse like medical fees is the most common 1 to get money frm some1 whether is real or not.And WTF...go vacation also ask money frm u??!!!???If her nephew and father really nid the medical fees then she shouldnt spend those money on vacation.Wake up dude

excuses excuses excuses. is like painkiller for the painful heart.

u meanie... LOL

i think you miss out something. 1st, her nephew having fever, so she need money for medical. after that, her nephew is fine and she wanna go for vacation. after vacation, her dad was hospitalized due to hi blood pressure. we wont know if it's true or not. What if it's true and i dont wanna help?

All you can say IT"S LIE!!!!. But the truth you donno it's real or not.
All was just assumed/predicted

Yes thats true,but this is a huge and unnecessary risk.

It's not like there is no girls in Malaysia.

We criticise it because we dont want to see you to get scammed.

The more i read,the more i think it's a scam.

How the hell would you go on a holiday when someone in a family is sick? Plus,you are in dire need of money.

when my dad is sick can u help me ts? i need like 2k for my dad's medical expenses.

hey why dont u try halting the $$? and see if she sticks around.

i'm explaining and you say i'm giving excuses. This is why i start the thread. i wanted you all to change the mindset on this issue cause i know many got scammed but we musn't give up on the relationship based on other ppl's problem. You all can easily saying i was finding excuse but why i need excuse? She didnt cheated nor proven cheated me yet.

All your mindset was selfish i could say.

sounds like you being cheated.
Imagine this if you can do anything for love so can she too. She can find a way no matter how hard is it to make it come true aka get her valid document. But do you notice she have so much excuse. So eventually from my experience it will only lead to ignorance then slowly fade then you end up heart broken. Imagine yourself giving excuse how will this relationship ends?

Online games have always been a lie. Honestly think again do you really need her? Because you lack of communication with friends and people around you it ends up leading to this in believe watever photo she shown u is beautiful

OMG, i repeated the same thing over and over again.....
I already stated in previous post, i already told her i'll stop sending her money and she is fine with it.
She still loves me and kissed me on the phone like usual. nothing seem abnormal....

look TS, just do whatever you want. Your money mar...good or bad doesnt matter, you learn from it. so FTW.

we are just giving the obvious answer but please prove us wrong la

Thank you for sharing. Please allow me to ridicule your thought processes, attitudes and actions.



Quite obviously female mimicry was an obvious tactic for you, having lived your whole life with your brain disconnected from your testicles.

A

Here's an idea: grow a pair of balls, or just reconnect the ones you already have with your brain.

Girls don't need another pu.ssy, they already have one under their panties.



HOW DID YOU COUPLE WITH THIS Filipino?

On the internets?? Oh wai- you mean you E-COUPLED with her. YES. E-COUPLED.



Despo.




Despo.



Despo is sure kanna.



What a stupid fu.ck you are, please do yourself a favor and go dai.



Your friends should falcon punch you in the nuts.



HAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!!!!

HAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! OMG WTF!

HAHAHHAHAAA OMG! I get it now.....

This story is not real, is it?

You're just trolling for reactions, aren't you? I can see the "pattern" and "formula" in your post.

Cool story bro.

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: Aug 5 2009, 07:17 PM

i can smell "CON JOB" a mile away.

i have been to ph on a very regular bassis and i tell u. those woman there can't be trusted.

well, as she told me it's financial. not cheap to fix the valid documents. IF she can settle by herself, she wont need me to help her on the medical bills. We donno what actually happen right there. You can think it's all lies but the truth we dont know. You cannot simply say i got cheated. cause still not proven....... I really like my girl. i hope guys and girls can respect unless got evidence proven she's guilty

THEN THERE IS NOTHING TO DISCUSS.

Cupid's Corner is not your personal blog.

I shall report this thread to the moderators and humbly petition that it be closed.

gogogo!

Bro, every girl is different. cannot judge all girls the same with only few girls who's guilty.
Malaysia have many robbers and rapist, would you say all malaysia guys are the same?
so please..... i'm not trying to defend her or anything. i just wanted to see the evidence before assume something

Grow a brain, or go dai.

I didnt say it's my personal blog. and i didnt use it as a blog also.
you can report it. If my thread really break the rules, i dont mind it's closed.
If it dont offended any rules, why mods wanna close it?

IT seem like you dont like my thread become hot topic?
If you dont like it, no need to read or click on it. If still wanna come here and look around,
please think before post

Either is the 11th times TS being cheated or is a happy ending.If u hav being cheated,can we falcon punch u?
BTW...u can leave ur online game's id here so after we falcon punch u,u can find another 1 but local 1 and start sending money to her again
Good luck

This post has been edited by HyourinMaru: Aug 5 2009, 07:25 PM

who you think you are? You have right to call someone to die?
I think your brain didnt grow up. Talking without thinking

so TS your point of starting this thread is to???

I fail to see the objective. What do you want to tell us? You want free flame bbq party izzit?

i have stated there. Just sharing your experience with foreign girlfriend.
i think you miss read that 1

KirkandLee have shared his experience. i really appreciate that.
same goes to yeelin

This post has been edited by amane_kaoru: Aug 5 2009, 07:29 PM

Please lor, like this called "foreign girlfriend" experience arh?

Teeeeeuuuuuuu...

NO!

This is called "Eating durians experience", but when ask HOW he ate it, he say "Ooo, I see a pictar of durian on internets. I really want to try it. So I google how it taste like and also smell like, then I imagines it. Yummy, so nais. Now I have eaten a durian."

NOOOO!

NO YOU DUMB F**K!

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No human being on earth is as stupid as this.

You're definitely a troll.

Next time, try the identity of a self-confessed child rapist. Even bettar.

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: Aug 5 2009, 07:30 PM

Dickson is also mean.



Okay,you can believe in what you want to believe,as your mind is in the love mode.Your judgment is clouded.

Dont come back to us once you got conned.Especially at CC.

In case you come back with a sad ending,i'll gonna bring any flamethrower/flame tank/flame plane/flame boat/flame shit/flame etc with me and burn you to dust.

You are mean.Dickson.

Still,thanks for the gist.

The pu.ssy is actually on top of it.

The bolded bit is the problem.We all dont know what will happen tomorrow and there is no way to keep track of it,other than contacting her directly.What happens if she lie?

Even couples that met,fall in love and got into a SDR cheated each other and break up.What are you chances of your little online love story would work? Have you ever think how much chances you have for this to work? What future does this hold? Is there any future in it?