well, i'm not trying to trick/cheat ppl. by this, ppl donno who i really am and we can see many ppl's real person. like some horny guys.

dun ur parent teach u; never trust a stranger or anyone? else u will get the bite on ur ass later?

u want a level of love trust; bare in mind...alot people who trust always get screwed well or just lucky.

Cant u see all the lies in her.. a lie to cover another lie.. n tell me y u hv to foot all the expenses when she is here? She not yet ur wife.. n cant her look for other alternative to look for money to cure his father? dun tell me tat, b4 met u her father is alright but after meeting u they juz found out her father hving tis serious illness..

Well, in ur post u did state tat "u always cheated by gal".. now i know y it is so.. plz dun blame the gal tat cheated u.. but blaming urself bcome stupid n believe on them n not waking up..

if we think from different angle, If a bf dont trust his own gf. What will a girl think and how would the girl feel if her own bf dont trust her?

Sometimes, i really feel like dont wanna trust her, but no harm if i trust her since she's my gf. You all can call me brainless jerk or whatever but we need to care about the girl's feelings.

If a girl wanna cheat me, i cannot avoid and i didnt blame them for cheating me either. There's no point to blame anyone for being cheated. I remember i didnt stated on previous post that i blamed them

TS go on. keep on giving urself excuses. its ok. its normal to comfort yourself

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

well, Baronic will close this down i guess.. Since TS seems like blogging here instead of asking advises...

i'm not giving excuses nor to comfort myself. Different ppl have different thoughts. You said you been cheated but that dont mean i'll get cheated by this girl. You won lottery from Toto doesnt mean i will win lottery from Toto also.

Musnt predict the same thing you experienced till it really happen.

If you look at the NORMAL angle, before becoming a boyfren to a girl, both would have checked each other's family background first, meeting the parents and such.

So how much do you know about her? Since you don't even have the balls to meet her father whom you are paying for his medical bills.

Is there's a rule state that we can only post to ask advice?
Sorry, i didnt read the rules and regulations. if i really break the rule, then please close this thread down

Please close it yoruself.

its at the bottom left corner

lol another purist. From my understanding you two never met? why do u want to risk all to a girl u never met? I m not pouring cold water to you but be prepare for disappointment while being optimistic.

It's not i dont have balls to meet her family. You just talk like you know everything without knowing anything. i ask stated previously, her dad dont allowed her and me to meet up. You dont know the religion at philippines. Their parents is the most respectful person in their life. Please dont simply judge ppl no balls or anything.

Alright.. maybe i should not use the work "blame".. appreciate is better.. u hv done tis n tat.. u hv gave all ur money to them but them didnt appreciate it..

Good Luck then.

not helping? you are telling him to keep on digging his grave.

Why would i wanna close it? If i really posted the wrong thing, mods can close it. If i didnt break the rules on posting, i dont have to close it unless i feel like closing it. If you dont really like this thread, as i said before. dont have to come in and read.

I have stated in previous post, i already prepared from the 1st day i being with her.

most of the time it is oneself who have to realise how deep they dig their graves in.

Dear TS,

I have USD$50 million in a Nigerian bank account. I cannot withdraw it because of political trouble in Nigeria. I need RM50,000 to bribe the bank officer so I can withdraw the money. If you send me RM50,000, I will split 50-50 with you.

USD$25 million for only RM50,000! Good deal right? PM me.

i have a fren...same situation with you..


she is a foreign gal...from somewhere...(i dowan to be racist so i guess better not tell the region)

my fren is a married guy, she met this foreign gal and i dunno how they fall in love..and that makes my fren almost divorced with his wife because of this gal..there is once, he called my another guy fren "J" to go up to the hotel to talk cos he & the gal argue but less than 1/2 hours they got back together...

and my this fren keep giving money to the foreign gal as she kept asking..and he summore take personal loan from the bank to give it to her cos she said her dad or someone sick in the family n needed money..and its not a small amount..he spend on that gal around RM 10-20k's just because she asked from him..


p/s : not to be bias, just i dont think it's a good idea u send money to her ady..stop it.. and u never met her b4..u will never knows she takes your money n spent with other guys there...and i agreed with some forumers here stating "gf will never ask money from their bf's" and yes although i have bf, i never ever ask money from my bf b4..

If you're my girlfriend, i would send you but tell frankly, i dont have RM50k la....

Thanks to share this experience. i told her that i'd stop sending her money and she's fine with it too. She still love me like before. I agree girls mostly dont ask money from their boyfriend. but her situation is different and the economy at philippines also different. So, she might really short of money and no other alternative. Anyway, the money talk already stopped and she's agreed to it...

It's because it was a bad decision in the first place.

People over the internet arent trustable,most of the time.