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I Feel Suicidal Foreigner Girlfriend, Sharing & Expressing experience

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SUSVelocity
post Aug 5 2009, 07:14 PM

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QUOTE(amane_kaoru @ Aug 5 2009, 05:09 PM)
To all guys and girl, i just wanted to share my experience on a relation with a foreign girl from Philippines.

7 months ago, i met her in an Online game.  I was disguise as a girl and ended up to be sisters with her. we both was very close to each other. Whenever what happened, we used to share it together. After that, she was inlove with a guy and i seldom stick with her anymore. Later on, she changed boyfriend again. I asked the guy who previously coupled with her. He says that this girl very spoiled. Very "Manja" and he cannot tahan.

After few months, i asked her. Why you seem to be changing bf so often? She tell me that those guys dont appreciate her. After this words, i feel like the same like her. No girls appreciate me either. I always got cheated almost 10 times.

Few weeks later, I've coupled with this philippines girl. on the 1st day, she called me. When i answer the call, OMFG!! Her voice is very sweet. Later on, i started to call her everyday. Our love was very deep for each other. After 1 month i've coupled with her, she start asking money from me. Ofcouse, i sent her. Since philippines economic is very bad, she can't find any job yet. So, she been asking money from me almost every month for her nephew medical and sometimes she going vacation somewhere with her friends, she asked money from me also. And recently, her dad was in hospital and she asked money from me also.

Many friends told me dont send her money anymore. She might be cheating me. Some even says if the girl loves me, she dont ask money from me. From what my thoughts, She asked money from me cause i'm the closest person with her now and  i really love her. We dont know if she really telling the truth or just trying to cheat on me. If you love someone, you need to trust her. So far, i've send her almost 20,000 pesos. Extimated RM1,500. My friends always asked me to find another girl but they dont understand how i feel. It's not easy to forget someone you love and it's painful. We promised that we wont leave each other. so i must keep my promise as a man.

i always tell her that i'm scare that she might leave me like i experienced before. She told me to trust her. If you love someone, you need to trust him/her. I read many articles from websites. They says that Pinoy or Phillippines girls is loyal on their relationship. Phillippines girls is the best girl to choose as a long term life partners as they was a very loving and caring wife to their family and humble. Philippines girls was taught not to yell or shout whenever they're angry but stay calm and talk all over in a polite way. These article was truth cause my gf wont Yell or shout whenever she's mad or angry.

Recently, i have lost my job since company is closing down. I can't send her money as i promised her for her dad's medical treatment. She says it's ok if i can't help. She can try borrow money from other ppl. I feel sorry for her, but i send her money too even i'm jobless. But i told her that this is the last time i'll send her money untill i have met her.
It's not easy for us to meet each other cause she lost her ID card and need time and money to fix it. Then, she says her dad dont allow me to meet her but she still trying to talk with her dad. She told me that she can come to see me but i'll need to bear the cost for everything like valid documents and flight ticket.  I dont know if i can believe her but i tried to believe her cause i really need her.

From the 1st day i start my relationship with her, i already prepare for the worst. So, i willing to gamble because i'm totally tired to find girlfriend again. Just hope i can meet her someday.....
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sounds like you being cheated.
Imagine this if you can do anything for love so can she too. She can find a way no matter how hard is it to make it come true aka get her valid document. But do you notice she have so much excuse. So eventually from my experience it will only lead to ignorance then slowly fade then you end up heart broken. Imagine yourself giving excuse how will this relationship ends?

Online games have always been a lie. Honestly think again do you really need her? Because you lack of communication with friends and people around you it ends up leading to this in believe watever photo she shown u is beautiful
SUSVelocity
post Aug 5 2009, 07:31 PM

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QUOTE(amane_kaoru @ Aug 5 2009, 07:18 PM)
well, as she told me it's financial. not cheap to fix the valid documents. IF she can settle by herself, she wont need me to help her on the medical bills. We donno what actually happen right there. You can think it's all lies but the truth we dont know. You cannot simply say i got cheated. cause still not proven....... I really like my girl. i hope guys and girls can respect unless got evidence proven she's guilty
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Honestly if you dont dig out the truth who will? Since you already donate so much money to her. Go pay a private investigator and find out more about her. Some of us here already been thru it so much until we can identify a conjob and wats valid?

Its your love we only share our experience. Come on friend you think we first time fall in love? Weak person will let the heart do what it wants. A strong person control the relationship.

Do you know whats bragging? Thats what you are doing. You ask for advice and you do not accept people advice. Then go love all you want. If you are one sided close this thread and continue doing what you are doing.

If you want both side opinion learn to accept them.
SUSVelocity
post Aug 5 2009, 07:48 PM

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QUOTE(@lice~~ @ Aug 5 2009, 07:46 PM)
Dun worry.. i m not PRC o any foreigner gal  tongue.gif
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u could be fake. Or mixture of gender god knows

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